Bisexuality questions

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Deleted member 281310, Mar 16, 2015.

  1. #1 Deleted member 281310, Mar 16, 2015
    Last edited: Mar 27, 2015
    let me start with a thank you to grasscity and all you blades as a place where i as a stoner can come and share my life with and occasionally learn from. anyway
     
    the past few months i have been declaring myself bisexual. i was finally tired of fighting my dick lol
     
    so this is my problem
     
    i am attracted to men and women but when i mastrubate i dont know what i prefer. i find myself looking at a mans dick and get turned on but i dont like men fucking eachother. the most i go is male on male blowjob but am completely attracted to women porn and even more to male on female. the other day i masturbated to gay porn for the first time and i cummed pretty quick but felt nasty afterwards (not guilty just nasty but also relieved) anyway i proceeded to masturbating to straight porn and then lesbian lmao just to feel better with myself. now today i masturbated to straight porn cummed rather quickly. then tried again to gay porn/shemales and just felt turned off buttt also a bit hesitant because at this point i feel like it's a decision and i dont want to take my homosexuality to the next level like i have always been willing to do with my heterosexuality. (im a virgin also). anyway i think porn is the problem and i need to start having a sex life it's just really hard as an overweight bisexual virgin addicted to porn. i'm not sure what i was asking.
     
    so i guess the question is not so much about bisexuality but about how to control and channel my porn habits in a way that is healthy and productive to my personality and body.

     
  2. 1. Turn off your internet.
    2. Go outside.
     
  3. #3 Deleted member 281310, Mar 16, 2015
    Last edited: Mar 16, 2015
    gonna take that advise right now brother... or sister lol
     
  4. In all honesty that is the only way to get over porn. Just stop masturbating for a few days and eventually the urge dies down and so will your need to explore so far into porn.
     
  5. Take Vegas Fire's advice. Also re-edit your post, we can't bring up names of other drugs here. 
     
  6. everybody is addicted to sex/masturbation. human nature is a natural thing... jerk it til its empty IMHO.
     
    now if your watching hours and hours and hours of porn and nothing but porn and cant live your life normally then i'd worry about it but so long as you are just getting off whenever you have an urge thats completely normal bro.
     
    if you think not watching porn is going to lead you to losing virginity is a bit unrealistic. it will happen when it happens just be yourself.. the right one will come along. choose wisely tho and be smart wear a condom.
     
    btw if guy on guy is something you like then by all means embrace yourself. you are who you are. dont let it make you feel dirty because of what others may think or say. guilt tripping yourself isnt going to change the fact that you are bisexual. there is nothing wrong with that. be yourself. fap wont make you go blind despite what they say lol..
     
  7. I'm lesbian but gay sex is super interesting to me ....not sure why ??never had sex with a guy ,never want to!! its fucking weird..even if my gf gets close to my ass I freak out lmfao whatever just random feedback


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  8. Yes you are watching too much porn.
     

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