I look like a kid :/

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by rastaziggy, Mar 14, 2015.

  1. So I'm in college and nearly turning 21. My biggest problem in pulling women is the fact I look so young for my age. People say I look 15-16, so how am I meant to get girls my age when they look older than me? Girls naturally are attracted to manly guys not 16 year olds lol. 
    Now that I'm turning 21 soon this means I can go to bars but honestly don't think I will because everyone will be staring at me thinking I've got a fake Id and women will probably laugh. Anyone had this problem or had a friend like that? How did they get along? thanks

     
  2. You need a summer in the weight room. If you can't make your face look manly, work on your muscles. 
     
    I have a very young looking face but a Hercules body. Shit's not too bad over here. 
     
    Not all women want a gross, burly/hairy man. Some want a good looking boy with a nice body and mind. Gotta play the hand you were dealt. 
     
    Don't get so tripped out over something small like this. Besides, you know how many dudes I know from college and hs that had nice beards but a little dick or a big fucking gut or both! Having a beard doesn't make you a man bc I know too many smooth faced beasts and bearded pussies for that to be the rule!
     
  3. Oh man trust me its not that huge a deal, I'm 21 and I have a serious baby face, it doesn't hurt my game much if at all.
     
    If it really bothers you try to grow a beard, really helps with the baby face syndrome. And yeah try to get in the gym, if your ripped as fuck you won't look like a kid for sure. And chicks dig hot bods.
     
  4. Thanks for the tip, but I will note that I have a very fast metabolism so i am very skinny. I literally cant put weight on no matter how much I eat, so muscle for me is too hard to obtain :/
     
  5.  
    Rome wasn't built over night. A hard body is not either. 
     
    Give it time. Diet, dedication, exercise, and desire. 
     
    If you look yourself in the mirror and defeat yourself with negative thoughts you're going to fail. Quit giving reasons why you can't get strong and start thinking of reasons why you're going to. The mind controls the body. You have to win the mental game!
     
    My roommate is 5'6". He has a fairly smooth face (can only grow a little chin patch) but he's a fucking beast. Lifts and works out and does martial arts all the time, and pulls pussy out of control. Here he is not even 2 weeks out of ACL surgery. 
     
    Attitude is everything!
     

    Attached Files:

  6. #6 lazytoker, Mar 14, 2015
    Last edited by a moderator: Mar 14, 2015
     
    I was the same way dude. I still look 10 years younger than I am but I can put muscle on really easy now... It can be a hassle but nothing to stress or complain over. Constant reminders from people can be annoying... Please don't avoid doing things you want to do because of fear of simple ridicule for looking younger than you are. Work with what you were given.
     
    If someone points out that you're "too skinny" or look too young, you could swoop to their level for a moment, and point out a flaw of theirs that probably causes insecurities. Not worth it imo, but I have done it.
     
  7. Man I had the same excuse/issue and still do. But the fact is I truly never ate as much as I should. 
     
    How many meals do you eat a day? And eating junk food doesn't count. You want carbs, meat, and veggies. 
     
    I don't have enough will power to count calories and shit. Or to workout but I stay active and lift a little, do pull ups, work in the yard etc. I have just been eating none stop. Every 2-3 hrs. I havent gained yet but it's been a week and a half. My metabolism is starting to change, it's like my body is getting used to eating more. 
     
    Snack on shit all the time too. Peanut butter is good, I have been going hard on that shit. And dried fruits are good too. I don't like nuts that much but they are healthy snacks as well. 
     
    I'm not even trying to be ripped or anything. I just want to be "fit" and not skinny/slim.
     
    EAT EAT EAT
     
  8. I have a fast metabolism too man, i know the struggle of trying to out on weight. But like the guy above me said, you just gotta start eating constantly. And eat healthy. At first you will feel full a lot but after a week or two you will notice you can eat more and more often and you will start being hungry all the time. Only way to do it man.
     
  9. Go back to high school.

    Teachers are fucking the shit outta boys like you these days.
     
  10. Smoke weed everyday. 
     
  11. Girls like baby faced guys I'm turning 25 this year and I still look like a teenager but the girls I've dated have all been about 3 years younger ...not bad just go to the gym
     
  12. I'm 23 and I look like I'm straight out of high school. Fuck it! 
     
  13. Your are going to love that shit when you get older. I look young myself, but now that I'm in my mid 30's it's great because I look like I'm in my mid 20's. When you can pull younger chicks it's not going to suck so much to look young. 
     
  14. i'm 22 with a baby face. i've had 4 relationships which all ended in me being cheated on/hurt/dumped. i have the worst luck, in fact the other day just as i was about to get a blowjob she threw up on my lap cause she drank too much. on the bright side she didn't have to see my small penis :laughing:
     
    but nah dude, like that guy said: play the hand you're dealt. girls, especially our age dont know what they want. they'll date anything if its hygienically clean, charming, and has a decent head on its shoulders. 
     
    getting some muscle can't hurt either, only highschool girls want the skinny kid with strangely amazing hair that looks like ronnie radke. also who doesnt want muscle? being able to lift things that other people can't is awesome.
     
  15. This will come in handy down the road. Don't fret.
     
  16. You watch Disney Channel brah? How young we talking? Like "Oh shit she's 15?!" Young or "Yeah I know she 15, problem?" Young?
     
  17. That's why I said he'd love it when he got older and when he could pull younger chicks. Context my man. 
     
  18. I'm just fucking with you bro lol you left it open for interpretation. At least on my end.
     
  19. Be careful man. You can try to call it interpretation, but some people might call it projecting. 
     
  20. Lol nah I just felt like talking shit . I was doing it all day today , you're the first to take the bait tho . GC showed more maturity today than I expected lol but of course , it's always that ONE person ...

    [​IMG]
     

Share This Page