Taking a break ever turn out good in the end?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Navcon2022, Mar 7, 2015.

  1. Howdy everyone!
     
    So, my question is, you and your ex take a break, or split up.  Did it ever work out better in the end?  Mainly focused towards more of taking a break.
     
    BACKSTORY:         (You can skip this if you want)
    My wife and I split.  Then came back together after a little bit to have friends with benefits thing for months, was great, i wanted more, but she wasn't sure.  Then I moved away, and she says, she can think more clearly, and wants to see if there is something better out there.  Even though she really likes me, and I really like her, and we both feel the same way.  But deep down, I know I don't love her, but I know I could again, and I know we both could be happy, just have to build new foundation on top of our past, if we want to.  So, we're split, and I really want her to start msging me again so we can be a thing again.  Shes gorgeous, smart, funny, chill, and quite creative and motivated when she applies herself.  And wow, the sex is amazing.  Brazilian!!!  Our past, wasn't anything bad, just bad communication mostly.
     
    Any success or straight up failure stories/advice here?

     
  2. When me and my ex did that, she just lost all interest, so did I. I still think about her and she says she thinks of me but idk, we just don't suit each other. And it's worth a try? If it doesn't work then you'll just be where you are now? I don't see what you could lose, just don't force it. If she doesn't want to then leave it at that :)
     
  3. I've never had any success when it came to a "break" tbh, if we did I honestly would just keep thinking to myself "God it feels so good to not have a man around right now" and it would end up staying that way.
     
  4. Breaks don't work. Haven't you ever seen Friends?

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  5. I'm taking a break now or whatever. We got potential to come back she just has a,lot goin on, she's overwhelmed. I can't stop thinking bout her when we left it was on ok terms but it's just a weird feeling. I just hope we come back Imma just try to play it cool. I know she thinks about me like I think about her. I told her u call me I ain't calling you. I just hope she does it sooner then later. We compliment each other well
     
  6. Yeah , breaks never worked out for me .. There was always some sort of bull that came with it afterwards and it just wasn't worth it tbh .
     
  7. Yes, but not the way you might think.  I was taking a "break" from my almost fiance' when I met my wife.  I say almost fiance' because I asked and she said yes, but I could tell it was a very timid yes.  After about 2 weeks we had a long talk and she told me she didn't know what she wanted to do and that we should take a break.  We didn't exactly break up, although she quit wearing the ring.  We would get together occasionally for a hook up and talked about getting back together.
     
    Then she met another guy and I met my wife.  So the break did turn good for both of us.  She married a guy I used to play ball against and he is a good guy.  Didn't turn out too good for him as she looks 15 years older than she is.  :O
     
  8. I have heard of breaks working but usually they don't. If it were me I'd move on. Good luck.
     

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