My dealer wants to be my friend

Discussion in 'General' started by CostaRicanWeed, Feb 27, 2015.

  1. So...i been buying weed to this dude for a couple of months now, as our business relationship grew stronger this dude thinks we are pals now or whatever. The thing is that i don't want to get involved in this shady drug world, i just wanna smoke the herb, any advice please, what can i do?. Thanks

     
  2. Smoke the herb one time w your dealer lol dealers need love too
     
  3. You don't want to get involved in "this shady drug world"..... Yet you are buying weed and it must be illegal where you are or your dealer wouldn't be in the "shady drug world"..... Here's a fkn newsflash you are already involved and sound like a douche for posting this.....
     
  4. If you're buying from him, you're already involved in the "shady drug world". But I understand what you're saying. Just make your visits brief and don't get too talkative when you're over there. Don't smoke with him if he offers while you're there. Make it clear you're not looking for a buddy without actually saying it and coming off as a dick.
     
    That's my best advice. I've never had this problem as my dealers are actually my bandmates and roommates.
     
  5. what does he do that's so shady?
     
  6. Omg he might even get to smoke for free!! What a ripoff
     
  7. I consider most of my dealers as friends.
    They don't involve themselves in the "shady drug world" as it's really just weed. 
    And a bonus, most likely if you're nicer to the guy, you'll see a better hookup in your bags. 
     
     
  8. My dealers are the best. I've "trained" em to just wait outside and call.

    So I get the call. Run outside. Do the hand off in about 10sec and walk away.

    Nothing more than quick banter..

    "You been aight man?"

    "Busy as shit"

    "Same here"

    Hand off

    "Take it easy guy"





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  9. Bad idea. I used to have this drug dealer that wanted to hang out all the time. So we hang out and he smokes me up and then I leave to go to work. I end up seeing this guy get murdered while I'm sitting in my car, and I'm freaked out and don't know where to go to. I end up going back to the dealer's house and hiding out. From talking to him we figure out that the murderer I saw was the same guy who sells my dealer his weed! Can you believe that shit? So we get really paranoid and take off, but get stuck in the woods with a dead battery. The murderer figures out who I am and sends some guys and the cops after us. It's all a HUGE mess and to make a long story short, we end up at some secret government weed farm where end up finding the best weed ever and get away from the murderer.
     
    You know, thinking back on it, that pretty much rocked. I wonder what that guy's up to now? I haven't seen him for a while.
     
  10. dude this is the pineapple express plot.
     
  11. Little did OP know...he was already involved in the shady drug world

    Directed by M. Night Shyamalan


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  12.  
    I know, right?! How crazy is that?!
     
  13. How does being friends with a drug dealer automatically make you a drug dealer too? 
     
  14.  I despise the saying "Dealers have no friends." 
     
     If you like him as a friend than be his friend. He is human, not some sub human garbage. How shady could he be? Unless of corse he is selling more than weed. If he sells hard drugs than I would stay away, wouldn't even buy from such a person in the first place.
     
  15. Before everything went legit and legal my dealer was my best friend and he still is. We've been homies for so long it's crazy. When I was a minor, years and years ago, he fronted my first HP. We still kick it every day and I'm married an shit.

    I've been kickin it with my dude since I was young as fuck like 11 or 12. We smoked my first blunt together, he never even charge me for him to make profit he gave me the same thing he got for the same $, we both been detained together and for each other, when my step dad kicked me out my dude took me in. How else a 15 year old walk around with $1,500 in his pocket, a place to stay, food to eat, etc.

    I'm glad everything is legal now so I don't have to worry about it. That's my blood though, he's like my bro. I'm not just friends with my dude, I'm thankful for what he did for me and I'm glad he's no longer considered a "criminal, sketchy, shady, thug". Now he just works an average job and no one knows anything about his past, they just see him as another human.

    That's pretty fucked up to consider someone trash or something because of the way they make money. The prison-industrial complex creates that shady world anyway. They'll give a record to a genuinely good person over some bullshit and what can they do then? No one's going to hire a felon, where are you going to stay til then, what are you going to eat? You're not, it's just not realistic, you gotta hustle.

    Your dealer that you don't want to be friends with is just another dude just like you or me or your other friends. He's basically "self-employed", he probably works around the clock, all day every day. No Sundays off. No weekends. That's hard work.

    But if I didn't get along with my buddy we probably wouldn't have been friends when he was my "dude" and we wouldn't be friends now. If you like him and he's nice and a good friend to you then why wouldn't you be friends with him? But I could understand if he was a dick and give you under weight or shit prices and obviously only sees you as a customer, then I wouldn't want to be his friend either.
     
  16. I think this guy thinks dealers are like on the same level as prostitutes or something. He probably thinks they degrade themselves as humans.
     
    Obviously doesn't know what he's talking about. 
     
    Weed isn't a 'shady drug business' or what ever. -.- smh hate people who think dealers aren't just like everyone else.
     
  17. Maybe the Op should grow his own weed!
     
  18. We're all humans, maaan. So you better chill with the dude.
     
  19. I do understand where the OP is coming from, when I first met my guy he wanted to be friends and for me (somebody who is used to strictly business relationships with hook ups.) It really scetched me out. Long story short, after doing a few more meetings and getting to know him and his son and stuff. I decided to hang out with him with no business transpiring that day, and it was a very good decision. He smokes me out, he hooks it up FAT. Its great, but nobody here can tell you what to do. Nobody knows how your guy acts. I've met some people that I wouldn't chill with even if you paid me. Sorry if my post is long and rambly, wake and bakes are great.
     
  20. Some dealers I've had were cool enough that I'd chill with them for a little bit. Others were either too sketchy for my taste, or simply not someone I wanted to hang out with for any amount of time.
     

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