Ever been in love with two people at once?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Anakinsmama7, Feb 26, 2015.

  1. What the title says. I'm curious.


    Yes, I have a story. Not sure I want to share it yet but want to hear others.


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  2. Hmm.

    I don't think I've been in love with two people at the same time.

    I think I've been in love and then liked someone.
     
  3. Yes, I certainly have. Usually more like in lust with 2 people.
     
  4. I don't think it's possible to be "in" love with two people at the same time.
    For me, when I'm in love, I'm all in. but that's how I roll. All or nothing.

    I guess there are people who are polyamorous. I don't know if I buy it.

    If you believe you can be in love with two people at the same time, then I think you can... But how we define love varies from person to person, too.
     
  5. I dated a chick who was bisexual and still loved her ex and wanted to date both of us at the same time lol
     
  6.  
    who says she was in love with you? Sounds like you were a rebound....
     
  7. I never said she was in love with me, just said I dated her lol
     
  8. Being in love with one person is work enough ...
     
  9. First you gotta love yourself, so I suppose you are always in love with two people:p

    Really though, love is hard to define and often loosely used. I believe there is love for all, and then a lusty love for another person. Not necessarily lusty, but bringing it down to one, and not all.
     
  10. Im with the girl i fell in love with freshman year, yet im falling for someone else now. Shits stressful, and not a situation i want to be in. I really wish the heart didnt want what the heart wants.

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  11. of course you posted this :laughing:
     
  12. No I have not I don't think I'd want to be in a triangle like that :/
     
  13. Gonna get drunk tonight I think. Last night I was so baked lol
     
  14. I never thought I'd be one of those people... But I am. I love my husband and my... Boyfriend? Mastress? Jump off? Can't find the right word... But I love him deeply. But I have no desire to leave my hubby. My life is so much better with both. Guess I'm just selfish.


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  15. Never have been, I can barely even handle myself [​IMG]
     
  16. Ive never even been in love with one person
    #sadlyfe
     
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  17. At some point you will need to choose. The longer you live the way your living (having them both) the harder it is going to be to choose.

    Do they know about each other???

    I went through the same thing. I Googled the question you just asked, read about polyamoury, even read about different kinds of soul mates...... but at the end of the day I couldn't have them both and needed to choose.

    I personally took a month away from them both, stayed with family out of state, and there was one I missed more than the other. The choice made itself.
     
  18. My husband doesn't know about boyfriend but boyfriend knows about hubby.

    I know down the line I'll have to make a choice, but I don't see it being anytime soon. And I kinda know what choice I would make.




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