I will typically smoke up my girl as much as she wants, considering she isn't greedy and doesn't have as high a tolerance as me, considering I almost always smoke concentrates. We both smoke each other up, treat each other, and match a lot. But we also get along really well considering we're 99.9% similar and we both thoroughly enjoy smoking.
Soon and very soon, this "idea" of generosity you are portraying here with the other half of this "stoner couple" will not be an issue....because if you REALLY ARE a " couple" what's yours is hers. Full stop. Period. Exclamation point. ! That will extend to your money, your bank accounts, your bud wiser in the back of the fridge you squirreled away behind the Hell man's for after work. There ain't no "his or hers" . That day is upon you IF you remain a "couple".
Personally I find this to be an extremist view at being generous with a significant other. We are both very logical and reasonable people who never fight (Been together for over a year), always work things out, and know the value of money and the possessions it can buy. I'm just as generous about my concentrates with her as I am my buddies. We know what we're both getting into and we are both very reasonable and mature people. I think there's a lot more to your hypothesis than just straight point A (Get a girl) to point B (She steals all of your possessions). You are definitely right in certain circumstances though. I've seen it happen. But thank you for the advice regardless and it is duly noted. Almost anything is possible.
Me and my gf have been together for 3 years and eventually the "whats mine is yours" becomes a huge wallet drain. I make a good buck.. and have enough weed to smoke around 4g a day, and still have a good $80 a day for whatever. so i spend lots of money on her, and let her smoke my weed. We started out our relationship like this, and we are still like this. Matter of fact i typically give her her own gram a day so she doesnt have to ask me to smoke. But eventually if you want to have a period in time where you wanna try to save money for a bit for whatever reason (saving to move out, saving for whatever) then these things become an issue.. becausw she still expects these things but i cant provide it and still save money at the same time. So it shouldnt really be like that. If they see whats yours as theirs, and you have $300 saved up but need to save ankther $300 before you can spend anymore..how can you save it if its your significant others to spend?
Not currently in a relationship, but in my last one we just shared everything. Made it much simpler, smoke the weed that whoever had, and if we both had then great!! Being high alone is great, but being with someone you really connect with when you're both blazed is even better! That being said, if he ever had to save weed or just didn't want to smoke it, then I was totally fine with it. I dunno if it's just me, but i'm generally fine with whatever's happening, i'm a kinda easy going like that, I just take it as it comes. I dunno if i'm just different that's what I've been told (tho I thought it was normal), but i'm all for peace, and I believe that'll only come from sharing I mean, does it really matter? You can always get more weed, but time is a here-and-now kinda deal. Make the most if it!!
I'm talking about MARRIED couples, lol. You dating couples can maintain your identity and possessions just fine. Enjoy the freedom ( and blowjobs) all that's over in most cases after saying " I do" " Your shit" becomes " our shit" overnight. No shit.
My last gf, we smoked a lot. We both had med cards, we both picked up, but I generally picked up more since I smoked more.
My partner and I don't live together, so we're not constantly in each other's stashes. It doesn't really matter cause we'll always share with each other, and neither of us takes too much. I always pick up for her but we have our own stuff. We share almost everything though.
My woman vapes and does edibles. I toke very little. We are medical growers so we have too much most of the time.
Currently single, but I've always been in the "smoke as much as you want" camp when it comes to a significant other. Also, I wouldn't date someone greedy who didn't pitch in her share either.
My wife doesn't partake. .but if she did it would be 100% hers if she wanted it...same for me if I wanted it...goes that way from cash to cookies. Total expected unquestioned joint ownership in all things....works well.
Actually just got in a fight with my significant other this morning about this same exact thing. I am generous....too generous. Its supposed to go someting like I buy the concentrates and then she gives me money when I see her (I usually just cop randomly, so she isnt there. The connects are also mine.) but that second exchange rarely happens so......there is the fight jajajjaja The thing is that I love smoking with her so I am just like smoking alone now just to prove my point....my point will be proven but this isnt as fun!
It's been so long since I was single I'm having a difficult time even trying to understand all this "mine and hers" stuff. I can't even remember if I EVER didn't just assume what was mine was also hers. Is there something to be gained by being possessive with your supposed partner....or are you not really " partners" except in terms of proximity? It reminds me more of a friendship or college roommate type situation.
what the fuck man thats you! I identify grasscity members by their pictures so much I didnt recognize you jajajajaj. I bet ricky feels jealous brotha!
i remember the night when i lost my virginity (to my future ex-gf) she saw a bag of some dank i just bought, probably only 2 grams though. We got naked and right before we banged she looked over a the bag on my desk and asked if she could have it after. my answer: laughed right in her face and said 'fuck no!', and then we fucked best night ever.