Girlfriend broke up with me today :(

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by tomble, Jan 28, 2015.

  1. My Girlfriend today told me that she wanted some time apart and that shee needs to sort things out with her life. After a little talk
    she finally decided to tell me that she had been cheating on me and that she is unsure about the whole situation. She told me that she
    still loves and even kissed me after she told me all this, which puts me in a very awkward position since i turly love her still too.
     
    I have no idea what to do and really want to fix our relationship even tho she cheated on me. She told me that she wanted to talk to  me online tonight to see where we are at in our relationship and i honestly dont know what to say and have no idea how to go about this whole situation.
     
    Honestly the whole thing is fucked and i am feeling very sad and upset at the moment. I just hope that i will be able to sort it out tonight, i just have this horrible feeling that she likes this other guy and that she is going to completly dump me. 
     
    I am very heartbroke at the moment and am just looking for any advice from anyone who has been in a similar position aswell. 
     

     
  2. you're sad and upset because your girlfriend is cheating on you. you know where the situation is at, why waste anymore of your time? 
     
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  3. Just say 'it's cool' and block her our of your life. Be a man.
     
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  4. bitches be trippin'
     
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  5. Hoe fo sho. Kick said bitch to the curb and find a new one.
     
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  6. #6 Exhazer, Jan 28, 2015
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    you got to leave her. no second chances. If you do your going to be thinking about where shes at, what shes doing, You think you might trust her again. but when shes not physically in front of you, your not going to help your self but to wonder. and fuck that messy life. 
     
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  7. Thanks guys for the feedback. I have talked to a few mates about this and they all pretty much agree with what was said on this thread. As sad as i am to say this, i think i am just going to end it for good. I cant be worrying about this girl fucking around with other guys.
     
     
    well said, thanks for feedback bro :D i completely 100% agree - Mainly because i know that feeling of wanting to know what she is up to since i knew something shady had been going on recently.
     
     
    On a side note she still hasn't tried to make contact with me as she said she would to sort it out, so i guess that when i see her tomorrow im ganna break up with her :(
     
  8. She broke that trust man, you gotta just bail on her.   I mean i guess it depends on commitment level and all that too.
    If my girl cheated on me, i dunno what i would do.  We live together, our lives are completely integrated, i cannot just leave her.. but if you are not so integrated.. get out.
     
  9. Kick da Bitch to the curb. go over there and bang her one last time then get up tell her it's over and leave.

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  10. If she only dumped you then I'd say give her some space and see if she comes back running.

    But she cheated which means she's either a skank or she has no respect for you. Possibly both.

    Run in the other direction and consider yourself lucky that you found out sooner than later.
     
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  11. Hopefully you think you deserve better than a cheater!
    Surely there are couples out there who recovered their relationship after such an episode, it's all up to you man...
    Personally I couldn't cope with it.
     
  12. Nope. Usually after cheating once, the relationship is never the same.
     
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  13. Go fuck her mom for revenge.


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  14. You could call her up and have her meet you at your house start making out with her and start making love to her then bam slip it in her ass and ride away. End of fucking story she will now be your anal whore.


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  15. Call her up and ask for her friends number cause u always thought she was hot.
     
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  16. #16 IllestVillain, Jan 28, 2015
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    Id keep playin that nice guy role youve been doin an dick her up an down a few more times.

    Oh and since you told your droogs, you cant make her your main squeeze again. They gon be like "Stacy ride a mean dick but dont tell Scotty cuz Scotty doesnt know"
     
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  17. #17 MrJamesDean, Jan 28, 2015
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    you let the bitch kiss you after she told you she is cheating on you!?
     
    she probably had left over cum on her lips from her lover when she kissed you..think about that OP.
     
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  18. #18 BloodBooger, Jan 28, 2015
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    Truth is, you're young....she's young. You would have ended up cheating on her at some point (don't say you would never....you WOULD HAVE, it's a fact of youth) she just got around to it first. Hate to sound so jaded but until you grow up...maybe 35, maybe 45, depends ) cheating in a relationship is normal, to be expected...not encouraged, but typical. That being said, the thing to do is to seize the high ground. Tell her how she broke your heart and lost your trust and you don't think you could ever trust her again.....leave it at that....don't agree to be "friends" cause she WILL ask if you can do that for her. She fucked up first and feels guilty and wants you now to help her clear her conscience. DONT DO IT. You WILL regret it later if you do. Just break it off, make her KNOW you are ending it and you don't think "being friends is a good idea...because of the " trust issue". She might come back begging for forgiveness or she might just continue to play around...your call at that point. TAKE the moral HIGH GROUND before she does. It matters..because your friends and hers will ask about the breakup and if you ever want a chance at any of her friends YOU need to come out of this as the aggrieved but right party....otherwise, she played you like a bitch. Man up now.
     
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  19. Dump her with Memes, then post it on GC for us :)
     
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  20. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=651E4R9RjAs
     

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