Hi blades, I am posting here again after a long time to tell you guys that I messed up because of weed. So, I haven't gotten high since 6 months ago just because I am to lazy to buy anymore. It's been a really long time and I just started smoking again like 3 days ago (quietly sneaking of course). I didn't tell my girlfriend about it. I am not ready to tell her yet though she knows that I used to smoke before. My girlfriend is a little clingy so we have to meet everyday. I only have time to smoke with my friends when I am not with her. So one night I sneaked out from home and smoked and when I am home she called and asked me to meet with her friends because she wanted to introduce me to them. I was high and so I said yes. So the next day we had breakfast and lunch and I went back home after lunch and thought, I should smoke again before meeting up with her friends. Bad idea because I get social anxiety and can't behave in front of people, even more so, to strangers. So I get the usual paranoia and I skipped the meeting. My girlfriend got so mad because she can't cancel it she had it all planned and booked the place. I embarrassed her and I just can't imagine how she told her friends that I didn't show up. I feel bad. I just told her I had to bring my parents out at the last minute (a lie of course). She told me she got so embarrassed and she couldn't accept my reason. She felt like I don't love her as much... I am contemplating telling her that I actually went to toke up but it would sound even more irresponsible. What can I do to make it up to her? Should I tell her the truth?
Hell yeah, good points. Fuck me man... It's just so exciting to have weed again after a long break I have no self-control.
lol wow people are nice, dont blame yourself its not the end of the world, chicks tend to overeact anyway
Relax bro.. just tell her shit happens, if she keeps bugging you just blame it on her. She is definitely a drama queen and the way to deal with drama queens is by playing the victim and always being attentive when she is around.. meaning do not get stoned when she is around... women over the years grew a sense to detect bullshit that men give them. So as long as you play the victim role properly you can get away with anything. Sent from my GT-I9507 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Girls smell lies like a fucking lie detector machine...I've gave up on lying to women all together lol
Yea bruv i know. But you always have to have that back up plan.. because they can grab these nuts and twist them.. i love strong women, it just gets me all fired up and ready for the shag shack excuse of a tuna can room i live in atm. Sent from my GT-I9507 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
if you would rather be free to smoke and not have to resort to lying about it to prevent relationship problems, you may want to consider where you two stand. Your lifestyles need to match for a strong relationship.
This is 100% true I dunno why but something about when my man is lying, I can just tell. He calls me a bloodhound. But OP, I'd explain to her that you smoked and got too anxious. She might be mad but it's better than lying and her potentially finding out later.
There is a time and a place to get high when you are a recreational smoker. No need to blame weed for your misuse. Would you blame the car if a blindfolded driver got into an accident? Just be responsible. I'm sorry things didn't go well with your girl, but I wouldn't lie to her, better tell her exactly why you didn't show up.