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Friend mad that I asked for her dealer

Discussion in 'Marijuana Consumption Q&A' started by Buzzkilla, Jan 26, 2015.

  1. #1 Buzzkilla, Jan 26, 2015
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    My regular guy was dry yesterday so I reached out to a few friends for links. One of them is a good friend of mine who is very sensitive and has a history of taking innocuous things personally and getting offended.
     
    She told me I could just grab from her, but I've grabbed small amounts from her before and she has tried to charge me $15 for a gram. Which is BS.
     
    Where I live, it's almost ALWAYS 10/g with more discounts once you're buying in bulk. But I never dispute prices and because she and her bf are my good friends, I thought it would be better to keep it that way rather than going to them as my dealers. 
     
    I hadn't even grabbed from her in MONTHS and when I asked her if I could have her dealer's number she got very defensive. First she said he only chops in bulk (an ounce or more) then she said it was offensive that I was asking for her dealer when she could just chop me herself. I told her that I meant no offence and I only wanted a dealer, not a middleman situation but she was still very offended and let me know so. 
     
    She then said "you should have just told me if you think my prices are too high. I never tried to rip you off, i always gave you extra"
     
    Which I know is BS because how is 15/g "giving extra"? I was only trying to be respectful and not dispute her prices and just stay friends. 
     
    I eventually just dropped the conversation because once she gets worked up, there's no point trying to calm her down.
     
    What I want to know is, was I in the wrong for asking her for her link? She's not really a dealer, she's been a middle man for me a FEW times in the past (for a few gs at a time) so I figured it would be okay asking her for a link. 
     
    Cliffs:
    -regular dealer was dry, ask friend who has been a middle-man for her link
    -friend gets offended
    -I try to explain that I just want to go straight to a dealer not a middle-man situation
    -she takes it as me trying to accuse her of ripping me off and trying to go around to the guy above her.
    -I ask another friend (A CHILL FRIEND) for a link and they hook me up no problem in a few mins 
    -Still rattled that my first friend would go ballistic over something like that

     
  2. Honestly, she doesn't sound like much of a friend. Charging you more then standard price is obviously not what friends do. It kind of sounds like she just wants money and got offended that god forbid you don't want to get ripped off by your own "friend".
     
  3. She sounds batshit


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  4. #4 Stoned Newbie, Jan 26, 2015
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    He's right :)
     
  5.  
    The messed up part is if I had called her out on that, she would have FLIPPED. But when I ask her for her link, she tries to play it off like I should've been straight up with her and complained about her prices instead. LOL logic 
     
  6. She being Cray Cray and just tryna make an extra buck. A real friend wouldnt care one bit to hook u up with their connect

    Party at my house
     
  7.  
    I'm getting that feeling too. After that debacle with her I messaged my other friend (who albeit does not chop/middleman) who hooked me up with their connect in a few minutes. Even offered to vouch for me to make sure the guy would respond. 
     
  8. It depends. Some dealers don't do the meeting random people thing, I used to be one of them as a dealer. If someone's friend wanted they would have to go through that person to get it. This usually only applies to people selling half ounces as a minimum, not the guy selling grams at school.
     
  9.  
    I understand that, but I don't think that was the issue. First my friend tried to play it off like "my guy only wants new customers if they bulk buy" as the reason she couldn't refer me.
     
    Then I said I would grab an ounce (his minimum) and she got even more offended. I guess she realized how much money it would be and was mad her dealer, not her, would profit. 
     
    In the end it worked out well, I stopped responding to her accusatory texts and messaged my other friend who gladly hooked me up with their dealer. Ended up grabbing a half O of some nice stuff :) 
     
  10. Awesome man. If shes gonna be that greedy, then fuck her. Even if you've been friends with her for a while, you can't put up with her shit.
     
  11. Glad it worked out. Some people enjoy feeling like THEY are the supplier - makes them feel...I dunno... important?
     
  12. She is a typical " Cee U Next Tuesday"
     
  13. Sounds like a real "friend".
     
    :confused:
     
  14.  
    I know but we go way back and have been through a lot together. The only bad part is her tendency to take everything personally and start fights. I've had to distance myself from her before because of this. 
     
  15. Shoulda grabbed her right in the pussy..
     
  16. Maybe her spidey-sense was tingling that you are the type of person to trash-talk about her behind her back, and that is why she decided not to trust you?
     
  17.  
    ...Okay internet stranger. Clearly you know more about the dynamic and history of our friendship than I do. *snort*
     
  18. #18 puddleglum, Jan 26, 2015
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    My point exactly: you are airing dirty laundry (complaining that she is trying to rip you off etc) about your "friend" to asshole internet strangers like me. Why would she trust you with her dealer's contact when you obviously have no concept of privacy or respect?
     
  19. Lol

    Party at my house
     
  20. You act like he went to his whole circle of friends and told them she is crazy and will rip you off... that's gossiping. He just wanted to know if he was in the wrong.
     

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