okay, so I was chilling with my roommate and my other friend yesterday, and we didn't really have any plans for the day, So we decided we were going to buy a bunch of bud, and smoke up the whole day. we just bought our bud we were chilling in the living room, and my friend gets a phone call. it was his other friend asking if he could come smoke with us. i'm always down to meet new people it's one of my favorite things to do, so i was like "sure, sounds like fun." I regret it so much -.- so first things first, the kid was like an hour late because he stopped to get food. so we were just chilling in the living room and the kid bursts through the front door, didn't even knock, threw his empty steak n shake bags on the counter, walks right past my roommate and I when we tried to introduce ourselves, and and goes to my other friend. That seemed a quite rude to me, but i dont particularly like confrontation unless absoluty nessecary, so i walked up to him and attempted to introduce myself again. and when I did his only response was "um..okay?" and he turned back talking to my other friend. I has come to the conclusion that this kid was an asshole. so I went over to our table and rolled up a j. I just want to smoke up and forget about this kid. well, I finished rolling the J, and instantly, this kid comes over, and says "I wanna spark it!" and he takes it from me… Pulls out a lighter… And lights it. I was just so in awe. no one has ever taken a joint right out of my hand and Sparked before. that shit pissed me the fuck off. i didnt get a chance to look it over. so I got up, took my J out of his hand, and said, "never.. do that again" and I walked over to the couch and started chiefin on the j. I let my friend and the kid roll up there own J with my bud. (big mistake on my part) the whole time, the kid was just complaining and being completely obnoxious. he took another hit and he was like "wow, this bud sucks. the bud i have back at my house is soo much better than this" so.. i promptly got up, took the j from him and said "then go get it, but dont smoke mine if your just gonna complain about its quality" (which ironically It was sour D so it was fire bud) The only reason I didn't go off on this kid was because he was my friends friend, and I didn't want to start anything. I didn't want to be anywhere near that kid, so my roommate and I were sharing this Jay, and my friend and his asshole friend were smoking a bowl of their own weed. (my friend had some of his own bud) I was good and baked, and was vibin to Acid Rap (my favorite album of Chance the Rapper) and out of no where, the kid says, as loud as he can, "Wow, this music is so bad. Can you play something thats NOT terrible?" and then IMMEDIATELY after, he was like "oh, and im hungry too, order food for us" well... this was the last straw. i got up, turned off the music, went over to him and just said "Get out." so i kicked him out and made my friend take him back home.. I was so pissed I couldn't even enjoy the rest of my high. needless to say I don't hang out with him at all anymore. and I don't plan to at all. ever. I hope no one else has to do with asshole like this. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Props to you for putting up with that after he said you had shit weed even though he smoked it and "had better stuff back home." Should've told him to get the fuck out when that happened. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
What a downer. That shit comes from a lack of understanding.....his, I mean...and quite possibly your friends...but you went a long way in clearing things up by nipping that shit in the bud....right at the source...timely fashion. Timing is important in these matters. Like training dawgs...you dont wait "till morning" to say " bad dog!" when Fido is humping grandmas leg at Thanksgiving...you say it RIGHT THEN. Like you did. That kid just learned a lesson....and if he didnt ,I'll wager he will the next time he humps your grannies leg again. Good job.
I wouldve did what you did by taking the jay out his hand. Chiefed it and blow some smoke in his face
You are a gentleman sir. That guy literally hit every level of cunt! I despise people like that and sadly I know many of them and have had to be around them a few times and every time I have used the same amount of restraint as you did to deal with them because they were friends of my friends. However now I won't put up with their shit as I've realized my friends don't matter to me if they find people like that enjoyable to be around.
I agree with restraint and all but multiple counts of blatant disrespect in my home is ground for an ass whopping and I won't give a fuck whose friend it is maybe I just got a bad temper
dude woulda been out the min he said.."Umm okay".. I would've been like, "do me a favor an UMM OKAYY ur ass outa my crib!!" lol like wtf? thats rude as hell, u let him into ur place an don't even get a proper introduction cuz hes a friggin douche dick! nooo waay man, that kid needs a smack down laid on him..
It amazes me; the moxie of some people. Whenever I am around anyone I'm always very conscious of what that other person might be thinking, and trying not to offend anyone. How someone could go into anothers home and be so blatantly disrespectful is beyond me. You seemed to have handled it pretty well. If I were in that situation I would have just left. I hate confrontation. Your post made for a good read.
lol snatched the jay and lit it up, what an animal. That's how you get suckered bunched by me and then some
You tolerated that "um... okay?" dude.... what the fuck, i would've said "Excuse me? You barge into my fucking pad and have the audacity to disrepect me like you just did? Get the fuck out. I don't ever want to see you again. Learn some fucking respect." And if that foo just sparked the jay... well, he would have gotten a straight hook and a barrage of punches and let the fuck out by force.
I know people like that ironically it's always a younger kid who's a rookie smoker who just tried to look cool and impress fellow stoners fuck em 😀 Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Takes the joint out of your hand AND talks negative about the quality? I would of kicked him out right after the "the stuff I can get at home is better" comment. I have friends that don't know how to keep comments to themselves either, but that kid just seems terrible.
No offense but I can't believe you let someone blatantly disrespect and walk all over you in your own damn home???
i know where you got your profile picture from.. i think... this is a pretty fucked situation, theres a thin line between asking to spark a joint than actually taking it, i respect your patience with that guy though. i definitely would have promptly escorted him out after anyone did something like that the second he reached for my joint.