So it was getting towards the end of the day in the shop, being that I work for my dad, he wanted to bring some pizza home for dinner. So I called up the pizza place that 10/10 times is amazing and ordered some food. Fast forward 30 minutes later when I get there and there's this girl working front register who absolutely took my breathe away when I saw her. When I first approached the counter, I told her I'm here for pick for Mark. She told me give me a second, this is my first day and I was absolutely fine with it. I just could not take my eyes off her. I go about paying for the order and such and after that I'm on my way. The whole way back to the shop I'm thinking, I really should've tried to get this girls number. Not really sure how old she could've been. I'm 20 gonna be 21 in April and look like I'm 16... So i was kinda afraid of getting rejected plus they were kinda busy with 4 or 5 people in front of the counter. My question is: is there ever an easy way to go about getting someone's number granted you've never met them in person before. Still mad at myself I missed my chance Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Same thing happened to me tonight at the mall. I could tell the girl was attracted to me but I was walking with my friend to her work and was going to start a convo on my way back but within 5 min she dissappeared. Next time you're in that situation just go for it man. You never now she might like you, if not on to the next one
I feel you, but I can never tell if someone I'm talking to is attracted to me ya know? Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Man...ya gotta do what my old friend Gerald used to do. This guy was 5 foot 1 in cowboy boots, 115 pounds of self assured man meat. Got a great job outta college and bought the first Alpha Romeo in Columbia, South Carolina he saw. We would go out clubbing and without hesitation, without so much as a drop of Budweiser or "7 and 7" hittin his lip, he would walk over to the sexiest, most beautiful Playboy/Penthouse/Hustler Playmate in the bar introduce himself and ask her out. I saw this guy crash and burn more times than Evil Kineval...I mean shot dead...with prejudice. Never batted an eye...just right back to the bar, ordering a drink like NOTHING happened...full of laughs like he could care less. Anyway, after one particularly spectacularly horrific crash I asked him straight up "Gerald...?...Why put yourself through that shit night after night?" He looked at me and responded seriously but with a sly smile and said " I might get turned down 50 times a month but I get lucky at least once a month.....how many supermodels YOU fuck this month?" ....?....He just didnt give a shit about rejection. He lived in the NOW. That shrimpy little cocksman got LAID like clockwork by sifting through the most beautiful, most "unavailable" women you could ever imagine. I never had the stomach for rejection, but a true cocksman could give a shit. Its about the NOW. Ask her....if she says no, so what.
common dude its her first day and you wanna try and get her number? only way i could see it being a good idea is if she is really smoking and you try and get it before she realizes how many dudes are gonna ask and completely cut them out. dont be that creepy dude.. chicks hate that shit! go in there for lunch or dinner and be casual after a couple times going in there and having some small talk you should be able to tell if she is somewhat interested!
arent you supposed to give the girl your number? so that way she can just call you if she wants? and you cause minimal disturbance to her beautiful perfect flawless goddess aura?
Pizza and small talk. I had a similar experience this fall. I went in to hy-vee for lunch break randomly one day for Chinese and the girl working the register caught my eye instantly. Stunningly beautiful. Left to go back to work thinking the same thing OP was thinking. So I just kept going back for Chinese everyday and made quick small talk with her. Found out she likes to hunt and fish, which is badass. Eventually I found out she had a fiance and that was the end of that lmao. She was very nice about it though, very cool chick.
100% of the time I'm very direct. Just say what was on your mind. "Hey, I thought you were cute and wanted to say Hi" Escalate a bit, joke around make her laugh, smash her box
I was thinking the same thing haha I see where you're coming from going there more often I definitely should've done the whole "hey I thought you were cute just wanted to say hi" or said something along those lines after she said it was her first day but idk if that'd be creepy or weird. Anyways I hope I get to see her again if she's still working there. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum