Is being a virgin worth it, or should i get it over with?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by MissBonnieBud, Jan 23, 2015.

  1. #1 MissBonnieBud, Jan 23, 2015
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    Hey there fellow GC users! 
    Before you read this i just want to say that i'm extremely embarrassed, but it's been on my mind and so i'm kind of thinking fuck it, why not? :unsure:
     
    I'm 20, don't think of myself as that bad looking, (lol) and at a crossroads.  :confused_2:
     
    Most of my friends are having sex - be it one nighters, open relationships or long term partners. I am what seems to be called, 'the virgin'. Not many people know, because i realised at around 17 that it became this super big banter topic and even in university, people stink think it's hilarious. 
     
    I've had boyfriends before, done some stuff but never actually did it. Then between 16-19 i had some family stuff happen and didn't have time for dating, i already had too much on my plate. There are 3  guys even now, (1 in particular) who would probably be really up for it if i said yes.
    I got close with one but he said i loved you and i was just like, 'naaaaaaaaaaaaaap. No chance now, mate.' Haha. 
     
    I got to the stage where i kind of want to wait till i meet someone who's worth it.. Is that silly and naive? Do you think i should 'do the deed?' One of my friends says i should, so that i can start having 'more fun' on nights out and parties.
     
    Cue laughter in....
     
    Edit: It's not all because i'm embarrassed, i just feel that it might make my life somewhat easier.

     
  2. Honestly, being a virgin doesn't really matter. Though, if you are gonna get laid, might as well be with someone that means a lot to you. Not some random pickup at the bar. 
     
  3. Don't sweat it. Honestly, noone gives a shit if someone else has never had sex.
     
    If I was just trying to have one night with a girl.. I would hope she wasn't a virgin.. Theres nothing cool about having a one night stand with a virgin, male or female.. but If I was trying to get in a relationship with a girl, then it would be a turn on, for me, to learn she was a virgin.  
     
  4. #4 Bluebudz, Jan 23, 2015
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    [SUB]just do it, but don't choose any douche bag, you should find yourself a nice nerd so that way you guys wont be expecting much, after all it will prob be both your first times[/SUB]
     
  5. i wud get laid if its u. but i kik it wit pornstars nd sex isnt anythin really. but trust once u get some good dick ull be addicted to it. 
     
  6. Gettin some D doesn't make u a diff person, ur still gonna be who u are now. It all comes down to you being ready, cuz sure ur friends can tell u all sortsa stuff, an ppl can laugh about it an make jokes but at the end of the day its YOUR life..not theirs. Do whats best for u! I didn't do it until I was about 19..part of me regrets it, the other half..not so much! Since then I haven't really messed with to many guys after my ex. Sure the occasional dry humpage an making out or even phone sex! hell... But heyy.. I'm just not ready to give myself away like that again unless I know the next dudes the right "one" But honestly, I guess it doesnt really matter much. It really depends on how you look at it from your own view, least thats how I feel. Whats right for me isn't right for everyone ya know?? so go head, if you want some D, then get some motherfriggin D!  :ey:  If not, then thats cool to. :p Wait it out, you'll meet the right one eventually. :smoke:
     
  7. #7 james.wolverine97, Jan 23, 2015
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    Virginity doesn't mean anything it's just a score or something to brag about, doesn't take a genius to put a key in a lock, remember a key that can open any doors is a master key, a lock that can be opened by any key is a shitty lock LOL!
     
  8. #8 MilkyLumpkinz, Jan 23, 2015
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    I disagree, a key that opens many doors is prob just small enough to pick some locks. Lol Fuck the whole lock an key stuff though..get you're freak on. Your the queen of your vagina, an you can let in as many peasants as you want lol You'll still be the mother f*cking ruler ;)
     
  9. why're you asking people on the internet, go find someone to fuck.
     
  10. Lol that analogy! You have a way with words girl. You're the queen of your vagina and I'm the king to my castle

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  11. loool yess you are correct sire!!  :lol:
     
  12. How about we take this conversation back to mine and you can tell me more LOOOL
     
  13. lol hmm idk If I'm down with lettin ya "pick" this lock homie :laughing:
     
  14. He may sneak in like a Trojan horse don't look a gift horse in the mouth

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  15. Don't worry no need to break in when you have access with owners permission lmao
     
  16. lol permission not granted. -Access Denied- uppp..ur keys just a little wittle to tiny. Sorry mate :laughing:
     
  17. I'm tiny ? well anything can be classed as tiny it's like throwing a hot dog down the hallway loool 
     
  18. Bro I have a buddy a best friend in fact and he's a virgin at 27.
    There is nothing wrong with this if you are honestly saving yourself for the right person.
    BUT do not let it become a complex like my buddy has.
    He needs a girl to basically rape him now because he has let it go too far and become this big daunting thing.





    Chef.
     
  19. i used to be a virgin , no big deal
     
  20. Troll?


    Chef.
     

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