I will be seeing this girl tonight that i have become friends with. Tonight will be the last time. She doesn't know it yet. But she will. She has a boyfriend. I thought I was strong enough to keep the feelings at bay. I made a rule a while back ago that you can't just be friends with a girl that you enjoy being with as well as finding her very attractive. I plan on telling her straight up that i can't see her anymore and that i would prefer her not to text or call me ever again. The whole friendzone thing is a common occurence with me, and i continue the relationship anyways. But...like all of us know, it is torture to spend a night with girl, having a great time, forgetting all about the rest of the world. Then the next day you realize that nothing more will ever happen. It is 4am and i can't get her out of mind. I desire her as well as starting to resent her. So in my own humble opinion i think it will be best for me (at least) to end this torture for my own personal health and for the first time be a man and take charge of the situation instead of being weak. Now excuse me while i listen to this song, and smoke a cigarette next to my window. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SKn0gbPScuo
As long as you talk to her and explain to her why, you'll feel a lot better. It will just keep killing you if you don't even bother with talking to her about it, so just make sure you explain yourself. Keep your chin up dude.
Thanks guys, i appreciate the help. I plan on clearly describing how i feel to her, leaving no details out. I don't expect anything to happen but the end of our friendship. Time is ticking...4 more hours.
Good luck man. Maybe she's the cheating type and will ride you until 4AM instead. Don't self torture yourself.
Very tough situation my dude, just went through it myself. Good luck, hope everything turns out alright. Youll stop thinking about her as often in a few weeks. Keep your head up and focus on bettering yourself. The gym always helps.
this is sadly f*cked up, but I know what thats like. Go for it, you'll be glad you did. Maybe not at first, but time really shows you how you did the right thing..Btw I love the national. Head up bro, gc is here for ya!
Why can't you be friends with a girl you are sexually attracted to? I don't understand. Sex is sex, man, it only makes and breaks relationships if you can't find a better reason to hang out.
She cancelled on me. I blocked her on "whatsapp" and deleted her number. I wish i could of told her... but it doesn't even matter. I am a study abroad student that goes back to the states in august so whatever, its not like i lost anything important. I still feel liberated.
I feel ya bro. I don't even befriend hot girls with boyfriends. As soon as I get wind of a boyfriend there's a 100% chance I'll never be seen again. Just easier that way. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Yeah could be. She probably knows i have a thing for her, but she doesn't know that i won't contact her again. We will see how my avoidance method works I have blocked her phone number now, i actually rather not deal with getting a call from her. I guess the only way she can contact me is if she sees me around in public, and or she comes to my house.