Is there a huge difference between enjoying porn and being cuckolded?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Messiah Decoy, Jan 21, 2015.

  1. Cuckold is when you enjoy watching another man fuck your wife better than you can.

    Isn't that similar to watching porn? In most cases guys are watching a guy who is more hung satisfy a woman they desire.
     
  2. I think Ron White said it best. Men who watch porn like big hard cock.
     
    I watched a fair amount of porn when I was in high school. I also sexually experimented by shoving things up my buttonhole while I would masturbate. I'm rambling.
     
    Anyways, as you questions stands my answer is YES. But I think it stems from an association with porn watching and sexual insecurity. As you mentioned. You are watching another guy obliterate a women you desire to be with, seems kinda insecure to me.
     
    After all that I consider myself to be comfortably straight. I had some self exploration in high school but thats all it really was.
     
    Granted I watch porn maybe once a month now if that. And we can all probably guess why.
     
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  3. There's an aspect of humiliation and emasculation in cuckolding.  Cuckolding is borderline domination.  Before it became a fetish cuckolding simply meant your spouse was having an affair without your knowledge.  Now it's a complex fetish with different categories.  One for the purpose of humiliation and degradation. Another for "forced" bisexuality where the male partner is forced to explore male on male interaction.  Probably something he has thought about but would never try on his own.  And a final one being simply voyeurism.  
     
    Porn is simply a tool for arousal.  It's more about fantasy.  You put yourself in the role of the man in the film.  You can do things you never would dream of with your current partner.  Ron White was making a joke about homophobia.  True you don't want to watch a porn film with the guy having a flaccid dick.  Especially if you're fantasizing about being the guy in the film.  Anyway, that's my take.
     
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  4. But another element to porn is watching a man with a horse sized dick satisfy a woman better than the viewer probably could.

    Doesn't that parallel with the voyeur function of cockolding?
     
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    I guess that depends on an individual's fetishes.  Sexuality is fluid.  The reason for cuckolding and porn use generally fall into specific categories.  There are going to be some strays and line blurring.  :p
     
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  6. #6 Sade, Jan 21, 2015
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    My kink is the woman dominate and penetrate. Not all the time just occasionally. I like being top ha ha. Something about a woman taking control is sexy. ;)
     
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  7. Lesbian porn is where it's at.
     
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  8. Weird fucking thread.

    Weirder answers..... :hide:


    Logic fail.
     
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    weird fetish..
     
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  10. Right. Their counterparts could have crazy kinks and the other wouldn't even know. Honestly people are more likely to cheat if you are not satisfying sexually. I am always very open to trying things.
     
  11. hahaha said perfectly


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  12. great answer buddeh
     
  13. I've put things into my buttonhole


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  14. We all know, Omega. 
     
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  15. :laughing: so much win. I never did understand this particular fetish to be honest. I mean threesomes would be fine with me but idk about that. I think Carne summed it up pretty good.
     
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  16. I would never hire a man to fuck my wife, nor would I want to watch that shit. What if she get attached to that dick and gets over yours.Your wife will be gone
     
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