telling a girl to ask u questions

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  1. #1 Sugar Jay Robinson, Jan 20, 2015
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    have you ever told a girl you just met who is a boring texter to ask you a question?

     
  2. loool when a guy tells me that I immediately think..BOOOORIIINGGG
    an then "forget" to text back lol but hey thats jus me!!
    ya never know, guess you could always try it..? :confused_2:
     
  3. why not ask her questions like hey wanna go grab a bite? then ask her semi personal question while on the date
     
  4. Whenever a guy says that, the only thing I can think of is that he's trying really hard to make conversation flow when it's clearly just not happening.
     
  5. I don't see it much as forcing conversation.

    you just met right? asking questions seems like a solid way to get to know each other.
     
  6. I didn't know this happens
     
  7. Ask me about my weiner!


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  8. what about ur weiner? :confused_2:
     
  9. #9 beerbrewer, Jan 20, 2015
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    Depends on the age. Mature women (35 and up) don't have the time to play stupid so they get right to the point of an interaction. They know within 15 seconds whether they would fuck you as long as the shit coming out your mouth is legit so they want to hear your game as soon as possible.

    Young women, about 26 and under and single with no kids, play so many games that if they don't jump your jock right off the bat then there really is no reason to waste your time. The 26-35 year old female crowd is looking for a husband/father of their kid so they will spend extra time formulating the right answer and also looking for the right answer so choose carefully here.
     
  10. #10 Sugar Jay Robinson, Jan 20, 2015
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    i've been texting her for about 3 days now, but she's a really dry texter and she texts like she's annoyed with me, but i know that's not the case because she texts back in seconds, and she hits me up first so she's just a horrible texter. so i just thought about telling her to ask me a question because she doesn't really know how to keep the conversation going. i would ask her a question and she would give me a straight answer with no outlet for m. i would normally cut girls off like this, but she's really pretty and some people are just a lot more outgoing in person. 
     
  11. how old is she? maybe playing hard to get or maybe shes just shy? but still you wont know anything till ypu get out of your bubble and just straight up ask her.
     
  12. #12 tetoleetd, Jan 21, 2015
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    thats the thing though, a conversation is a two way street so if its not flowing then the blame falls on the female's shoulders as well as the guys. so making an effort to get to know each other by asking questions shouldnt be this big OH MY GAWD BORINGGG negative shit because at least he is making the effort and at least he is actually trying to get to know each other rather than saying random stupid shit.
     
    and i know from previous experience that many, many girls are boring ass texters who couldnt conversate to save their lives. usually the problem is that the girl EXPECTS the guy to be the one to carry the conversation and the girl doesnt know how to interject with her own original thoughts and ideas to keep it going. i mean you can only talk to wall for so long before you get tired of it.
     
  13. how else do you propose that someone you dont know very well or even know at all should get to know you? just say random shit until he hits on something? yeah that doesnt work very often.
     
    like i said, the problem is usually that the girl expects the guy to carry the conversation and usually the girl makes little to no effort to spark any interest because girls have it ingrained in them that the guy has to be the one to pursue them.
     
  14. This. Exactly.
     
    I get hit up often on dating sites with things like 'hi there'  'hey cutie,'  'how is your weekend going,'  'you're hot.'
     
    Meanwhile, on every single females profile ever it always says how they want unique replies, not basic one word intros, etc..
     
    Hypocritical much?  Nah.  What females need to realize is not all dudes are easy, better up your game cus it's YOU that are boring as fuck.
     
  15. exactly. girls want YOU to sweep them off their feet but they dont want to put in any effort.
     
    and i dont see what is so bad about a simple greeting like "how are you doing today?" thats just a starting point for the conversation, what really matters is where it goes from there. the girls that want "unique" replies are just gonna end up getting played by some creative ass nigga who knows how to get a girls attention with gimmicky shit lol.
     
    seriously, ive been on dating sites in the past. its like a never ending drama with most girls on there saying they cant find a good guy when you know for a fact many, many dudes have hit her up and most of them have probably been ignored by her because their opening line or profile picture doesnt meet her criteria lol.
     
  16. Thats lame as fuck to say and she's boring as fuck. Just hit up some other female.


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  17. Ok soo, sure questions are fine but NOT at first. Ma ninja, u gota start with something interesting! spark up a convo, not just of questions though. I mean obv you gota ask some, but don't ask them to ask you questions! Ask her questions, and then when she answers about something that interests you, talk about it so she can share your interest. Thats something that'll make her wanna further get to know you, continue this..an then eventually lead to the questions so she can get to know more about you to. But if yaa just met, then I say avoid that shit! at least to an extent..
     
  18. aww you dont like the way social norms have been for years? get a pair of tits and reap the benefits or man up. 
    that being said, i think societal norms are a crock of shit, but thats just how it is.
     
  19. #19 I'm high as fuck!, Jan 21, 2015
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    Asking a girl to ask you questions is a bitch ass move, especially when texting and when it coming from OP, nuff said.

    This dude has a history of being a highly qualify pussy, he's a pro at being a bitch.
     
  20. it's all bullshit in my opinion. text conversations work both ways as well getting to know eachother. i hate the fact that i'm normally the only one putting input in the conversation
     

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