Right so my GF and I had an over-text argument 2 nights ago. It was started because she found out I had used her YouTube account to like and comment on a video of MINE. Just as I realised that her comment was on it I went to delete it, but it was to late. She sent me "Using me to get people to like you is not cool". I instantly responded with "Give me a break, Goodnight" --- Foolish, I know. The following morning I sent her an apology. I realised how much of an arsehole I had been. She didn't respond. I waited around 9 hours later, and called her. She didn't answer at first, but 10 mins later she called back. We had a short conversation at the which she said "I'm not in the mood to talk right now" and we said goodnight. After talking to her close friend about what happened, I sent another text to my GF. She responded with this: "I am really, really upset and I don't want to talk about it now because I'm stressed about University and not thinking straight. I don't think we'll see each other before you go, but maybe next time you're in London when things have calmed down". Was this a way of breaking up with me??
Me and my girl use each others facebutt accounts, so i dunno whats her deal. I know that if that type of argument came out of a social media situation then there are other reasons, sounds like a dumb excuse to cause shit, and that's not worth anything in a relationship. Take it as a blessing, sort your self out and if u see her again and still are into her then give it your best. It's cold she doesn't want to see you leave, I would try and see her but if it don't work take it as your best effort, and let it go then. deff an overreaction in my eyes, and i hate drama like that!
I agree with her, using someones account to make your video seem better is pretty lame and unattractive.
harsh! but sounds like she has someone else on her mind to flip out over something so ridiculous. Reaching for her and she isn't reaching back is a sign of wanting something else. So my advice to you is to ignore her if she text or calls cause it will make her only want to talk to you more. This means you cannot contact her first!!! It's very important! If she doesn't contact you it's over and just move on! Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
this seems childish as fuck yeah you prob shouldn't have done what you did, but really she's overreacting take a step back and think...do you really want to be with someone like that? if this is how she handles this type of situation, picture how its gonna go down when real world stuff happens between the two of you
She's definitely not seeing someone else or falling for someone else. I would've been told so. She did however contact me yesterday asking "When are you going back to Bristol?" - Bristol is where I study. No, University.
Ladies and Gentlemen, this is called the "convenient excuse." You could of accidentally stepped on her shoe, or maybe sneezed in her general direction, or even just not said "god bless you" after she sneezed, but basically it sounds like this chick was looking for ANY excuse to break up with you. Breaking up with you over a "like" post is not something a girl does if she likes you. Asking you when you're leaving as if she is trying to rush your ass outta here is not the actions of a girl that likes you. She did like you, and your probably a very nice guy, which is why she gave you a chance. Sometimes, when a girl has no backbone, and she is no longer interested in the guy she is with, she will find a bullshit excuse as to why the relationship must end so she doesn't feel like an asshole. It's a selfish manoeuvre and very confusing but one that girls pull very often I am afraid. Sorry lil buddy. Lose her number, go back to Bristol, and then use her account to "like" a bunch of videos of the new girl you're going to be fucking.
yeaa it was kinda bogus of you but idk, breaking up over it? seems a little extra but it could just be me. I mean I guess it depends on what she was thinking about it, like what it meant to her cuz everyones different. It really sounds like she just needs time though, which could ultimately mean breaking up or really just what it is "needing time" Give her time, maybe a week? if she doesn't txt or call by then your doomed but Id still give it a go just in case.