I fucked up.

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by KaiserKailua, Dec 19, 2014.

  1. I've never said this story to anyone, but I truly need advice on what to do.
     
    > 14, got into a Foster Home. Had a GF of 2 yrs prior they let me keep in contact with.
    > I broke up with her 2 yrs later, 16 I met a boy and went out with them. He was already 18.
    > He moved into my foster home as a helper.
    > We wen out, we always did anal because he could never take my virginity nor even get a finger in.
    > After 3 years of this boy nearly dumping every week, I finally tried to walk away.
    > He my only family, my foster family how terrible I am and I left him high and dry - "he was perfect."
    > My ex always cooked and clean the bathroom for me, I clean everything else - gave him my allowance when I did get a job ( only one to have a job ) he borrowed more than half of my money without asking.
    > I find my friend's dad who is single, I go out with him.
    > My ex gets jealous and brings in another ex to picture.
    > My British ex came down to confront my current boyfriend, big fight big argument.
    > This current boyfriend finally took my virginity.
    > Even thought I left my ex already, I heard he had a gf while we're dating and that drove me mad. I invited him over and took his virginity.
    > That very guy showed pictures to my current boyfriend.
    > That guy moved out of state
    > British ex in London
    > I'm still with my current boyfriend but he's worried my British ex will try to send me a dick picture or flirt, but he should trust in me to tell him no right?

     
  2. lmao. what in the actual fuck. 
     
  3. This is actually serious. I can show you my FB too, I'm with an older guy.
    I just made a status yesterday about my ex and his mom fucking with me still to this day.
     
    This was all over the course of 6 months, I turned 18 6 months ago.
     
  4. Confusing. But, You're 18? You got your whole life head of you and these people will one day just be a memory. Ditch the drama and focus on something productive.
     
  5. Your ex made you mad. So, you take his virginity? lollll
     
  6. well you have a very eventful life. in 6 months i turned 20, quit a job, and got another. lol
     
    i second what goddess said. 
     
  7. I was just trying to give you the quick version. I fought with him physical and then moved with my current boyfriend, I punched a hole in my ex's door.
     
    I went back to get my things a few days later and he banned from my house because they caught him stealing. My current boyfriend felt safe with that and left me there to get my things packed. I stayed the night at my old house and suddenly he messaged me having weed. 
     
    Just the other night I was getting drunk and crying my eyes out over him. I asked him to come over and I just, kissed him.
    As soon as he came in, I asked him if he's done anything with that slut yet - he said no, I said good. 
     
  8. thats a whole load of nope.
     
  9. So you're a man
     
  10. #11 Carne Seca, Dec 19, 2014
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    wtf did I just read?    I need a map and a compass just to keep up with the plot.  
     
    I don't think the o.p. is a man. 
     
    edit:  O.P. in all honesty I don't believe half of what you wrote and even if I did I have no sympathy for you.  You seem to thrive on chaos and drama.  You want attention and drama and you will fuck up every relationship you will ever have.  Take some time off from boyfriends and girlfriends and focus on you.  You're a mess.  
     
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    ........Gawd this just reminds me how much I don't miss being a teenager.........



    One small piece of advice, guys will come and go. If something is meant to be, it's not complicated. Stop complicating your life over boys, focus on something that'll be worth it 10 years from now, and I promise you'll be happier.
     
  12. Oh and you said you turned 18 six months ago yet you've had an acct. since Oct. of 2013.  Naughty girl.  
     
  13. Read this over critically.

    Your problems lie in this post.
     
  14. Girl, you need to wise up. Stop acting like a cat in heat and act like an adult you are one now.
     
  15. These hoes ain't loyal - Enigma
     
  16. 90% of them aren't, I know from experience on that one
     
  17. I've had sex 4 times, seriously? I waited til I was 18.
     
    I give you guys the quick version this didn't just happen in one day. 
    I finally got the courage to call it quits with my boyfriend of 3 yrs but he still came back
    causing a mess and even getting my other ex involved who I was actually good friends with
    til he told a crazy story.

    Sigh.
     
    I know this post is unbelievable, but if you can't help don't comment? 
    Please.
     
  18. shitty place to bring your problem. go to a therapist or something. and you said you did the bootie hole around 16, so thats not waiting till 18 like you said
     
  19. Man. I don't know.
     
    I count as not being virgin since I had anal but when I tell other people that their like: No doesn't count.
    I don't know lol.
     

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