Ok so I am very new to this. I was on okcupid and got a message from a beautiful woman. I soon find out she is transgender. I find myself talking to her all the time. She has an amazing personality. Does anyone have experience with transgender women at all? I would love to hear stories. I am very excited for our first sexual experience. .
ummm..in a word, NO! FUCK THAT..thats some nasty ass shit right there...just my opinion....no offense its just fuckin wierd
Have you actually seen a transgender person naked yet? It sounds like you're infatuated with her(him?) over okcupid, which of course only shows clothed pics which isn't really giving you the full scale of things. Go watch some tranny porn and if it really turns you on.and if it does then imo you are not completely straight and harbor some homosexual feelings.
I've experimented with guys. Didn't really take. Still was into women. This is new though and you are right. I have seen naked pictures and still very turned on. I'm taking my time with it. I think of her more than I thought I would.
Go for it! I don't have personal bedroom experience but I wish I did. Ignore the haters. I have several trans friends and they are not "nasty ass shit" at all!
honestly I don't want to argue. I use to think just like you a long time ago. Just saying a lot can happen. Lol
By the way, I think words like "straight" "gay" or "bi" are essentially meaningless in 2014 and will be obsolete from our vocabulary within 100 years as we realize "male" and "female" are obsolete historical concepts. I believe everyone is born as "trysexual" which means, if something turns someone on (for whatever reason), they should try it!
If you're attracted to them as a person, their gender should really be a non-issue. Especially if you've openly experimented with other men. I mean, be honest with them, tell them you're unsure about what it means and that you don't want to lead them on, but you're willing to see. Don't make any promises, be honest, and you're golden.
Who cares what anybody thinks...? If it turns you on, its between adults and no one gets hurt, enjoy yourself.....
I think the only way to get rid of female or male is to get rid of genitals completely. Gender exists solely for procreation. People try to make gender a social hot topic or something having to do with sexually, but it isn't. It literally is just that simple: penis, vagina. As far as I am aware, aside from our friend the butt hole, nothing else really comes close to being a sexual organ. You can identify with whatever lifestyle you want, you can identify with whatever gender you want, you can be attracted to whoever you want, but the fact remains that a penis is a penis and a vagina is a vagina. That will never go away until the human species does.
@pussyslut: If someone with a penis tells you she is "female" then at what point does your definition of "male and female are defined by the genitals" evolve? What if 1,000 people say the same thing? What about 1,000,000 people? What if some of these people are respectable and knowledgeable, like doctors and psychiatrists?
Just treat it like any relationship. Have fun and don't sweat the small stuff. She was open and honest with you. That says a lot about her character. Sounds like you have a great catch.
Depending on how she feels about her body/procedures she has had done, you will need an open communication about what she is okay with doing and not doing in the bedroom, and may ask you not to touch certain body parts. She also may refer to her body parts differently than you will, you might want to ask about that as well. Basically, communication is especially important in this situation. Be sensitive and open to her experiences, and respect her wishes. All in all, respect her, and be open to what she has to teach you. Sounds like you've found a great girl!
Any "Sons of Anarchy" fans here? It's a popular TV show about a super-masculine/macho sub-culture: outlaw biker gangs. Anyway, (spoiler alert if you haven't seen the show!!!!) Spoiler One of the main characters has a MtF love interest this season, it is hella sexy and it's in a totally mainstream bro-hug TV show.