I went out with some friends over the weekend and had the weirdest experience of my life. We went to a bar in Durango to dance and have fun. I needed to get out of my head for a little while and this was the perfect diversion. The place was packed so we shared a table with some German tourists from Dusseldorf. They were scouting ski resorts for a tour group. I'll keep this short. We got into a drinking contest. National pride was at stake. Germany vs The U.S. I insisted on Tequila because I can drink anyone under the table when it comes to Tequila. I'm not above cheating. USA! USA! USA! I got reaaaally drunk. (The Germans won by the way). I became good friends with this really cute German couple. I ended up in their room to try and sober up for the drive home. They insisted I stay there for the night. There were two beds and only one was being used so it was a good solution. We got to talking and really hit it off. The girlfriend was kind of kinky and she wanted to see her boyfriend kiss another man. I was still pretty drunk and eventually capitulated. So I kissed her boyfriend. I thought it would be awkward but he was into it and I have to admit I was kind of into him. Then he wanted me to kiss her and I did. One thing led to another and I ended up in bed with them. I have to admit it was really nice. This was my first time with a woman. I didn't think I could even "perform" with a woman. Of course her boyfriend helped me but I was really turned on. I've had threesome's before but they've always been men. We fell asleep in the same bed. I thought it would be awkward the next morning. I was so embarrassed but they were so nice. We ate breakfast and exchanged numbers. They'll be here until the weekend then they fly to Canada and finally home to Germany. They want me to visit them in Germany and i'm seriously considering it. Probably not until next year but I really enjoyed the time we spent together. Not just the sex but we really clicked. They showed me pictures and the city is beautiful. They have an apartment overlooking the Rhein? Rhine? river. I'm really confused right now. It was a completely new experience and I really enjoyed it. The way she responded was erotic as hell. The only problem was I didn't know how the plumbing worked so her boyfriend had to guide me along. But I was turned on. A lot. I don't know if it was because it was an exotic experience for me, I'm a closet bisexual or it was the alcohol. I don't know if I would do it again. Even with them. I just hope there wasn't a hidden camera somewhere documenting the whole thing. WTF is wrong with me?
Sounds like fun! A little homoflexibility EDIT: Prior to my gender revelations, despite identifying as a lesbian I was still a little homoflexible... Think a Kinsey 5. I imagine most people fall somewhere in the middle despite the pressure to be 100% gay or straight and that's that. Sexuality, among other things, is a lot more fluid than many people realise.
Think of sexuality as a sliding scale. On one end you have pure hetero and the other pure homo. Most people are not at the extreme ends, but somewhere along the scale. And when the right set of circumstances presents itself, as it seems to have done with you, things can happen. Nothing to be ashamed of, enjoy it.
My advice: absolutely take them on the offer if you're able to. Germany is a wonderful country to visit, I visited last summer. The Rhineland and Rhine river are beautiful sites to see. Definitely take a cruise through the Rhine. It's unlike anything here in the states.
I found out one of the words in German for gay is, "schuwl". From the way they acted I don't think it was a nice word.
Pretty interesting story. Good job getting out there and trying new things! I meet a lesbian couple traveling around in Asia. They were giving me lots of complements and I think I could of ''hooked'' up with them but I didnt put in the effort b/c I didnt want to offend them
That's a great story. Don't stress about labels. I don't think one experience will turn you straight, but as long as you are happy, who cares? Good for you!
Different. Very wet. I was worried I was going to hurt her. It was unreal how unbelievably soft her skin was. Still gay though.
Interesting story, I've had a few experiences myself. Sometimes shit happens especially when you're drunk. I'm not gonna deny myself of something if I know it feels good.
umm... quick question. They want to meet tomorrow for drinks and dancing as a nice send off. They leave on Sunday. I have a feeling there is going to be more to it than that. They, in fact, hinted at it. As much as I enjoyed the intimacy I'm absolutely sure it was a one time thing. I like them both. They're so sweet and kind and I don't want to hurt any feelings. I want to see them again. We really hit it off. Sooo... how do I do this gracefully?
Just got back from dropping them off at the airport. I had a really great time last night. We ended up in their room again and had another tryst. Only this time she didn't participate. She wanted to watch her boyfriend with a man. It was weird at first but once we got going it felt kind of sexy. I have never met a couple like this. Totally in love but not afraid to try new things. Not a jealous bone in their bodies. It felt spiritual in a way. They really want me to join them in Germany. Even offered to pay for my ticket. I went up early yesterday and we walked around town and just talked. I told them things I never even told Scott. She cried when I told her about my first partner. How he died. I never realized how much I still grieve for him. They want me to look into staying there and finding a job. I have to admit the offer is tempting. A chance at a fresh start and leave all the memories behind. But I have to think about the kids. I know they're in good hands with my uncle and aunt. They are wonderful people and raised exceptional children. I just don't know if I can be so far away from them. Plus I don't know if this is some kind of weird rebound scenario and I'll have buyer's remorse down the road. I have a lot of thinking sleeping to do.
Did I mention that I got some great weed at the local dispensary? Out-of-state folks can get up to a quarter oz. I love Colorado.