http://youtu.be/Yvq6pH5Rheg Though the men part didn't Happen In the video, I'm sure it happens. I can't even fathom how often this happens in clubs, bars, and on campus, if in BROAD DAYLIGHT this happens. That's creepy as fuck, and where were the women in the video? If I saw some shit like that happen in front of me I wouldn't just fucking pass her or stand there and watch. As a man why would you even put yourself in that situation. I'm so confused. And my moms over here telling me about the men and women they get in the hospital every night drunk as hell drugged off their ass confused crying and in pain.
I think that you are a very sad individual if you take advantage of someone who is drunk...jmo...I would never do it unless I knew for a 100%fact she was cool with it..i was raised better than that
The level of drunk she is portraying is nowhere near what I would call being in a situation to be taken advantage of. At this stage of drunkness, I would still be able to say no if i didn't want to fuck around with someone. Are people more open to get into things they wouldnt normally while drunk, for sure. That ugly girl across the bar always looks better with 8 pints in you. Watching this video made me think (unrelated to the topic) how differently it would have went down if she was a fatty though.
I can't quote people but yeah, it would be interesting to see every race gender and body type do this, just like a, social experiment I guess.
Men thinking with their dicks around a hot *drunk* girl, shocking. It is kinda hard to watch though, these dudes are scum bags. Sent from my SCH-I535 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Just clarifying that this didn't actually happen right? Anyway, when you're sober and you're trying to coerce someone who is inebriated into having sex with you, that's gross. If you end up actually having sex, that's rape. Love the way she's like "Actually, I'm fine" and struts away like a boss ass bitch.
How about, don't put yourself in a vulnerable position like that? Drunk people get taken advantage of all the time, not just with sex. This lady is acting a straight fool. Not saying it's right, but drunk people get fucked with. The other day a local drunk got his ass beat for being obnoxiously racist. Should he have gotten a pass for being drunk?
@tetoleetd go home, you drunk. But in all seriousness, do casinos have an obligation to stop their drunk customers from gambling? When is a DUI "not somebody's fault" because they weren't capable of making rational decisions? I really don't understand if this is about alcohol, or about sexual abuse.
Yea I can tell So what's the plan for curbing/stopping sexual abuse? Imo this still seems to be very much about alcohol, especially considering you use the word "drunk" in the title. What if all this had gone down the same, but the girl wasn't acting drunk, and didn't have "alcohol" in her hand? If you actually saw this go down, I highly doubt you would intervene.
The point of the video is that people shouldn't be pulling that shit. Yeah of course it's not a good idea to put yourself in that situation, but the people who take advantage of it deserve full blame for that too. I mean I'm not a fan of how much the "too drunk to consent" idea gets thrown around these days, sometimes it seems like some of these tumblr warriors would freak out if my husband had sex with me while I'm drunk. But you have to look at the context too. Sober guys being asked by a shitfaced female stranger where the bus stop is and they're like "heeey, i bet you're drunk enough that you might come home and fuck me, let's go this way..." That's pretty fucked up
I appreciate the reply. I agree with you 100% (as I almost always do), these guys are something else for even suggesting that she come back with them, when the woman is so obviously intoxicated. I'm just playing devil's advocate, and trying to get across the point that the drunk female should shoulder some of the blame in this situation. Intoxication is never an excuse. It's why I asked if this was specifically about sexual abuse, or about alcohol too.
See I gotta disagree, I don't think the drunk girl is at blame for these guys being shitty at all. If someone tried to do this to a mentally challenged girl, people wouldn't be like "oh she deserves some of the blame for being in public while retarded". The problem is that we shouldn't be shifting any of the blame away from the people pulling shit like this. If you forget to lock your door and someone robs you're house, I'm not going to say "well, you deserve part of the blame because you didn't lock your door". That doesn't give someone the excuse to rob you. I guess all I'm saying is let's keep the focus and the blame on the people being shitty, rather than the people who just didn't defend themselves against shitheads well enough.
Well I don't think mental retardation is an apt comparison for being too intoxicated, in this situation. That's ridiculous to even suggest. One is brought on by a conscious decision to drink, another is due to something that one has no control over. Once again, this is not "forgetting to lock your door". These comparisons aren't valid. Keep the blame on the shit heads all you want. That won't change anything. What will change is educating victims on how to protect themselves better. I'm not trying to shift blame from the perps. I'm trying to shift responsibility into the victims' hands. Because that is what will actually start to change sexual abuse rates.
That's fair, they're not great comparisons. Not good at point making, had a few drinks. I see what you mean, I see what I mean. Maybe I'll come back later.
No personal responsibility anymore. I don't want to excuse the guys taking advantage, but people need to do a better job not putting themselves in this situation. Unless you accidentally poured several drinks down your throat, I'm assuming you're aware that alcohol impares judgement and your overall ability to function. You should also have figured out pretty early that life isn't all sunshine and rainbows. There are plenty of people out there waiting to take advantage of others. You hear these stories in the news constantly. So what do you do? Continue to drink excessively and go to parties or events with tons of horny guys.. Learn your limits and stay moderately drunk. You'll still have a lot of fun, but you'll be less likely to make stupid decisions.. and you'll just remember the fun so much easier the next day. It's not hard to do unless you're an alcoholic. I do it regularly (and some people might still consider me an alcoholic) Drink what you can handle and have another every hour or so if you want to maintain it. I understand there are other situations unlike the one I described above.. Obviously not talking about those, and again, not excusing the guys taking advantage in any situation. I just have a hard time feeling total sympathy for some of these people. Edit: I'm not entirely sure what the focus of the thread is. If it's the broad daylight part, then yeah.. People suck. A lot of people just want to mind their own business and not get involved even when they see something clearly wrong.