Stop watching porn

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Sammyy, Nov 10, 2014.

  1. #1 Sammyy, Nov 10, 2014
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    Guys we've been led to believe porn is ok and normal and I'm here to say its NOT. I'm willing to bet 90% or more of GC watches and masturbates to porn on a regular basis.

    When we watch porn we are basically flooding our brains with our darkest kinks usually. Bondage, rape, gang bang, shemales, bukkakke, the list goes on. This is where the coolage effect comes into play. With all these different types at our disposal we get bored of one and move onto the next. Before high speed internet many were content to masturbating to beautiful clothed or topless women. Now there are guys that can't cum unless they're watching/imagining a girl getting nutted on by 10 shemales. Sounds funny but I'm serious.

    Since this is the internet and nobody knows you, be honest with yourself, have you ever..

    -visualize porn when with a woman so you could get off?
    -suffered from ED with women but can somehow always get it up when alone in front of your computer screen?
    -when you saw a beautiful women do you immediately go to tits and ass or the whole package?
    -you see a pretty girl and imagine touching her body sensually or just straight to fucking her?

    Dopamine is releases during orgasm as most know and when dopamine another chemical (can't remember name but can get if needed) I releasing that basically tells this brain "keep doing this this is very good". After so long we have literally physically changed our neuropathways.

    Instead of telling our brain that the thing we want to keep doing is real sex which involves
    -touching
    -sensuality
    -emotion

    We tell it to keep doing the other which is masturbation which involves
    -solitude
    -orgasm only no semsuality
    -turned on by pixels and not by flesh


    These brain pathway changes are the same that occurs in hard drug addicts. I've spent a year locked up with addicts and a year in treatment with them and the characteristics of dope fiends and a majority of porn users are the SAME. we are addicted, that includes myself I will admit. just like drugs many can use no problem but kost can't.

    After 5 days no porn I've noticed-
    -decreased social anxiety
    -when I see a pretty girl I notice face first and mot ass and tits
    -I'm aroused by real women. Before it had to be a skimpy dresses slut like girl to get me going. Not so much anymore. Aroused by the way a women smells or the softness of her hair and not just her body.
    -the definition of arousal has changed. Before it just meant I was horny and needed to bust. Now its more than that, its the whole experience from the butterflies in my stomach to the smile that comes on my face
    -depressing thoughts are no longer rampant

    Idk I know many will call bullshit. And that's ok, you don't have to believe just like an addict doesn't have to believe they are addicted to drugs but when they do believe they'll be better off.

    I quit porn to get in touch with myself and to be a better lover. Simple as that.try it guys.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&persist_app=1&v=wSF82AwSDiU
     
  2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRJ_QfP2mhU
     
  3. Everything is better in moderation.
     
  4. #4 Smooth Criminal, Nov 10, 2014
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    Yes but you see,your eventually gonna go back to being an addict to dopamine.What your saying is how you start the addiction,like any addiction.
     
  5. dopamine isn't the bad guy the actions to get the dopamine is.

    Sky diving and using hard drugs will both release a plethora of feel good chemicals. Doesn't mean both are on the same level.
     
  6. what if i told you i watched porn everyday, yet i still feel what u said? i dont feel desensitized...what u said is almost comparable too we spend money everyday eventually we just sped money just too spend it..porn is like everything else,sugar,drugs,cars,etc...it's endless so i blieve the people telling everyone too either stop or slow down on porn are just on a moral high horse.
     
  7. Studies show that the first thing someone look at is the face, it's part of being human

    Even when looking at porn studies showed most men looked at the face of the pornstar first, before anything else

    Also maturating is natural and so the lack of emotional connection doesn't mean much, humans were meant to masturbate


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  8. are u kidding? sky diving too put you're self in danger just too get a thrill is as bad if not worse..
     
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    I always wonder about those people that get off 4-5 times a day. Where the hell do you find the time??? I *wish* I had the time to have a masturbation problem.  Half of the time we have to schedule sex or "alone" time otherwise it would never happen, I just don't comprehend how these people have time to get into things like fart port and shemale orgy olympics. Are you that bored? Do you really need something to do that badly that now you have to be turned on by things like a little person spanking a donkey??  You can't just find something else to fill your day, maybe a job, or donating your time to volunteering, or even a hobby?? 
     
    If you can tell me how to have a masturbation problem while still maintaining a career, a relationship, finances, responsibilities, personal hobbies, daily chores, and other various personal relationships, please tell me how, because I can't figure it out.  :confused_2:
     
  10. It was just an example. Same goes with food and drugs, food and skydiving. And to your first post its like I said just like some can use drugs in moderation and not get addicted the same applies here. Some can, most can't.

    I figured most would try to refute or call bs, because its normal to them no different than a dope fiend saying "I ain't addicted" Not saying you specifically though.

    Also did you even watch the videos? If I'm not mistaken you're older thank most here and if you did watch the videos its discussed that older men are less likely to develop these problems and they state the reasons why.

    I know there will be at least one person who will relate, its likely they wont even post but I just hope it helps them. Too many young guys complaining of social anxiety, performance anxiety and depression when a majority is caused by porn
     
  11. Why in the world do you think most people watch it if it isn't for masturbation? That's what I would have thought.
     
    For the porn addict and such it's a real problem that I wouldn't argue. But for the occasional relief it is fairly normal especially for younger people. Like I said above, everything in moderation. Don't worry, I'm not planning to promote it or anything ;)
     
  12. #14 lazytoker, Nov 10, 2014
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    Wait is this a serious topic? Sorry if it is
     
  13. Fuck that shit, if you're thinking of porn with your girl, she sucks in bed then
     
  14. that is all true,i guess i was just trying too be the opposite of you're post..i say let everyone have their own vice..
     
  15. it's all about the urge's......control them and you are in control..
     
  16. #18 Annicus, Nov 10, 2014
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    Hey don't be a human, don't have natural human urges and behaviors.
     
  17. Yes its serious but I lold very hard at your post
     
  18. Nothing about porn is natural unless you're watching the softest of the softest. Nowhere in my post did I state anything remotely close to repressing your natural human urges or behaviors
     

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