Wake up early before work and masturbate Have your partner watch you masturbate Free porn Masturbate as reward for being responsible Masturbation is a personal hobby lol Masturbate while doing laundry Talk to people on internet and masturbate at same time(not while on video chat of course) I hoped I cleared things up for you. I masturbate much more than 5 times a day and still get shit done and maintain relationships.
Well hats off to you sir. Just a question though.....why would you want your partner to watch you masturbate rather then just engage in actual relations with said partner, especially because you have your whole day planned around getting off? Doesn't that become an issue of choosing self gratification over human connection, thereby crossing a line into creepy town?
It's more of a foreplay/kinky thing than a "This is all I want to do thing" I dont plan my day around masturbation. I only make time for it when I know for certain I wont be able to for hours or days. If I dont get off I get way too horny, my body has become used to it over the years. The list I gave you gives some indication of how I do it. If I can and my body is ready im masturbating/ watching porn or something sexual I choose human connection but I will never give up on porn(specifically anime porn) and masturbation. I just love it way too much. Am I an addict? Sure but it's not exactly ruining my life or making me see women as only sex objects or making me not able to get it up over a real girl. Also by the standards of modern society I am very creepy but people who know me personally arent usually bothered by my constant masturbation. Used to joke about it all the time with people.
Usually threads like this are the op projecting his or her insecurities on to others. Do you like to be told that you shouldn't smoke marijuana? Because technically, the carcinogens arent too good for you either. I don't really watch porn that much per say, nah, I just get hot and bothered off others insecurities now... Fapfapfapfap Usually threads like this are the op projecting his or her insecurities on to others. Do you like to be told that you shouldn't smoke marijuana? Because technically, the carcinogens arent too good for you either. I don't really watch porn that much per say, nah, I just get hot and bothered off others insecurities now... Fapfapfapfap
Sorry, but a few blogs by 16 year olds on tumblr is not serious prejudice, nor do they use seriously hurtful slurs. There is no institutional racism directed at white people. There just isn't. Hell, even with immature people on tumblr complaining about "cisscum," I still stand by those statements. And yes, as someone who was assumed to be a straight white male (out of those, the only one that I am is white), I can conclusively say that there really are no serious derogatory terms directed at that demographic that come with a cultural context of serious oppression. There's a shitload of crazy on tumblr. I'm kind of amused that's the characterization that you are making of tumblr, because while apologizing to every minority that you see is both impractical and condescending, you can't really deny that white straight cisgender people, on a large scale societal level, are treated much better than everyone else. And I stand by that assertion. Actually, I never said anything about people being prejudiced against straight white people (thanks for putting words in my mouth), but yeah, I sincerely believe that there aren't any derogatory words directed at straight white cisgender people that are comparable to the slew of derogatory terms directed at minorities, because of there is not institutionalized bigotry against straight white cisgender people.
On topic post: Honestly, there's really nothing inherently wrong with watching porn. I've been doing it less and less since I find it boring, but I can't see any reason that watching porn, if done in moderation, is unhealthy.
Lol I'm not going to argue about what you think is "comparable", I was just saying those slurs do exist and are used. I know nobody actually gives a shit about prejudice against white people, I'm just saying it does exist.
I haven't read whole topic, just thought I would respond to the OP. I saw the typical 'having to watch weirder and weirder stuff to get off' (not quoting op) to get off. For me this hasn't been the case at all. Although I have changed some over the years of what I like from what I first liked, it's been a small change, and I have looked hardly anything else. I'm a weird one in that, what I like often times doesn't involve nudity, and I don't need it. I may have problems getting off through sex with a woman, but I doubt it will be because of watching any porn type stuff, it will probably be because of how I am sexually (and always have been). Unless I find women who like/will do what I like.
I learned a lot of moves thanks to porn. I will forever be grateful to porn. I guess you got to much time on your hands if your watching porn all the time and you became a porn addict lmao www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZ7N5idCSFI
Man there are some really dumb comments on here. Some people clearly don't see the difference between watching porn occasionally and being addicted to it. Op, yes is my answer to every question you asked. As someone who has been addicted to hard drugs and alcohol, I can say porn is no different.
bbaaahahahahah! You learned a lot of moves from porn? I cant tell you how many women have said when guys try things they see in porn its completely ridiculous. Are you like 16 years old?
I would call you a woman to your face out of respect, but addressing you in any other regard I wouldn't, just because it would be a pet peeve to not be technically correct.
Five reasons why masturbation is not detrimental: It prevents cancer. A 2003 Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer. Disease-causing toxins build up in your urogenital tract and when you rub one out, you flush the bad guys out of your system, says Brame. It makes you harder. As you age, you naturally lose muscle tone … even down there. Regular sex or masturbation works out your pelvic floor muscles to prevent erectile dysfunction and incontinence. “It keeps the angle of your dangle perky,†says Brame. Aim to (ahem) arrive 3 to 5 times a week for rock-solid results. It helps you last longer. Taking yourself to palm prom may help you stretch your sack sessions. “[Masturbating] an hour before a date will give you more control,†says Brame. Train yourself by timing how long it takes you to orgasm, suggests Ava Cadell, Ph.D., founder of loveologyuniversity.com. If it usually takes two minutes solo, try for three next time. Or count how many strokes you need to get to your happy place. If you're spurting after 50, shoot for 60. “Most men can double the number of strokes and the time within one month,†Cadell says. Practice makes perfect, right? It ups your immunity. Ejaculation increases levels of the hormone cortisol, says Jennifer Landa, M.D., a specialist in hormone therapy. Cortisol, which usually gets a bad rap as a havoc-wrecking stress hormone, actually helps regulate and maintain your immunity in the small doses. “Masturbation can product the right environment for a strengthened immune system,†she says. It boosts your mood. Masturbating releases a slew of feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin that lift your spirits, boost your satisfaction, and activate the reward circuits in your brain. “An orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available,†says Brame. “A brain scan of someone having an orgasm looks like a heroin addict's." Taken from Men's Health magazine
I should of been more clear in my post. I didn't mean detrimental for everyone in general. I meant strictly in my personal experience in regards to quality of sex with my girlfriend. If I'm regularly masturbating the sex is less passionate, more about just busting a nut, and it doesn't last as long. I'm not refuting your post. I think the happy medium for me will be no porn, occasional masturbation only when release is needed, and awesome sex as often as possible (not a bad outcome lol) I see it says to "ejaculate" 5 times a week, how often does the article recommend masturbation and does it say anything about using porn?
I agree on the frequent masturbation and some of the things that come with it. Sexual arousal takes on a new meaning in a way. I read a few articles and they all agree that once or twice a week is the 'sweet spot'. Testosterone levels in men also spike incredibly high on the 7th day without busting a nut then go down from there. I've found once every 7 days to be perfect for me. Now if you have a girl in sure it would be different though
if I cannot masturbate, you will all suffer. edit: 50 strokes? You lucky bastards, it takes me like an hour+ to ejaculate.. lol
I think I makes guys think all women can be used and they think its ok to watch I say no because if u have a girlfriend its rude plus the girl does not know who the guy might chat with on random porn sites ogkushfromthewestcoast ♥