this just isn't even right man... so, i'm a stupid guy... and i messed up my relationship with this girl.. we talk a lot still... but we're just friends..and she says "barely that".. and she's on fb a lot... and her pictures get on my nerves... because she's just too damn pretty.. i've alluded to her taking me back... she sent me away when we broke up.. because i messed up.. broke up with her.. then got back with her... then broke up with her... and she wouldn't take me back.. talking to her does not help... i feel so stupid...for breaking up.. when i left she cried... man. this is just horrible. man. i want my girl back.. but she's not my girl anymore.. i ruined it.. i don't know if i can ever look at another woman the same... she has ruined me for other girls.. like how do you get to the top of the world.. and decide to just leave? wth is wrong with me? i told her i wanted her to be happy... and i left because i didn't know if i could make her happy... and that she should find a guy who knows he can... plus there were things about her i didn't like.. but no one is perfect...what was i even looking for? some advice? if you ever find a pretty, caring, nice, awesome girl... just stick to her. don't be like me. don't be stupid.
Pics? Edit: oh shit this is the same OP that made http://forum.grasscity.com/sex-love-relationships/1339638-how-do-i-get-more-sex-women.html#entry20812557 get ready for a shitstorm
lolol i'm too selfish a person to let you see... if i messed up and can never really revel in it again... then sure as hell ain't no way i'm letting random strangers see... y'all don't even deserve to see her.. if i was able to i'd lock her up in a room.. so that no guy would ever lay eyes on her... but me. pics? i could show you... but then i'd have to kill you.. edit: that thread..i was really drunk. plus it was the same girl i was reacting to. so it's like "fuck it"...i'm never going to find a girl like that again..i might as well just get sex from women and be done with this whole love thing it's hard to get sex from a woman when she knows you're not capable of loving her.. i guess i'm sorry. i was hurt from the girl, and drunk too, not a good combo...
i am pretty crazy..idk. don't know how men stay sane. if your woman doesn't make you crazy.. then you need to find one who does.. because they're out there..the ones who will.. make you go insane.. i'm not crazy.. what i am is cowardly.. i couldn't step up and marry an awesome girl.. because i was too afraid... what she dodged was a coward.. what she made me was crazy.. well, only sort of. i'm still hanging in there.. i haven't lost all my marbles... pussyslut
i almost did do, not this, but "it".. but not to spare humanity. to spare myself from the future.. that has turned into this.. luckily for me, i pulled through. though i lost most my marbles in the process.. she really did ruin me. what is humanity without me? without me, to me, there is no humanity. there is only just not me.
Well, I am a woman, who is married, so I won't be going out finding women to make me crazy. I might be emotionally charged sometimes, but I am definitely not crazy. And my husband doesn't lock me up or get angry when men look at me, either. But I am thinking that having the urge to lock her up in a room so nobody else can look at her, or having so much jealousy that the idea of someone looking at her picture makes you feel violent, then yeah, your kinda crazy. Thats like, those men who make their women wear baggy clothes and no makeup because they can't stand the idea of someone else being attracted to them. Then they lock them in the house and tell them it is because they love them. Those are crazy men. So yeah, she dodged a bullet.
you just don't understand.. it's not really crazy..and i don't get angry. it's more like a feeling of inadequacy. also there is a long way between "feeling" and "action". i wouldn't ever do that. duh. i'm just saying...i felt like that at one point. i don't even feel like that now. that was long ago in my mind. could have been a minute ago, could have been a year ago. the past is the past. i said it just to say it. it was in the moment. if you're going to judge me enough to say she dodged a bullet by what i said in the moment. then you lack perspective. and it's something you need to work on. i've lived millions of moments in my life. and i say something off color in one of them. and suddenly i'm out your favor? you are too harsh. imagine if i were to say everything perfect before marriage. just to screw up after? because i will screw up. no one is perfect. except your man, obviously. your man is perfect. it's why you can be so critical of other men. correct? you found perfect. you know perfect. best thing about me is, you know who i am..before marriage, and after. nothing will have changed with us, after marriage. i am myself. i've never pretended to be one thing just to get a girl. i hope you treat your man better than this.
Yeah your right, I should work on myself. Having a healthy understanding of what an appropriate and sane relationship is something I obviously have no grasp of. You seem impulsive, dramatic, and lacking cohesive thought. Perhaps it is YOU who needs help, hhhMmMmm.....?? And you were the one that put your thoughts up for all the world to read on the internet, so if you don't want people to judge you on them, perhaps don't post them, especially when they are c-r-a-z-y- crazy.
its not always easy to give a man advice like this. I have definitely been there bro. Writing with your poetic style is helping Maybe send her what you posted on here. girls love poetry
OP sounds like that dude who was the "Ultimate Gentleman" and shot a bunch of people in California because he couldn't get girls to want him
Dude you sound like you have some issues you need to work out. You have created a dependency on this girl. You have to find outlets in which you can avert that dependency and experience some freedom. My advice? Enjoy life as a single, young guy and embrace the opportunity to better yourself; physically and mentally. P.S. you came to this forum and posted this thread for feedback. I don't know about you but when multiple people are saying the same thing and you're the only one saying otherwise, it'd be safe to bet you should probably do some rethinking.
oh yeah... I had a volatile relationship one time I was pretty depressed about. I ended up getting arrested and thrown in jail for six months. She dropped my ass the first phone call I made to her from behind the walls. We've all dealt with relationship issues...
imagine if i were to say everything perfect before marriage. just to screw up after? because i will screw up. no one is perfect. except your man, obviously. your man is perfect. it's why you can be so critical of other men. correct? you found perfect. you know perfect. best thing about me is, you know who i am..before marriage, and after. nothing will have changed with us, after marriage. i am myself. i've never pretended to be one thing just to get a girl. i hope you treat your man better than this. ------------------------------------------------------------------- I just want to say that you are basically doing the same thing that you are criticizing me for doing. You think I lack perspective? You think I think all men are imperfect and that I am perfect. You assume because my opinion of YOUR crazy licking-my-wounds-oh-poor-me-bullshit rant is negative, that I just must hate men. That is a statement lacking perspective. I treat my man well, because he's a sane guy that doesn't play head games or whine like a little girl. You want your girl back? Act like a man, sack up. Stop whining, stop being wishy-washy and picking her up and dropping her like she's some toy. You treat her poorly. Deal with your jealousy issues. Nobody is perfect, but people can be mentally balanced. Get there. You will never have a happy successful relationship in the current state you are in, fact.
no. and instead of you understanding that.. you rather just be harsh. and emasculating. because you think you know things. and you don't. you ass-u-me. act like a man? what does that even mean? you don't know me like that..enough to comment on my mental state or my manhood. ...enough to state facts about me. you don't know me. good luck with your marriage. you're 22... for the rest of your life is a long time.. well, hopefully.. knock on wood.. i don't know how you can commit like that. i sure as hell couldn't. now watch how, if you don't ignore me...which you will lol no sense in replying to me, really... watch how you'll still find fault in me. despite me trying to be nice. not everyone is out to get you, you know. some people like seeing other people happy. idk, maybe i'm not supposed to ever express my hurt. or my feelings. because then i'll be "not acting like a man". ah well. some people are like that. it's ok. good people are out there still.