How to stand out on dating sites

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Metal_Mdv, Oct 30, 2014.

  1. Hey blades, I don't have a lot of time too meet new people lately especially women because I work almost every day except sunday, and so I turned to a dating site to find a good girl.. instead of all the trouble makers i find myself getting with in the past..
    Anyway i was wondering if anyone has or had experience on these or if any girls could help me with ideas on how to make myself stand out and how to send good messages that girls will respond too.
    I mean i get a few responses but most of the time i dont get much feedback..
    Any tips would be appreciated thanks :)

     
  2. sometimes I feel some women are on those sites solely to have their egos stroked.

    not to say there arent any good ones on there, because Ive definitely dated a few from okc and the like.

    get creative with your messages and dont sound like the other 50+ messages they're probably getting. they have the ability to be choosy because Im guessing lots of guys are doing the same thing you are. its a game of numbers, I suppose.
     
  3. Be honest about who you are and what you want without being self-deprecating.
     
    You'll stand out and you'll attract women who respect honesty.
     
  4. be attractive
     
  5. Also, try to be clever and/or humorous and make sure your pictures are interesting as well. From what I hear chick's say they get a lot "hey baby" type messages and that's a big turn off.
     
  6. I had a really in depth profile, Photos of me skating, snowboarding, me with me camera and cats and dogs. 
     
    I'd only message a girl if I actually though she was cool and worth my time and I thought we were compatible. and I'd put a good message referencing our similarities and shit from her profile.
     
    No responses.  Ever.
     
    Maybe one out of 20.
     
  7. just for an experiment, send as many messages as you can type, even copy and paste the same message and send it to literally everyone even if you dont like them. i have done this and 90% of women dont reply and those nice enough to reply will let you know they arent interested. 
     
    internet dating sites are a  waste of time and it feels even worse when you actually put effort into it and get nothing in return. and never ever pay for a dating site, save it for a brothel where you're guarenteed to get laid.
     
  8. Also keep in mind some of those chick's haven't been on the site in months. It's best to look at their last log on date. I've had some success but I know people that get mad poon from dating sites.
     
  9. Dick pic. Works every time
     
  10. OP, to be completely honest, what has worked for me is, of all things, mentioning mushroom hunting on my profile.
     
    i don't know if its the phallic shape of mushrooms, or the ability to forage food... but the last two messages i received from attractive women with jobs specifically asked about mushrooms. i took the first woman on a walk through the woods, found some awesome chanterelles, and currently we've been hanging out for two months and having sex for half that time.
     
     
    is getting laid all you're looking for?
     
  11. I would slyly mention that you know how to grow...
     
  12. #13 BlazeChick, Nov 11, 2014
    Last edited by a moderator: Nov 11, 2014
    Best thing to do is message a chick when she's online as well. Better chances at getting a reply. Mention something that they stated in their profile & ask a question. Don't ask for their number right away. Then of course if you get to the actual date, take a shower, groom yourself, smell good & dress nice. You know the common sense type of stuff. Make a good first impression. The rest is your skill.

    Basically everybody lies on dating sites so to better your chances at not being catfished. Ask them to take a selfie before you meet up. I'm telling you, people only put up their best pictures & they could be really old. Good luck!


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  13. Naked picture with a huge cock
     

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