how do i get more sex from women?

Become a bartender or a DJ for local night clubs. Women come to you, problem solved. My cousin is a bartender, average looking and has to turn down pussy at least once a night. His body count is well into the hundreds but he also says that it got to the point where he started to feel really bad because his emotional detachment got very severe. His outlook on every woman he came across became nothing more than a piece of meat waiting to get pounded. He's much happier now with his one gf, who is cool as fuck, instead of being the neighborhood bicycle.

 

I asked him to look inward and I am selfish and the reason this country is fucked up?  I didin't lable nor judge, predicated my own statement with it will be respectful discourse, and I am now the cause of the country being fucked up.  Eaither apolojise bro, 'cause you're wrong and out of line, or go look up the definition of 'irony'.
 
I'll ignore the 'he ain't getting pussy equates to a 'hard time" because I think you're smater than that.

 

Then I'll quite being an asshole.  It was either going to be too clinical or dickish.  Well, took the wrong stuff today and bam.
 
Be a DJ.  Work there.  Dress well, but don't overdress.  Black.  Black is huge.  I don't drink.  I'll go down to the place, probably high as fuck, smoke, sit and drink Sprite.  Not say a word or hit on anyone.  I'm ugly as fuck, 39, divorced.  And bipolar 1.  What a catch.  And a confident professional and it's obvious.  They come to me.  Age, nothing matters.  At some point, they come to me.  I have no fucking clue why.

 

Forget about the curve. Focus on yourself. Forget the girl that got away, forget all that shit and figure out what you want above all else. You need to define for yourself what it is you want from women because youre definitely confused about what you want.   The key is in your delivery. To get sex from women and have them like it is what we all want as men. But society miseducates us about women. See, women want us as men to have other women, crazy right? But it's true. Theres no reason to make her feel bad about wanting sex. But as men, we have to make it worth their while for it to be OK that we just want sex, or to be with other women or whatever. In order to get what you want which is clearly sex, you have to make it worth their while, period. And im not talking about buying shit for her or any of that. You have to exchange something, wether it be, emotional support, knowledge, time, energy, "love", whatever. Just make it worth her while.

 

Absolutly bro, Ive been where you are. Thats why I care. 

 

This thread really took off, so I'll throw in my tuppence.

I was one of those guys who, at 23, had a really high count. I honestly don't even know what the number is because I stopped keeping track. They were most often pretty, young things who'd had a lot to drink and the vast majority were a one time thing. I'm an average looking guy, though also a musician (and at times a bartender), but I got a lot of action because I'm charming as fuck (and humble too!). It is what it is.

OP, if you want it, go get it. Don't expect it to come easy, or for people to congratulate you for it, but follow your dreams however superficial they may be. How do you go about it? I'd start with not treating women like objects. You can see how well that works in this very thread; you certainly won't be wooing any of our esteemed bladies.

Just let me assure you that sleeping around is not a satisfying way to live. You get immediate release, but it's an empty kind of satisfaction. It's a lot of work for not a lot of reward, and a lot to stress yourself over where the potential byproducts of that lifestyle are concerned. I get the appeal -- I used to be that guy -- but I assure you that the real prize is finding a woman who can blow your mind between the sheets and then stick around for another round. Bonus points if you can keep your shit together long enough for her to stick around for life. Its fulfilling in a way you can't even imagine.

You'll figure it out eventually. I think most of us do at some point, though some take longer than others.

 

Lol

 

just stick to jerking off and enjoying a chlamydia free lifestyle

 

Yes. Become a rock star like David Lee Roth or Gene Simmons. You will have 365 women a year. I believe that the woman that DLR is with tonight is named " October 23rd"

 

If you don't care about approval from women and just want sex then what's wrong with escorts?

If you love yourself you don't need to validate yourself by "winning" sex from a woman.

 

I read the first half of your post, and bro, I have but one thing to say
 
LOL

 

 
so you want to have sex with lots of women but not get rejected. and it sounds like youre picky about their characteristics as well, although maybe not extremely so. and yet you still think youre "perfect for whatever girl could have snatched me up early"?
 
how delusional are you?

 

 
You want to punish the women who reject you by "fucking and ducking" women who gave you a chance.
 
Does that make any sense?