how do i get more sex from women?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by gumisgood, Oct 23, 2014.

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  1. #21 Carne Seca, Oct 23, 2014
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    Yep. This clinched it for me.  Troll.

     
  2. You sound like the guy who shot up his school because women wouldn't date or fuck him. Mostly cause he was a douche.
     
  3. lol
    i never said no one could ever love me more than i love myself...though maybe that's true..i just said that i already love myself plenty and i don't rely on women for that...
     
    and i don't hate women. or resent them. i'm just jealous that they have access to sex way easier it seems. it feels like a girl can get laid within a day or two of deciding that that is what she wants...whereas guys have to wait for a woman to decide for them. i'm so jealous of that, i wish it were like that for guys...or at least just me...where i could be like, "ok, this sat i'll go to the bar and find some sex..." and have it be true.
     
    it's like i hate lebron because the man is the best basketball player on the planet...and that should be me. but i don't hate lebron...i don't even know him. bet he's cool like anyone else.
     
    no real luck at the club...don't know what i'm doing there. nor social apps..though i haven't tried many of them yet. might try there.
     
    and this whole "let it come naturally" thing...has never worked for me! the 3/4 times it has happened...i had to fight for it. it didn't just happen, it was always hard work on my part. i guess that's really my question...
     
    how the heck do i make this happen more naturally, with more consistency?? 
     
  4. #24 gumisgood, Oct 23, 2014
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    porn and masturbation died for me as a viable option for relief after i first got laid...
    in some senses i wish i was still a virgin..you can't miss what you never knew..
    but no, i don't jack off or watch porn. honest. i mean...i have...and probably will in the future..
     
    but it's like...once a month or something? i don't even pay attention to that anymore. it doesn't give me the relief i need and it makes things worse ime...
     
  5. Why do you want it all immediately? From what i gather, you want to be able to have any woman you find attractive at any time. Right? Because it is possible, but to have great results like having any woman you want, you need to take great action. You WILL NOT get beautiful girls by being a whiny nobody. Im not trying to be a dick either, Ive been where you are, I know exactly how you feel. And just as a genuine sidenote; you come off sounding pretentious when you talk about yourself like that, and its not good. But what you seek is NOT an overnight process. Women can sense your desperation and it repels them, literally. Seduction takes place in the mind my friend. You need to focus on the interaction not the end result which is sex. Ill put it simply, to get sex you first need to generate attraction between the two of you, then you need to make her feel comfortable. Keep building attraction and comfort untill you can be alone with her then seduce her. Theres a ton of nuances to gaming girls but thats basically it in a nutshell. If you are serious about getting women you should PM me and Ill set you on the right track, that is if youre willing to learn the right way...
     
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    yeah, i know. has anyone ever gotten to those levels? been so frustrated? the really scary part about that was...that was exactly what i was like before i actually got laid. even worse, man. i mean, i didn't have the balls to go shoot up the school...but that's the point, i didn't have the balls to...whereas he did...
     
    it's too bad that women won't sleep with such guys even though they know for a fact that they are liable to act out if they are not getting what they want. i guess that's just life though...
     
    women won't sleep with douches
    douches will make the world hell because of it
     
    it's an impasse
     
  7. Quality not quantity.
    You're either good with the ladies or you're not.
    There is no quick fix or all men would be studs.
    Stop trying to be a manwhore, it's not attractive.
     
  8. why is everyone talking shit to this guy? Hes asking an honest question. He's a bit pretentious, but thats no reason to degrade someone.
     
  9. Its good to get your emotions out like you have done here. Now go back, put your thinking cap on and consider,
     
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    yeah, that's true...but after you've figured that out...why be monogamous? like i said, i don't want a relationship. not after all the crap those women put me through...i don't want to ever deal with women on a personal level anymore. no thank you. i'm good. they'll eff you up, man...they had me so messed up in my life. i'm sure good women exist but i don't trust my own judgement...i've chosen horribly. i rather not risk it anymore.
     
    but i still need sex. i'm a man after all. 
     
    i guess the question is...can you not risk it and still get sex easily? because, if you can, that's what i'll do. no more relationships for me if i can help it.
     
  11. Look at the core of his question.
     
  12. I suggest making masturbation an admitted part growing up. Lets educate youth that sex is part of life and can't be avoided. I would encourage teens to masturbate together on early dates and save the penetration for discussion and safe practices later
     
  13. #33 gumisgood, Oct 23, 2014
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    i'm 24, i feel like my best days are behind me already. like i said, i feel behind the curve..that's why i want it now..
     
    i don't want to game, or manipulate, or lie to women...i want to be honest..i want to have sex, then i want to continue living my life..by myself...
     
    is that just..wrong? i don't like the idea of trying to get a girl to like you when you know you're just going to leave her in the end. i don't like making women feel bad. it sucked last time i did that. it made me feel bad. i don't want to be that person. i rather just be honest. i rather just let her know that'll she'll be left no matter who she is...
     
    ...unless of course she happens to be "the one" or whatever...
     
    but i don't believe in that. i believe in dying single. 
     
  14. I actually read the question multiple times just to make sure i responded appropriately. Just because he asked a mis-calibrated and poorly worded question is not a reason to insult someone. 
     
  15. Again, look at the core.  I am comfortable with respectful discourse, so infer nothng negative regardning my tone.  Yes, mis-calibrated is somewhat appropriate, and even as a fringe description not strong enough.  The language mechanics I could care less about.  He has a confidence issue, a total lack of understanding of human motivation (and the profound differences between men and women at various ages), and is looking to validate himself by exploiting others.  Of course with the full understanding that the psychological damage of such reckless behavior, not to mention the fall-out, is immeasurable and unknown.  Yet it can be labled as fucked.
     
    If I were to answer his question directly, its too easy.  He said why he isn't fucking everything that moves at will himself.  "..all the girl has to do is go down to the bar.."  Which is what he more than likely does.  With absolutely no confidence or pride.  A few hours later, he's drunk, pretending he has confidence and pride.  It's a load of shit, and any girl worth a damn will kick rocks.  There's always the good ol fat ones....
     
    But I saw an opportunity to actually exploit some skills, so in that regard it's selfish.  But really, if he would read a response, maybe he'd think.  But its all about fucking as many girls as possible on demand.  Every word.  He'll get his PhD from Truck Driver U, make his $15.00 an hour and be happy as a pig in shit.
     
  16. "actual woman or random girls?" - that makes no sense lol, how would having sex with a 30 year old cougar be nasty? Yet sex with a 20 year old wouldn't be? Man you make no sense lol


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  17. Unfortunately you have to deal with women on a personal level to obtain sex from them. How easy the sex is to get depends on the girl and the circumstance. For example, the women that dont look so good and older women who want men are generally more willing to give sex away easier. A real hottie, however, has more of a choice and so you must make more of an impression on her. I dont believe in monogamy bro, and for good reason; it doesnt work. See, in order to not risk yourself in the interaction you have to set the standards. Otherwise she will. And if she sets the standards you will be second. You should check out Seductive Instinct, I guarantee it will help you.
     
  18. Wow, people like you are why this country is so fucked up. Youre the selfish one, all you wanna do is post your little negative comment so you can feel better about yourself. Have some compassion for another human being going through a tough time. 
     
  19. #39 gumisgood, Oct 23, 2014
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    yes, yes...i've already said this. i have no confidence. i have no pride. i clearly have issues. and you're right...when i do go to a bar...(i don't do that anymore...got tired of striking out...) i repel women like i'm trying to...
     
    so the question is, how to not do that? you can't fake confidence or pride. i have neither. the women i've chosen have my confidence shook and i'm not proud about how i've treated them. i'm not going to lie to women trying to convince them i'm any better than any man and deserve their sex above all other men... 
     
    but i'm still a man at the end of the day and i need sex to function. because like that girl in this thread said...i sound like that guy who shot that school up...and i don't want to be that guy..
     
    so help me not be that guy...because if i'm afraid at what i might do because of this..perhaps you should be scared too..
     
  20. Those that dont know need to be taught not insulted.
     
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