A female came crying to me, thats good right?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by leddleleedlelee, Oct 16, 2014.

  1. So.... this female I been seeing as I mentioned in another thread, I got out of a bad relationship and she got out of one around the same time. We hung out for a while, I caught a case and did three months. During those three months she and the ex bf were distant but still talking trying to work things out, we hung out one day and she said " no hes not my bf, we are still trying to work things out". 
     
    So a week after that (on Sunday) she texted me was crying for me to hang out with her. She said her "ex" cheated on her again and she blocked him and told him off. We been sort of talking everyday since. She thanks me and stuff. She invited me to her 21st birthday party which is on Halloween and Ima buy her a gift with some grey goose. 
     
    So we have a long history since 2010, first she was afraid to fall in love rejected me and then I rejected her somewhere in 2011 when she started to like me all of a sudden and we friendzoned each other since.
     
    Now I want to get with her show her she needs someone real, not a young swagfag that she always messes with. We havent really talked about hanging out shes still very hurt about her relationship. I know that the friendzone is very possible to escape. I just want to know how to comfort her and tell her the harsh truth of the real world. And see if the whole "shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on" is true.  

     
  2. It's worked for me plenty of times. Text her a lot just to talk. When she chooses to talk about her shitty ex you point all the ways he's shitty and why she doesn't deserve that. Talk about what a good boyfriend would do and drop some hints that you would do that.

    Don't be pushy or creepy though.
     
  3. Yeah she doesn't need a boy. She needs a man that catches 3 month cases.
    I'm just fuckin with ya, kinda. The guy above me put it as well as could be said.


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  4. #4 As Above So Below, Oct 17, 2014
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    Lol NO!
     
    If she is crying to you then she sees you as strictly a friend. You are not gonna get in her pants. 
     
    She just wants some attention, but once she finds another hot guy she'll leave your ass in the dust and thank you for 'being there' for her.
     
    Anyways, it sounds like she's pretty immature though.
     
    If a woman came crying to me I'd tell her to get ahold of her emotions and sort that shit out on her own like the adult that she is. 
     
    Just because you have a vagina doesn't give you a free pass to cry and bitch about every little problem you have.
     
  5. Man that's a downer
     
  6. 4 years =long history lol. If she made a pass at you and you rejected her, she may not rebound. Women don't like that shit. I could be wrong. Good luck!
     
  7. #7 rain dancer, Oct 17, 2014
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    Welcome to girlfriend zone LOL! Upgrade from friend zone.

    She's probly tryna make him jealous....
     
  8. Yep! That's the main concern if she'll go for the rebound or not. I just gotta carefully make some good moves
     
  9. Ladies cry to me all the time, they also throw themselves at my feet, I'm married so they cry again but women do like to be listened to, comforted and felt needed or like someone cares.
     
  10. Nah man I think you have a very good shot at this, just keep your head up and keep doing what you're doing ;) lol
     
  11. you have a oneway ticket to friend zone

    stop trying to be captain save a hoe
     
  12. Most men dont realize what you just said until they become a father to a daughter :smoke:

    Daughters put it all into perspective.

    Having daughters made me a better husband.

    I thought, well if theyre this sensitive, maybe treating wifey like a dude is a bad idea.

    Took me 10 years to realize that. Seriously, :smoke:
     
  13. Unless you've lost all your looks & personality since you rejected her, I'd say there's still a pretty good chance for you! :)
     
  14. go directly to the friendzone. do not pass go. do not collect 200 BJs.

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  15. These guys are quitters OP

    A little while back I had this girl that referred to me as "cig buddy" because I gave her cigarettes at a party once. She wasn't interested at all. Friendzoned.

    Chopped it up with her for a few months about all her dumbass guy problems. I hit it the first time after about 4 months and it was mine after that.

    I wouldn't waste that kind of time on a basic bitch either. She was the finest white girl I've been with, tan, small waist, double D's, black girl booty and a cute face.

    This information won't help you but it was fun reminiscing.
     
  16. Err'body likes that, though. In fact, that's the number 1 thing for me in life, to feel like somebody else cares. I got that? Kay, I'm good. I'll live another year or so. 
     
  17. Wow, a lot of you know nothing about women lol.
     
  18. Well.... shit 
     
    Im having trouble talking to her.. She said shes feeling down and stuff, obviously still hung up over her ex, but I can tell shes tryna move on but having a hard time. One word replys and I feel heavily friendzoned, lookin like it might not be easy to pull off a move. But yeah maybe she just needs to be alone for a bit.. fuckit
     
  19. If I was single I would definitely throw myself at your feet :p

    OP, my best advice is to be her friend. Women love to be heard, not just listened to. If you 'hear' her, make sure you tell her that you hear her. But don't make yourself too available. Be 'busy' sometimes. Promise her that she will be a priority when you are done with your current priority. Make her want you. Make her want your attention, your ear. Keep in mind that the way to a woman's heart is easy, 4 things. You must be the person who hears her, and all of her kvetchings. You must be able to cook a meal that tickles her tummy. You must be able to make her orgasm by 'tickling her tummy'. And you gotta have a job. Those 4 things will guarantee you success.
     
  20. #20 Annicus, Oct 19, 2014
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    Send her flowers, just because. Nothing too fancy just a simple bouquet, just because.
     

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