I need advice

She will break it off if you won't. Seems inevitable at that point.

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You two have to communicate better. You have to or it'll just get worse and worse. If you both still care than maybe try something else like couples counseling or read a book about communication in relationships together.
Good luck, man. I sincerely mean that. I feel you're going to need it!


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It definitely sounds like there's something wrong.
She's probably unhappy about other things but not able to express it to you.
 
Have you tried to talk to her about it? Have you asked her if she's ok? Is she happy? Are you happy?
I mean, sometimes you just have to cut your losses and move on. 

 

Yeah, it's a hard thing to do but you will be better off if you just say , I really care about you and I know we've been fighting a lot lately what can we do to be happy again! Tell her you feel like you are walking on egg shells and you just want for both of you to be happy and comfortable together. If she cares she'll acknowledge there has been a rift and suggest things you can do as a couple to work on it, or she will blow up and it will quit delaying the inevitable. Good luck man

 

My ex was like that, just turned bi-polar as fuck out of no where. It's her problem not yours. So end it, or help her solve it.

 

That's good advice, sassy

I was just thinking yesterday, "I miss my ex but it is nice not having someone mad at me all the time."



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Here is what you do bro..
 
Take 8 grams of dank, decarb it in the oven 225 for 30 minutes.
 
then make 6 big chocolate chip cookies with it.
 
feed woman a cookie.
Bitch will be so stoned all she can do is smile and giggle.

 

You'll only be happy when she's happy, but don't lay down and take it like a bitch, she'll just hate you even more because she probably thinks you don't care enough to argue, which is just making her even more mad. I don't have any experience with girlfriends, I don't want to be tied down yet, but being raised predominantly around women, I understand them a hell of a lot more than any of my friends. In my not-so-humble opinion, you need to talk to her. Not the "Hey, can we talk", you need to say, "Come and sit down, we need to talk". If you don't do this, you'll pretty much get cut off whenever you try and say anything. Once you're sitting down, you need to say something along the lines of this. 
"You know I love you? I really do, and I wouldn't ever do anything to hurt you, but things between us haven't been doing so well lately". 
Watch for the reaction. If she gets sad, and starts to well up, you know she still cares and is invested in the relationship. If she jumps to the "FINE! Break up with me then!" anger, she's probably already given breaking up consideration. But, with either of these, don't let them sway you. Talk her through how your feeling.
"No, I don't want to break up with you, I want to talk things through. I want to find a way to fix it, to go back to how happy we used to be. I want you to tell me what I can do to make you happy, so we can be happy together."
**If she wasn't angry, and started to cry, cut out the "No, I don't want to break up with you" Part.**
You won't get anywhere with inaction, you need to either man up and talk to her, or break up with her, or you'll just stay unhappy until she either breaks up with you, or cheats on you and THEN breaks up with you.

 

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It seems like your relationship is stuck in a death spiral. Once these communication issues crop up, it's over. Damned if you do and damned if you don't.

 

That sounds nice bro.Good job on showing ur girl a good time