Say if i were to go to my buddies apartment and chill while he rips a couple bongs, is it likely for a secondhand high?
Almost certainly not. When I was younger, a cousin of mine and his buddies would go at it and I never got high from secondhand smoke.
Are you asking the effects of second hand weed smoke to you? If you are trying to avoid, I'd say stay away when he's toking. You won't really get high anywhere near with that amount of smoke, but you would end up smelling like you've been smoking.