In my day-to-day life, it doesn't really factor in. Main factors are sleeping, GC and smoking weed. I'm single by conscious decision. I feel as if I am a whole person without a significant other. I am probably odd in that way. I've been down that road before though. I have female companionship but just as friends.
straight up, masturbation is addictive to me and makes me want to drink because i am never satisfied. i want a pussy that i can fuck whenever i want but have feelings for. so i think about the opposite sex a lot and it does bring me down that i don't have a companion like that because i am a very sexually frustrated being.
I'm not very social in general. It takes a lot to be a good friend of mine, simply because I don't care as much as I used to. Friendship is love, to a certain degree. It takes reciprocation, time, and effort. Most of my time and effort is spent with my girlfriend. She's definitely a big part of my life haha. I didn't look for her though, circumstances were just right, and we clicked (after an initial clash). She's only important because of who she is, and who she is to me - not because of her gender. Sex is great, but there's so much more. Some people prefer social interaction as the thing they pass their time with. We all find something to entertain ourselves with, and for a lot of people, it's other people. For others, it's just oneself. There's materialism, information, spiritualism, etc., all for different goals. Not to mention how often interests change. There are so many opportunities that exist, it's not hard to branch out and have your whole mindset changed. It just takes some inspiration, or a lucky chance. Don't worry about it man, do you and if you're happy, all the more power to you.
Personally, I don't take the whole having a girlfriend thing seriously. Especially because I am at a young age, it just doesn't bother me a whole lot. There are times I feel that I need that female companionship but I realize that I am still young and I still have plenty of time to meet the girl of my dreams. For the time being, I will concentrate on myself. If I come across a girl I like, right on.
It flip flops for me, whether I want a partner at the moment (I loves guys and girls both so I have to be general about it), or not. Sometimes when I'm partying with friends and having the time of my life, I'm thinking "This. This is all I need. This friendship and fun. All a girl could ask for." And a relationship or sex is the farthest thing on my mind. But then it kind of randomly hits me. Like when I was laying around on my love seat, watching this awesome horror film and smoking. Out of nowhere the thought occurred to me that if I had a partner right now, we could both be cuddling and laughing at the ridiculous killing scenes together. It saddened me to remember that I was alone. Although, I should also mention that said sadness went away as soon as I started feeling that sour lol. So I'm not quite sure what my view on this is. Sometimes I feel amazing being by myself. Other times, I'm lonely as hell and want someone to blow. But the latter is tolerable, so I guess that being alone doesn't affect me all that much. Sorry for the long comment! This thread really got me to thinkin! Sent from my SPH-L720 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
ive never been in a relationship until recently, and its a long distance relationship. before i didn't feel like i was missing out or anything, i kind of just lived my life. like another blade said i felt like a whole person. i don't think its healthy to rely on another person to make you feel happy, you should be able to achieve happiness for yourself. that's actually something i learned from being in a relationship .. i will say having someone to talk to that understands you, shares your interests and fulfills you sexually is great. the only thing i may think is weird is that i can live without him, but id really rather not. when you find that someone you'll understand what i mean i guess. and when i meet him in person im sure the feelings i have will only be stronger.
Well I mean when I need to wank I think about women lol But being perpetually single, while I enjoy female company (both physical and not) Im fully capable of living my own life. So its more a preference than a necessity. Id trade in being single for having a girlfriend in a heartbeat though.
Coming out of a long term relationship, I feel like I don't need a new woman right now. However there are lonely times, and sad memories, but a lot of fond ones too. I see many beautiful women every day, and that makes me feel motivated. I don't have to 'own' or possess them, and demand that they not see other men. Just appreciate them from a distance, and not try so hard to look attractive or cool in their eyes.
well said. humans dont need to be in a relationship to be happy or enjoy life, but if you have that special someone it just makes life more enjoyable. and we all want and need love, even if we try to deny it. and OP, i think its weird that you'd rather masturbate than do stuff with a girl. im assuming you're just saying that because you're a virgin and you dont know what you're missing lol.
I've been single since July 2013 and loving every single minute of it. I work as a bouncer at a busy downtown bar, get to talk with beautiful women, and get plenty of attention. Working on ending a dry spell though I'm just living and enjoying my life man, I've got awesome friends and co-workers, I love my job, life is going good for me right now man, and only see a girlfriend at this point as someone who' going to hold me back, and prevent me from reaching my full potential.
I haven't really had much male influence in my life (don't really talk to my dad much and no brothers) so I've always got kind of nervous talking to guys. I have been getting better though; I have had 2 boyfriends, but have been single for a while since then. I'm fine with that, though. So I guess they don't play a huge part in my life. Sent from my iPod touch using Grasscity Forum
I live with my girlfriend and her sister, and have been in long term relationships my entire adult life. There's nothing like the level of comfort you can share with someone you really care about, and getting your dick sucked is pretty cool too.
enormously. if i wasnt with my girlfriend i would be living such an incredibly different life. sometimes i wonder if thats good or not in the long run.
I used to not care for having a girlfriend or even hanging out with girls. But I have been getting more and more lonely, so now I really want a girl to love more than anything in the world. I suck at talking with girls (due to extreme lack of experience) so I'm kinda stuck and it sucks. 🎶High above at the edge of the world, we are searching for glory and peace, when the time has come you will see our return to the Land of the Free!🎶