sometimes i think about how i wish i had a girlfriend, but i don't have the confidence to go after one. i feel like my only chance would be a dating site. and even then I'm unsure. people think I'm nice, but many people think I'm on the weird side. some people really like how weird i am while others are completely creeped out by it. I'm kinda, I'm respectful, but almost everyone think i am on the weird side. its kinda depressing to me because i don't know what i do that makes me weird. I'm really wanting to begin working out so i can achieve a good looking physique.
they like it, but i don't think they like it enough to where they'd date me. Like i've got a few 'friends' who i plan on hanging out with, so obviously they like me
I am not going to tell you to change who you are because if you are happy with yourself that is all that matters. if you are unhappy with who you are and the way people see you, i am glad to help. First off self confidence is quite possibly the most essential factor when trying to meet/fuck women. im guessing that people consider you weird because: you say strange things sometimes, you are too nice, you try and be funny but you just aren't. well your "weirdness" is due to a lack of self confidence. you dont think that you are funny or interesting and so by thinking this you reciprocate your thoughts in your actions. your body posture probably reflects that of a "weak" individual (not saying you are weak but that it is probably the image you portray). What you need to do: -you have to WANT to have more success with women. a lot of people say they want to meet girls but they just dont have the balls/motivation to do it -i definitely encourage you to workout! not necessarily to improve your physique but rather to boost your confidence. in my own experience lifting weights has helped me in so many ways (most notably increased mental strength and developing incredible confidence). -YOU HAVE TO BE A MAN!!! what i mean by this is most women are attracted to guys who are close to their animalistic nature. aka guys who like to fight, that are loud and who give off the impression that their testosterone levels are buzzing. this means that you have to give up being nice because you are being walked on and friend zoned. -Before you can be a champ you need to think, act, walk and hold yourself like a champ. it is scientifically proven that the simple act of assuming a more confident body posture increases your testosterone levels by 20%!! in your mind you have to KNOW that you are superior to the person you are speaking to! -DO NOT use a dating site!! you are better then that!! using a dating site lowers your self esteem and makes you believe that you can't get a woman without one -watch Muhammad Ali!! he is the face of self confidence. notice that he looks young and not particularly intimidating but when he talked he was arrogant and loud, his unparalleled self confidence was translated directly to the ring and played an enormous role in his wins. he knew at 21 years old that he would become the greatest boxer that had ever lived (example of self fulfilling prophesy) you are fully capable of dating ANY girl you want, the only thing holding yourself back is YOU! if you choose to follow my advise you will notice that at first you might make mistakes, people might make fun of you saying: "wow he was weird and now he's acting like a dick." This would be absolutely normal. You need to realize that even if you find yourself with less friends, you will have friends who RESPECT you and who aren't going to walk all over you! You are nobodies bitch, dont let people convince you that you are!! bottom line: you have to commande respect for yourself in everything that you do
Don't worry about your personality being off putting to females. If a girl knows you, and she's willing to go out with you, than she probably already likes your personality. You're majorly over thinking, my friend. Stand tall. Don't walk when you can stride.
Geeze, I'm surprised you didn't tell him to go buy a fedora... Op, you don't have to change anything about yourself. The best girlfriends are the ones who want to be with you and enjoy you exactly as you are. Start the search and go for it! But don't compromise who you are in order to attract women.
Muhammad Ali was acting, and was inspired by wrestlers such as the arrogant, vain, Gorgeous George. He was a great boxer, perhaps the greatest that ever lived, but his real personality was very likely not anything like the character he played.
Confidence is the key, my friend. Look at it this way: the more girls that you get rejected by, the closer you are to finding the right one.
Dude, those lil chicks thing exactly like this: I wish at least that ugly dude come up to me right now and ask me out for a date and then bang me hard, I ' so sick of being virgin... So 1 of 25 should work, that takes a few hours. So you can pick up a couple of more or less attractive chicks a day.
whatever you do, dont use a free dating site. if you must use a dating site, use one that you have to pay for. that gets rid of all the fakes and people who arent serious who only sign up to free ones because they are free.
Sign up for a dating site. Message girls in your area or another city if you're willing to drive. Message a whole bunch of them, maybe one will bite! Eat right & work out, try & make yourself look sexy. I'm messaging one right now, totally hot blonde but she's got 3 kids & I'm not really into that but because she's smoking hott, why not? She's also looking for friends & that may be a better match for us if we do end up meshing. She's out of my league but I may get lucky & something cool may develop. It's the new fad & it's worth a shot, go for it. I've met about 8 chicks in person, nothing stuck cuz I settled & wasn't really into them. It's nice to go out fosho tho! Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum