So here's the deal I'm good looking guy, I dress nice and get called attractive but girls don't come up and talk to me they just stare!!! :/ for example there's this cute chick in one of my classes on campus, she looks at me everyday, she literally stares at me for like 5 seconds but I just glance and show no interest. Why? Idk. I don't know howto approach females. It sucks seeing all these guys on campus talk/hook up with females and I'm all alone. I've been single for 4 years and haven't kissed a female for those long 4 years. So blades help me out. How do I get a girls attention?
You gotta go up to them and be charismatic. It's easy - you walk up to them and say "Hi I'm (insert your name here), what's your name?" and go from there. You don't get anyone by sitting there being a wallflower. That's what's wrong with this generation, bunch of introverted wallflowers. Sack up. The species doesn't need more shy people, that's why the truly charismatic get laid a lot.
Fuck being yourself. Forget that cliche bullshit. Being shy as fuck doesn't work for guys. You're gonna have to change the way you are to appear more attractive. It's pretty tool-ish but we're a species of advanced primates, what can you expect?
Just get really baked and talk to the girl. Just talk about anything, it doesnt matter, the key is to just say SOMETHING.
How to approach? You don't have to. Smile and wave homie. That's all it takes man. You have to be smiling to look inviting. At least 1 out of 10 will either approach you or signal you to approach her. Prob more like at least 5/10 will smile back and look shy or bashful in which case you need to engage like a smooth criminal. Don't be a pussy. 1/10 or 1/20 might actually approach you. I'm a fuckin mack yo. No lie. My whole life I never chase bitches. Had a fair amount of women just never tons. They always pursue me though. Take my advice. Be unique. Peak their interest. Smelling of good herb seems to help also. "I don't love em I fuck em, I don't chase em I duck em, THEN REPLACE EM WIT another one" *edit* also stop fapping for a bit. The build up will make you feel more alpha and more willing to pursue dat pussy instead of take the easy kill and go home to pornhub.
Its true I gotta say as a female that I have no time for shy guys. Some girls get off on it, but most want an alpha thats going to take the lead and impress you with their charisma. I have never asked a guy out, I've put myself into situations to make it extremely obvious and easy for the guy, but I'd never ask first. If he doesn't have the balls to come over and command my attention, then he probably doesn't have the balls to hold it down in the bedroom. Humour goes a long way too, if you can make them laugh that makes things a lot easier.
and this is why so many girls end up with douchebags that they end up dumping after a couple months. they all want that "charismatic guy that commands your attention". then they find out its all a show to get chicks and the dude is really an ass hole. el oh el @ society's notion of how things should work.
Being charismatic doesn't mean your a dick, being a dick means your a dick. I have met many charismatic guys that are not dicks, they just exude confidence and personality. If the woman is smart she will know the difference between the two, and she will know she will want an equal and that means not a wishy washy whiney stand-alone OR a self-involved douchebag. Its just not all that sexy, sorry. No guy thinks the girl that stays at home with her cats every night watching anime is super sexy either, its just the way it is. You gotta play to your audience, if you want to be in the game.
Smile. Be approachable. If you want it, that is. Its super easy to talk to girls. Just be confident and treat them like you're interested in what they are about. Very rarely will a girl approach you if you keep your distance, and the ones who do may be crazy. Would you approach a girl that kept a "fuck off" attitude?
take off all your clothes and walk around with a hardon. If that don't work, do what i do: Hunch your back over, close 1 eye, drool and drag one foot when you walk. Keep repeating the word "Sanctuary!" over and over and again. Girls will notice you.
Ask her if you have something on your face since she keeps staring at you. That should be a good icebreaker.