She Never Texted Me Back, Did I Offend Her????

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by hippydreamn__865, Sep 13, 2014.

  1. So i just met this girl 3 days ago, i approached her on campa and she gave me her number (I didnt ask for it)and we started to text a bit. I told how we should hang out this weekend (today) and she told me how it might be a bad idea. I asked her why and she told me exactly 'If we hang out i would only want to hook up with you' and myself, I told her 'Oh forreal? Ill be down with that, When?' ... did i offend her? I didnt say anything sexual towards her at all, I actually wanted to get to know her. What I said did it make me come off as 'pervert, ? When I ser her around campus should I say hello still???
     
  2. I'm not good with this kind of thing, but my view of it is she didn't want to have sex and you said you where down for having sex?
     
    She must not have wanted to have sex or be enticed by the idea of sex hence why she wanted to avoid meeting with you (because meeting with you would entice her to have sex) and then you replied as if you where game by saying you where down for sex and asking when lol
     
    So to me, that made her think you where too forward or a bit of sex hunter and that turned her off.
     
    If it was me replying to that message I would have said, "Nah no hooking up lol, just thought it would be fun to hangout and get to know each other" or something like that.
     
    Also if you wanted to date her then making sure you don't get completely friend zoned would be important, so if she agreed to meet up I'd try to arrange a date after that time you spent together.
     
     
     
  3. You sound so right. I texted her asking if I did something wrong and she said no I didn't and how she's sorry. Do you think I should continue talking to her? Or do you think she's lying?
     
  4. You really said that to her op ....lol that's funny good luck


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  5. Maybe she has an STD? :confused_2: 
     
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    tbh, I don't know lol
     

     
  7. keep texting her, but let some time pass before you make another pass. It sounds like she hesitated when you went at her, but then decided to go along with it after the fact. I would give it a few days to let any weirdness dissipate. 
     
  8. I don't think you offended her bro. Actually, I think by saying what she said (oh it would be a bad idea bc I'd want to hook up)- it's her way of seeing if you like her back. If you said oh then your right we shouldn't hang out, then she'd know you didn't like her. But as you said "if be down with that" she knows you do. Idk maybe wait a couple of days and start talking to her. Just the normal stuff like hey how was your day, blah blah blah, and then you can bring up the other day and ask if you offended her. Be like "hey if I offended you the other day I apologize, I hope we can still be friends" but put it in your words man. I grew up in a house of women, 3 sisters and my mom. So me and my dad are the only guys. No joke, my friends call me hurt locker because I can defuse any bomb that's about to go off. And girls on their period? I know exactly what to do. Drive to her house, and on the way buy some Chinese food or pizza, bring a movie and a joint. I hope I don't sound like a prick, but it really helps. Because from what my sisters tell me, periods suck, so what you gotta do is make your girl as comfortable as possible. Bring over some Haagen daaz as well
     
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  10. lol
     
  11. #12 MorganFreemanWeed, Sep 18, 2014
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    she has AIDS or a penis
     

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