Ex Gfs

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by storminator, Sep 11, 2014.

  1. do any of you talk to your exes? is this not a good idea? i know some people that stay friends with their exes and i find it a bit weird. i mean, ive tried to talk to them a while after we broke up and they dont seem interested in connecting again so i just leave it at that. just wondering if anyone is in contact with their exes or if the majority of people just cut them off completely?

     
  2. Never had a reason to go back.
     
  3. ive dated 3 girls not counting the one im currently dating. im good friends with 2 of them. you have to be a mature person to be friends with your ex's. if you're the type of person that cant let the past be the past, then its not for you. but if you can be mature and move on and your relationship ended on a good note, then its completely possible to remain friends.
     
  4. #4 LoveisKind, Sep 12, 2014
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    I am not friends with any of my exes. Just too weird for me as well. Also, it can cause jealousy in a relationship.
     
  5. #5 -Martyr, Sep 12, 2014
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    There are exceptions, but traditionally no. :smoke:
     
  6. I think it is best to stay away from Ex's. They are ex's for a reason, and you don't want to open any old wounds just by talking to them.
     
  7. you can be friends with an ex after you've had time apart i.e plenty of rebound sex lol
     
  8. No. No no no nooooooo. Nope. If you met most of my exes, you'd understand

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  9. I talk to one of my ex's who I lived with for 3 yrs or so. I loved her when I lived with her and still do but as a friend now. We text every now and then to see how eachother are doing but I have no desire to get back with her. I'm actually happy we split up lol. Also, I never get jealous of her but I truly care about her and even ask about her current relationships or lack of.
     
  10. My ex came by today and I helped her with something and she helped me unlock a phone. First time I've seen herb in a year.
     
  11. I honestly only have 1 old ex I talk to and she's like a sister all of my other exs are ungreatful females but hey their loss not mine I'm in a relationship an it's going trippy 👌


    -RedEyeDJayy
     
  12. I make sure to maintain a certain distance from my ex's. I might text them, but no interpersonal contact beyond that. I ended those relationships for very good reasons, and I really don't feel like reliving old battles. After all, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
     
  13. Herb. You smoke too much lol
     
  14. Only if you are still trying to hit it. Otherwise it just fucks with your head. I'm friends with a couple exs on fb but after we got in new relationships we don't talk much.
     
  15. That was my phones auto correct Lol. It learns your texts and auto corrects them accordingly lololol
     
  16. I mean. I don't think maturity has to do with being friends or not being friends with an ex. In my opinion, it's how much you actually cared for the girl. I don't have problems with 2 of my ex gfs because we just ended it because after a couple of years, you lose that spark. But 1 of my exes has tried time and time again to get back with me and I say no because she cheated on me and lied about almost everything and started getting really controlling. Shit, it got the point where I couldn't sleep over my friends house if his SISTER was there. One day, she took my phone when I was taking a piss and deleted all the girls out of my phone. Most of them being family. And the ones who weren't were either lesbians or just friends. She texted guys all the time. Idk she's crazy lol. But I've texted one of my exes before asking to pick up some herb. Idk. You move on. Part of life is making new friends, losing old ones, and relationships. You can't expect to marry a girl you dated in highschool, yeah it happens, but don't count on it. People want to have fun. They don't want to worry about messing up.
     
  17. It's hard. I'm trying to be friends with my last girlfriend now. We broke up in late May and then were like, talking about trying to get back together, but then it came up that she cheated and it was weird for a while. She kept acting like getting back together was what she wanted, then kept saying she just wasn't ready and that was up until the beginning of August. Now I don't even know. It was long distance and had complicated elements to it so the cheating wasn't really a huge dealbreaker at the time. There was like a 3 week long period where we didn't talk at all but that was hard too, so now we're trying to be friends or something. We didn't fall out of love with each other as of early August, but who knows what has happened on her end since then. So I guess I'm just kind of keeping her around just in case it seems like our long distance circumstances could change, then I'd see if she wanted to try again. Unless I meet someone I fall for harder, then I would probably stop talking to her or drastically reduce how much I talk to her.
     
  18. Eh. Other than the occasional hook up, im not really "friends" with any of them. Theres a lot of my ex's floating around this city, too.

    More than likely if i hit them up im drunk or high.

    Story of my life.
     
  19. ok, well the reason i asked was because i was talking to one of my ex's on facebook and i was high at the time, after about 10 minutes of talking i got the sense that she didnt really want to talk to me and she made some excuse saying her phone was running out of battery, i called her a big fat liar and then she defriended me.
     
    at first i felt a bit hurt by it which turned to anger and thoughts of 'what a skanky bitch, how dare u lie to me' but now i dont really care. she is nothing but history now. we never really talked.
     
  20. Fuck that girl then. At least my ex doesn't give me bullshit excuses. And lately, I make her initiate any form of contact. It probably doesn't ultimately make a difference, but it hopefully gives off the vibe that I'm not DYING to talk to her.
     

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