So today when we woke up at 3 pm. She went to pee and came back to the room shaking and crying. I'm pretty scared. Sense were both college students and really don't have ideal jobs right now. I'm a manny, male nanny. So I'm good with kids. I'm just idk. So sad.. My grandma just died a few months ago.. :/ Any blades out there good fathers? Sent from my iPod touch using Grasscity Forum
Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. Don't be a sucker, get on her birth control, or you'll regret that you fucked her.
We bought a pregnancy test yesterday. She took it when she woke up... It's positive.. Sent from my iPod touch using Grasscity Forum
I see. Get an abortion and move on if you are scared and not ready to be a parent. You should pay for most or all of it. Next time, wear protection. A $5 box of condoms is less than the $13,000/year on average to raise a child in this day and age. Good luck.
It's an answer, just one that you don't like. You are "college students" than don't have "ideal jobs right now". Bringing a child into the mix sounds like the wrong answer to me. $13K per year on average to raise a child. Not trying to tell you how to live your life or anything. Just not what I would do. I believe in preventative birth control.
Most people are never prepared for a kid. Shit happens. Man up an take responsibility for your actions if you're not down with abortion. Shit could be worse for real.
Sorry but you guys should of known better. If you aren't ready for a child why didn't you use a condom, and / or birth control. You guys are in college, you should be educated enough to know what happens when you have sex without protection. Is it that hard for your wife to take birth control or plan b? Anyway Good luck hope the best for you, and your wife. Having a child is a big responsibility, but you'll be able to handle it.
What's so terribly wrong with that man? You're freaking out because y'all just fucked your lives over, and the only plausible solution you instantly reject? Unless you wana put the kid up for adoption (your wife would STILL have to bare the pain of giving birth/growing a baby inside her) I don't see how this would work out for you any other way. My girlfriend has a nephew, whom we love very much and care for; but her sister was 19 when she got preggers with him, and now at 23 she's homeless and her mother is having to raise her child. I've heard my girlfriend say (while still very much loving her nephew) that her and her mom feel that her sister should have just gotten the abortion... the kid is living a fucked up life, where he's got no clue where his mother is or why she had to be kicked out (stole huge sums of money from her parents), he's behind other kids in schooling because of birth defects, and the tension has further caused my gf's parents to get divorced. Sooooo.... tl;dr: Get the damned abortion dude, don't go fucking up three lives by having a child, and potentially more when you can't provide a good life for your child. Abortion isn't wrong, it saves lives and keeps the world from being further fucked up by trigger happy dudes who WON'T USE PROTECTION.
Congratulations. Sounds like you'll be a great father! I became a father much younger than you. It helped me to achieve twice as much as people my age in half the time. Brought me focus. Give your woman a hug and tell her you love her. Let her know you're there for whatever she needs and sleep while you can. You wont sleep much for the rest of your life. Haha
Didn't anyone ever tell you how babies are made? Lol You fuck without a condom or birth control, then act surprised when she gets pregnant. Play with fire you get burnt..try your hardest to convince her an abortion is the only way lol
Challenge her...Be all, "I bet it isn't even mine!" and stick your tongue out at the same time. That'll show 'er.
having a child is a heavy responsibility. but it is also one of the most rewarding things to do. first and foremost, talk with your wife, and ask her what she wants to do. If you both decide that you are not ready for the responsibility, then your choices are adoption, or abortion. I would seriously thing about adoption over abortion, because at least the child gets to live. but if you feel you both can handle it, then you need to sit down and re plan what your priorities are. start researching stuff, take a parenting class. I took 2, and its amazing what you can learn in them. if you work in a daycare like setting, see if you can bring your child with you, or if you can work out a discount to have the child watched while you both are at school. if you had stable homes, ask your parents for advice. maybe they can help too? think about ways to save money. such as breast feeding. seriously, why the hell would you pay for formula when the mother makes the food anyway? of course that is up to the mother. diapers? yes you can do disposable, but also keep some cloth ones too. just in case you run into hard times. plus they make great spit up cloths. also if your wife smokes weed, don't worried about the baby. It actually increases a babies ability to thrive. it give mom the munchies, she eats food, nutrients go to baby, baby gets munchies, noms more. its the circle of nomming. ask granny storm crow about this. she can point you to the scientific study on this. most importantly, love each other, support each other. you can do this if you chose. p.s. sorry about your grandma.