Things Are On The Upturn I Think It My Tragedy Of A Life......lol

not that horrible of a tragedy...that was sort of a joke..
 
i'm venting here (which i know is semi-unwise because, the internet, but who cares, i know there's good people out there too, i dont expect anyone to give a shit, lol.. just for my own personal reflection, with an option for internet comments)
 
the last few months has been shitty, a close friend of mines grandmother passed away, who she lived with, it was/is still really sad, we all loved her, me and my brother are friends with them have been for years, it's a family of all girls, 3 sisters, and we live right down the road from them, and we've just always kind of been a crew, 1 of the sisters has kids, and they come out to our house and swim and such all summer long... anyway, so grandma passes suddenly, we're just kids really (i'm 28, the oldest sister we'll call her K, is 24, and the other two are 22 and 18... we had no idea how to setup a funeral and all of that stuff.... K did most of it, we just provided rides, and listened, and general good friend stuff, it was really rough on all of us.. so K moves with her younger sister about an hour away from us, transfers her job to another Casino (we actually all work for the same casino, well everyone involved in this story besides one of the sisters) in a city near where she moved, everythings going good and such, but the younger sister, who K moved with, was involved in an abusive relationship (mostly verbal, eventually turned physical and i'm pretty sure she dumped that dude after that, pretty sure they're still broken up) anyway......So this REALLY BOTHERS K....she decides she can't live there, with that going on, and tell her younger sister to get the fuck out too, and she might have been kind of mean about...their granny just passed away, and they both up and had to move to another town...so things are.....rocky to say the least...
 
 
so K is done with it one day... she calls me crying and hysterical saying please come get her, she doesnt know what to do, but she cant stay there another minute.... i drop everything and up and drive and go get her...it seemed like the right thing to do... it was.. 
 
so to try to speed it up.....K moves with us, in our spare bedroom, and this is good, we all got along, but you know how it is to have roommates.....ANYONE is gonna get on ANYONE's nerves sometimes..and we did sometimes.... little stuff like dishes and such ya know, no biggie, just strained living 3 people (me and my bro have lived together for about 3 years now in this house, and we live on total opposite sides of the house from eachother, we get alone fine... we dont make dishes, or use paper plates..... but with 3 people, sometimes we'd step on eachothers toes, everyone was feelin it.... but good news is she just got a new place (she'd been saving to do it the whole time) with another mutual friend of all of ours
 
but anyway, that's the whole story,  
 
oh also, i had got layed off for about 2 months in the midst of all of this and i just got called back on, another HUGE PLUS!!! being broke SUCKS (had a little saved, ran dry of what i had saved recently though) but the cashflows back on..
 
 
at least i did something okay though while i was layed off.....
 
i grew 3 pot plants hehe:
 
i'll post a pic: they still have like 4 weeks to go, but maybe just maybe i'll have given myself a nice little christmas present

 

i think one of the things i'm most happy about, is that now i can be a fat slob out in the open again HAHA, i'm sitting in my boxers right now, hitting my bubbler every few minutes and watching futurama, in my room but the doors wide open to the living room, brothers crashed out but way on the other side of the house and on the second floor...
 
when there's a female in the house you cant just sit with your junk halfway out in your boxers watching futurama and burping and farting and smoking pot... it's not a good look

 

oh and now my mom won't be popping her head over here all the time either (me and my bro rent the place from mum and our stepdad)
 
 
she basically had the idea like the beginning of that sublime song....because we had a girl living with us and she knows we smoke pot constantly, and frowns upon it...
 
 
"she was living in a room with 2 other people, and i have reason to believe they habitually smoked marijaunas, reeeeeefers" 

 

oh and forgot to add too that K's job let her transfer BACK to the old place lol, in this town... that's really good of them, letting her transfer twice in a 3 month period... they could have easily just hired someone else.