I was going over some threads i made in the past and realized some people are cold hearted bastards. If i was weaker than i am (was) i might have done some real damage to those around me. I mean think about it, if someone is reaching out to a community, (regardless of the type of medium) wouldn't you expect that community to be supportive. And don't get it twisted, the majority were supportive. But there were a few eggs here and there that just said ( fuck it, this guys a loser lets tell him from a realist perspective and hope he catches on. If no, oh well.) I can honestly say, its a good thing i didn't listen to y'all who were like that. Thats not really something someone in a depressive and confused state needs to hear. I understand the need for some people to hear such things to get things to click, but i wasn't one of the those people. Looking back, it seemed like a few people were being bullies, saying i needed to man up, or get over it, basically. But to be frank, thats the last thing you should have been saying, what if it wasn't me and was someone else, and those comments put them over the edge? I mean think about it, this is a community someone might have to rely on for support, due to none IRL. As "sad" as it might sound, i'm sure its fact some some users on here. Just think about what y'all say when someone seems in distress. Sure you can say you don't care, and if you really don't, well lets just say you're not the type of person someone should want around anyways. Positive vibes man, not that hardcore "be a man" shit. That shit is what gets people killed and put in prison. Sure people shouldn't listen to everything that is one the net, but still, depressive people can be susceptible to influence. Fucking think, before you post to someone who seems down and looking for answers. Seriously, no one likes a douche who don't give two fucks It doesn't make you hard or a badass either, so if thats your reasoning, get your head out your ass.
Unfortunately, you cannot make everyone who doesn't know you care about, nor trust you are in, a particular situation. You may being seeing those comments as rude because they were telling you how to act in a mean spirited way, but you are now following the same actions of the people you resented.
Am I? Were they? One can never be so sure. Granted, the way this all came off seemed harsh, but i do understand where they were coming from. All i meant was the method od communication wasn't effective, is all.
We're not here for you. We're here for us, and while some of us will stick our hand out and offer you some help now and then, you also have to realize that none of us are psychic and none of us are accountable for you. If you're truly in a depressive state, go get fucking real help, and don't consult the internet- an invention that has proven to be somewhat hostile due to the anonymous nature of it. It's all about accountability... do you or don't you have the fucking logic to assess your own problems, and then merely consult strangers out of curiosity, or are you someone who drags their personal issues onto the net and expects people to just give the most fucks ever about you and your problems? We've all got our own shit bro. GC does not mean Guidance Counselors, it means Grass fucking City and a lot of us come here as a means of release to talk about a shared appreciation of weed. Not your fucking problems.
What thread are you talking about? Honestly I don't think it's mature for people to be a dick on the internet, especially on GC. But if you are on a crusade to bring decency to the web I don't see much success coming of it. Edit: You said most of the comments were positive. That's better than most of the internet. Just try to tune out the douches.
When the fuck have i been emo since those posts? What is US? Last time i checked (unless you mean, your self, US meant everyone contained within th e community. Fail number 1. Secondly, when did i ever say " give a hand out" i said "reaching out to a community, regardless of medium. Last time ichecked, this is a form of medium. I don't ecpect anyone you to be pyshics, which is why i always spelled out my problems, for a 9th grader to understand. I also understand that none of y'all are accountable for me, but if some shit was to happen to me, and if for some reason police investigation happened to involved GC, y'all WOULD infact be accountable. I also mentioned in previous threads i was seeing professional help. (do a little research maybe? I always used logic to asses my problems, but as previously stated, someone in a depressive state is supsetible to outside influence, and in the same hand, most likely, won't use logic rationally. Look at the threadi posted before this, i don't just post my fuckin problem on here, i posted igot another tattoo, but sometime support is require, and maybe i enjoy know some random fuck give a fuck about another random fuck? IS that fucking sad to you? If so, go away, youre not a fuck i want to worry myself over. When did i ever sayd GC did not mean Grass City? Because last time i checked it was GRASS CITY FORUMS. LAst time i checked forums meant COMMUNITY. Next Please. Fuck these experts.
Alrighty, Calm down princess. To start, don't throw around the fail word, unless all of your "I"s' are capitalized. Next, think you have "problems?" Go tell them to the people in Donetsk. Lastly, this is life, and life isn't nice. If you want everything to be "perfect" and easy going, go to "heaven" or whatever your religious beliefs, I'm sure it's alot nicer than down here. To harsh? Boo the fuck hoo. You can get mad, or you can calm down, read it a couple times, and realize there are other humans out there, with much much bigger problems.
You said you had mostly positive replies. What's your issue? What standard are you expecting with an Internet forum?
Well considering i'm applying my problem to the average person in a 1st world, my problems kinda matter. I don't want everything to be perfect, considering perfect is a human concept, i'm aware it isn't feasible. But i can make the best of it, yea? I did read it a few times, and i agree with what i said, and how i said it. Your post reminds me of the douches of said to get over shit as it was as simple as that. Some people do have it worse, i don't deny that. But i can change my situation and my situation affects me. So I should start with me before i try and help them. Otherwise, I'd be a hypocrite. I'm not expecting any standard from the net. All i was saying is it doesn't help the person in question. If you don't have anything to help the situation (via reading what seems to help them and what doesn't) why post what doesn't help them. Sure those methods might help some, but they don't help all. And considering those types of threads are about 40% of what i used to make, I'd imagine some people would pick up on what helps, or i suppose what might help the general person? If they don't have anything helpful to say why say shit at all? People think their opinions are solid and without flaw, (i'm not excluded) but i understand some people need that tough love to get through shit. But tough love doesn't work for everyone, and those who think it does need to take a closer look at what they preach. I mean shit, what do you think of when you think of a marijuana forum? Do you think of douche bags and ass holes? No, you don't. You think of peaceful, helping people. I understand not everyone who smokes is like that, ok, but why be a dick when that isn't gonna help the situation? Seems a little pointless, and being a dick to be a dick is all.
The internet is the internet, I don't think us smoking a drug changes people or the simple nature of the Internet.
Lots of people just try to act cool on the internet. Because face it: the way to 'win' in the internet is to get more likes than everyone else. I get a bit bummed sometimes because of how impersonal people can be online. There are very few online communities where serious and honest discussions can continue without being interrupted by derogatory comments or memes. But if you acknowledge those people, you're not doing yourself any favors. I think part of the issue is just that there are so damn many people online. Immature assholes are certainly not exclusive to marijuana forums; they're everywhere. And on the internet--a place where you can come in contact with millions of other people--why should anyone care specifically about one person's concerns? It's cold, but it is what it is... I guess.
I feel you man. Negative vibes is a chain reaction. Someone does something mean and harsh, it pisses some else off or hurts their feelings, that person goes and hurts someone else...or even themselves. I preach to my family and friends that being positive about every situation leads to positive outcomes, as negativity leads to negative outcomes. Don't listen to all these assholes man. Those assholes you were talking about in your post, is the assholes that are comment on your post arguing your point and giving you hate. Your point.is valid and I agree 100%. Stay strong 😊 Sent from my LGL34C using Grasscity Forum mobile app