Hi everyone. Its been some time since I've posted on here, but let me catch everyone up. I am a senior in college. I have been dating a great girl for 1 year 9 months to be exact. I really like this girl and care about her. She has a great family, shes got a good head on her shoulder, attractive, etc. However, I feel like recently we have just been really irritated with each other, and I always in the back of my mind keep wondering "what if". I havent been single since Sophmore year in college. I was a lot shyer back then. I have noticed within the past year how much more outgoing I am and how much more I find myself almost pushing away girls because I am a loyal to my girlfriend. I would never consider cheating on a girl, or even talking to a girl behind a girlfriends back. "Do to others as you'd like others to do to you." I feel like this is my last chance to be young and meet a ton of women. I go to a huge school and have a great social circle, but at the same time my girlfriend is my best friend. I have a lot of really really good guy friends, but nothing compares to a girl you can be a straight up jackass around for fun and not be judged. I could honestly see myself marrying this girl, but just recently I have had my doubts with bickering and arguing, and the attraction I have had to so many other girls recently. We used to have a lot of sex and its like once a week at this point, and I almost do not even really get excited anymore? Idk its really weird. We do so much together, I could end it with her if I wouldn't feel like I was loosing my other half. I've had a few beers this evening and just needed to get this off my chest. Any input would be appreciated
I know how it goes, a little over 2 years ago I split with a woman after 11 years. 2 months later I had 4 naked 19-21 year old gals in my swimming pool. I was the only guy there. shaved pussy city. Man, consider it time to get on it dude.
Hey man, it's not the end of the world, if you're better off without her.. Think about it tho, don't rush anything. Enjoy the young years
Yea man. I just got out of a two year. You need to get laid. I wss like that then now at bars laughing with ladies and hooking up. Let's Smoke About It..... http://forum.grasscity.com/index.php?/topic/1320164-Sade's-First-Grow-Green-Crack
Have a talk with her about where the relationship is heading. Tell her you feel like the passion is diminishing and your tired of fighting.
Idk man I been wit my girl for a year and she gets on my fucking nerves sometimes but we connect well. And I could see myself staying with this girl. I actually attempted to cheat on my girl with another, I got to the pussy but didn't poke just felt with my finger. But as that was happening I felt bad about it For one the pussy was no where as good and I kinda was jus like I want my girl n my car really not some bitch. So I dropped her ass off and started blowing my girl up tryna chill with her. And when I did I felt great like where I was supposed be. But wat i wanna say is if it would kill you to see your girl with someone else that says something and it would kill me. But even though I attempted to cheat it was a good learning experience for me and it let me no what i wanted. I would never tell my girl though lol because she wouldn't hear that shit, but cheating wasn't for me and I learned that. So just think hard before you act.
Do it..I'm assuming you're 21-23 in age. This is prime time. If you're no longer happy then drop it and go enjoy yourself. IMO nobody should get into a serious relationship until 25ish. Why spend the best years of your life tied to someone especially if you're not happy with them.
Time apart will show you weather or not you want to be with her. If you feel empty with out her you have your answer. Sent from my iPod touch using Grasscity Forum
You need to pound some cake player. IMHO you have to get it out of your system or you won't be happy. You can do it behind her back which you'll feel guilty about because you're not a douche bag. Or you can tell her you're not ready yet. After you get it out of your system you see if she's not taken and ask her to take you back. It's happened to worse men...
Tell her you want a break. This could go 2 ways. 1. She says no and tries very hard to be the best girlfriend ever. 2. She agrees and you get what you want. WIN-WIN SITUATION.
From the sounds of it she probably feels much the same, and even if she doesn't the fact is you do. It's a slippery slope to the end of the line filled with months of arguing until one of you breaks it off. Do it now but do it right so things can still be amicable so someday you can still be friends because I it sounds like you're great friends regardless of being in a relationship. Do what feels right. Try to talk to her about it, I know it's hard but maybe that talk will either end the relationship (which I think is what you want?) or make it better. All of that said, the day you start feeling "meh" at the prospect of sex with your other half is the day you should probably end it. There are literally at least thousands of hot chicks out there, you're young, go explore
Ive been dating my girl for two years but hitting it every night. Couples argue sometimes but yeah if its actually nerve racking then it aint worth it. Also Idc who you are if hot bad bitches walk by your gonna look haha, trust me your girls prolly looking at guys when they walk by too.
fucking 2 years man. i swear that's when it gets the roughest.........lol no idea how married couples do it. sounds like you really do care about her. i think talking to her about it might be your best bet. something to keep in mind is that couples seem to go through "phases" at times of basically fucking hating each other. my rents have told me this and i've noticed it with my mom shit talking about my stepdad and vice versa. eventually it does settle, however, if you feel like it's becoming truly detrimental to your relationship with her in general, be it an intimate one or not, i think you should end it right then and maybe attempt to be friends instead. i had an ex that i ended up loathing during/after breaking up because of all the fucked up shit she'd said to me by then (and i'm no saint either, i definitely retorted). imo, if you really value the relationship (and it sounds like you do), you'll put a stop to it before it gets to that "I FUCKING HATE THIS BITCH, WHO RAISED HER?" point. if you're both going through something on the side and kinda taking it out on each other in little-bitch ways i.e. "DID YOU FUCKING FLICK YOUR TOOTHPASTE ALL OVER THE MIRROR OR WHAT? ARE YOU DISABLED?" or "You dropped the remote again? You dropped the remote AGAIN? Why don't you just go FUCK YOURSELF, you CLUMSY BITCH" then i think it may be a phase and settle eventually. if you're saying mean and hurtful things to each other that will do some actual "damage", then start to consider a break up. tl;dr if it's petty fights, i think you can push through it depending on how willing you are. if it's deep-rooted type of shit, end it before shit hits the fan and you hate each other
Some people are shallow. They live their life without a care in the world, not considering where they leave footprints. Others think too much and never fully enjoy life. Every man ive ever known has had the itch you describe OP. they wonder if the grass is greener. Ive known many men in my life who talk about the one that got away, be it a car or a woman. They too wondered if it was better on the other side. Talk to people whove been there. Having been married(still married) once for a realiy long time id never do it again. I also respect myself enough to keep my pants up around sluts, where many other men do not. No regrets here at all. Maybe its because ive seen the end of that story. Have a neighbor who went the slut route. Had so many sluts we cant go anywhere together without bumping into someone he's fucked. They are ALL disgusting now. All of his flings. He talks about the 80's a whole lot, when he was in his prime. I know she's an elephant now, but you shoulda seen her in the 80s...... Hes a lonely excuse for a human now, miserable has been. Its terrible to watch him self medicate his life away due to the regret of never caring about his investments, or where his dick ended up. On the other hand I know people whove been happily married for decades. I recently watched the pain of my grandfather after he lost his wife of 40 years. He told me that day the grass is not greener on the otherside, no matter how much you try to fool yourself. He has no regrets, he held her hand to the end. I dont judge anyone for their life choices, but i personally wouldnt ever date a young woman the older i get. They all have vaginas, but few have brains, which is what some of us truly value. That same guy above who lives in the 80s says he fucked a lot of girls, maybe hundreds, maybe more, but the thing he valued most and lost was the girl he didnt respect, with the personality, the brains, the sense of humor, etc. people miss that as they get older and slow down. My father told me once to think with my big head instead of my little. He said that as he stared into the abyss at the broken families he created for pussy, the kids who never knew him, etc. he told me at 18 years old he envied my stability. He asked why i didnt experiment with my mind or body more? I told him i watched my parents fuck up enough peoples lives to recognize when I have something special. My best friend told me not to ever forget to charish my woman. Do not become roomates he told me. Change the scene, learn to do new things with her, make memories that last, because life doesnt. Too deep for most people, but ive had a lot of time to people watch and learn from others mistakes. No regrets.
Theres a button on the side that says, "like this" But thank you very much. I just keep it real. Take it easy.
Yea most def. But not for me I go on chrome on my phone and the option isn't there along with repping ppl