Hi I'm well Arctic and I have this friend I met this year and she's a stoner like me. She's someone who I would protect or give my life up for but idk she if she feels the way I do. We stop each other from killing ourselves (no hate or judgement please) also it seems like we can tel each other everything, but how do I know
True dat my nigga! --- ask her? Maybe a note like the good old days with Y/N/M box? Stoner chicks love the cutie... or the G man...
As a woman, I think it's much less creepy to be spoken to in person than being left a note, just sayin. And she'll know you're seriously interested if you have the guts to ask her in person
Just tell her how you feel. Be respectful and courteous. Open up your heart to her. Show her real love. Then whip out your massive dick, OP. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Pfffff... I'm saying pass the note in person over dinner cmonnnn be cute.. We can clearly tell you're not my type =[
No need to be rude. Simply offering one woman's perspective, every one is different. I'm just saying, people respond to someone that will say what's on their mind. Writing a note is passive. If you want to stand out, speak up.
... If that's being rude, I'm definitely not your type and you're definitely too soft .. A real "woman" wouldn't think that was rude at all to be honest, but maybe I'm more exposed to a mass number of people on a daily basis, whatever. If you want my honest opinion, and not my sarcastic first attempt then you will physiologically feel a sexual tension between the both of you, do you feel this? Yes or No. **Step 1** **Step 2** Make a move, be subtle and cute possibly instead of kissing her on the cheek go closer to her lips with an 'oops' moment and see how it goes. **Step 3** If you can't make a cute kiss attempt , you are not playing The Game correctly. Unfortunately for @[member="jollygoodchap"], that's all that this is.. A game. I would consider myself a moderately successful young-gentleman and have never in my entire life (nor any of my friends for that matter) have flat out asked a woman (or girl), " Do you like me"? This isn't preschool, which is why I SARCASTICALLY eluded to the note-passing cliche. Now, if you want to succeed with women, try taking a bat at some dating science books, really alls you need to know is female psychology and you will be golden for any future relationships you will stumble upon. I only say this because you are young, and don't get your hopes up because there are a ton of fish in the sea my friend- if she says no. Honestly, ellaborating on your age, I would go out on a limb here and say she will 'friendzone' you due to everything you've been through together. I understand this was a lot to read, but I needed to make an attempt to lead a young version of myself in the right direction. Trust me, make a move. It will be better then being high, something along the lines of jumping out of a plane on your first skydive (scientifically proven to release virtually the same amount of chemicals in your brain as a kiss in love). Goodluck, and GodSpeed my friend.. PS: Check out "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It's a book, but if you take it to heart and actually play, you will learn not only the true meaning behind the words, but will instill countless life lessons unto you. I would mail you my edition, but I have lent it out to someone like all young men, who just need some guidance. Also, I'm more of an auditory learner but you can definitely torrent the LoveSystems audio tracks, SOOOO much fun information and amazing stories. PSS: "My Secret Garden" - Nancy Friday. This one may be a little too mature for you, but once again another priceless work of art worshipped by both women and feminists alike.
If you want to be sexist, woman hating and overtly forceful, be like this long winded person arguing with me over my opinion. He is literally telling you to forgo consent and just "make moves" The advantage to talking with people is that you get to the heart of a situation before things maybe have the chance to get physical or potentially uncomfortable (read as: trying to force someone into physical contact by "making a move")
Unfortunately, this young girl has no idea what she is speaking of and is apparently having a bad day. I'm not a sexist at all, and I highly respect women, probably more then you do-- clearly. Considering I've actually done research on how they act and what makes them feel different ways so I can properly attend to my girlfriends which means avoiding fights, making them feel loved and desired, and catering to their needs in the most intelligent and caring way that I can.. I was not saying to be forceful at all, clearly. Did something sinister happen to you when you were younger, I sure hope not but seriously if you were I feel extremely bad because I have been in similar situations, and know those close to me who have been raped and others- so please don't point your finger or judge someone when you have no idea what you're talking about young child. --To the OP: NEVER take advantage of ANY WOMAN OR MAN EVER. It is completely and utterly disrespectful and you will burn in eternity for those type of actions. The books and materials I suggested to you are just that, TOOLS, don't take advantage of them, because they are highly valuable and have helped many men that I know.
Dude you're saying you know all this about women yet you don't know anything, no other guy will, you're already proving it by fighting with this girl. You'll never win, it's like trying to persuade a wall to legalize marihuana. Seems like a feminist, one if the ones where if you ask for sex...you're obviously a rapist LOL To OP, just ask her how she feels about you...it should be obvious though just by the way she acts around you... Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
You got this op this girl is prob thinking same thing how do I get with this wonderful man just don't know how Go for it home bread sauce. Peace.
Ask her. People like confidence. Just put it on the table and if she says she's not interested, don't make it weird, don't talk shit, don't beat yourself up. You never get shit done by pussyfooting around. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Be an adult and talk about this. You should be able to tell her what you have told us. You wouldn't give your life for us, so obviously we are less deserving of this information than she is.
Lick her from the ankle to the earlobe, never breaking contact. The reaction will be your answer. Or just talk to her, whatever.