my girlfriend says she didnt have one until she was with me because other guys were more focused on pleasing themselves than her. speaks to the whole mental barrier thing, although perhaps technique as well.
Treat the pussy like a musical instrument. Hit the right notes at the right rhythm, and stay in tune fool.
Honestly when I first starting having sex with my girl I couldn't simply because the pussy was on point and I came before(rawdog).But I would come close but with her moans and shit I couldn't hold it But I soon had a talk with my lower head and got on board lol. But now I make my girl come every time can't except nothing less. Got to get her off 2 or 3 times on the first fuck, after that once is fine with me
Never had someone make me cum. My female fwb almost did one night n we had been messin around for 4 years so she knew wat I liked. Solo usually takes me 10+ minutes. Idk y but its kinda hard for me to cum. N my current bf only "makes love" so ig rough sex is outta the question which is sad cause that's how I like it Sent from my XT1030 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
I kind of wish that i was like other females and enjoyed rough sex. Guys that I've been with have all enjoyed it rough. But that just feels more like someone is punching my insides rather than getting me close to cumming. Sadly, I'm also not one to particularly enjoy penatration. I mean i can lie around for hours with my vibrator in there and hardly get turned on. I'm more of a clitoral-orgasm type. So thats a problem. And i have yet to meet someone who is skilled with their tongue to make it happen. The one and only merit that i have is that i am one of the best fakers you will ever meet. I can moan and clench and do all of the stuff that would make one think that i have reached an orgasm. So yeah. Thats just me. Sent from my SPH-L720 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
The girl I'm with now told me she thought it was impossible for her to have one with penetration. Til she met me sent from my cellular device, for your eyes only.
I wasn't able to have an orgasm with a partner until I got with my current bf. He was able to make me orgasm orally and the trick is for him to flick it with his tongue constantly to mimic a female rubbing off. I'm not capable of penetration orgasms either.
Apparently its a very common thing. She's also never reached an orgasm from oral sex either before she met me. I think she just had sex with inexperienced men before. That's a shame that you can't though. Its a wonderful thing when both of you can cum at the same time sent from my cellular device, for your eyes only.
Ha yea, that's mostly Hollywood shit there... Luckily I can come orally and my current bf is the only one that was able to.
69 is the way to go for you guys then She's from Italy actually. But ya Hollywood is full of inexperienced douches from what my girl friends have told me sent from my cellular device, for your eyes only.
Tried 69 and have never gotten off that way. He does the same technique that can get me if he was giving to me only, but I think I am focused on pleasing him more and the concentration of getting off is lost a bit haha.
I think most men just have no clue what they are doing/only care about getting themselves off. Lack of honest communication in the bedroom doesnt help that. Im a guy, not a woman trashing men in the bedroom, but from what Ive seen, thats usually the case (Im 7 for 7 on the making women cum, so Im doing something right). And the occasional mental blocks that women have for whatever reason (not comfortable enough, dont want to cum etc) Fellow men, be honest, how much research into sex have you done that isnt porn (fake and not pleasurable, only designed to look good on camera)? Do you know what Extended Sexual Response is? Do you know where the clitoris is? Know where the G-spot is? Have you even heard of the U-spot or the A-spot? Do you know how to make her squirt on command? (Every single woman is capable of it, just they have to be ready for it and let it happen, and he has to know what the fuck he is doing) Can you get her off with just your fingers or tongue? Are you ok with using toys in the bed room? Most men (if being honest) will say no for the vast majority of those. There is this stupid taboo about sex where vanilla is all you need, and youre weird if you ask what theyre into, or research general sexual theory. If you want to be the best you can be, you cant be vanilla. You gotta ask her what she likes. And research. Most women dont even know alot of those questions, because all we're (as in humans not specifically women) taught about sex is biological purpose, and fake ass porn, very few people take the time to actually learn the ins and outs (pun somewhat intended) of sex and pleasure. Ill give every single man the best sex advice they will ever get. You want to be the best she has ever had? Do some reading on the A-spot and how to stimulate it. just touching it is enough to elicit extreme sexual response, instantaneous lubrication, even in women whose vagina doesnt normally lubricate, or doesnt easily.
I'm the same way actually. Never been able to cum during 69. Sure is fun though Good luck to you and yours on your sexual escapades LoveisKind sent from my cellular device, for your eyes only.
Your lovers will be extrememly hurt if they find out your faking it. What Happened to Honest Communication ?
A big reason why I'm single now. The guys just didn't care. About the relationship or about anyone but themselves during intercourse. They never bothered asking. I would've went out of my way to explain, but i was a tad prude-ish. In my next relationship i definitely plan on being honest about all of it.
that sucks. as a man I cant stand not having my partner climax and if she is willing to figure it out I work for it Everyone knows the "Nice guy finishes last phrase"? well just add "In bed" to the end of that.