So would it be accurate to say, a clean-shaven man is something the younger generation of women of today enjoy/expect? I wonder where/how women are getting this expectation? Porn I'm guessing? Or is it, as you suggest, more of an "if I shave then you have to also!" quid pro quo? Plenty of pretty women my age enjoy a natural man, and there is no lack of oral, trust me. It is not any more "gross" than kissing a man with a beard.
Clean shaven is the new thing and I don't see that going anywhere. I've been with a fair amount of women since 1998 and I can only think of like one or two that had a really hairy pussy - that was when i was like 15-17 years old. I don't really think it's bc of porn strictly. Body hair easy grows bacteria in its dark and rather closed off environment. Nobody wants to be choked out by a strange smell in the face coupled w/ a fur ball. That's gross. Shitting and pissing on the ground is also 'natural' but I prefer using a toilet bc it's clean and hygienic
While I think it's totally normal and sensible to worry about hygiene, safer sex, not getting AIDS, etc. I think you are being overly germ-phobic. We live in a world with antibacterial soap where most people shower/bathe several times a week. Sex with someone with pubic hair is not "gross" and won't make you sick with "bacteria." If you want to phrase your statements in the form of opinions (instead of "all the women you date are disgusting fur balls, Puddleglum" which is kind of how you are coming across right now) I'd enjoy continuing this interesting anthropological conversation.
I probably am a bit of a germaphobe. I like being clean and smelling good! I'll tell close friends of mine to go home and take a shower if they come over smelling like BO. So it doesn't seem like a rude thing to do to express my negative thoughts on a girls hairy pussy
How you talk to your friends is none of my business. But it's rude (in my opinion) to talk about someone else's girlfriend (or sister, mother, etc.) in that way. I am just trying to explain the values I was raised with.
No offense but EEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW *throws up* Errr, you go girl! Fight the power! Who wants to put effort into their appearance anyway? Such an oppresive concept.
nothing wrong with being yourself. the only reason people are uncomfortable with girls and body hair is because its not usually what girls decide to do. as long as your happy with your body, dont let anyone bring you down. i respect the fact that you can do this and not feel embarressed Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Not my thing but hey your decision your opinion n no one should tell ya wtf to do with your own body rock it if you want to fuck what people think
so many threatened little man children in this thread. women who don't shave are rejecting patriarchal beauty standards and that terrifies you, so sad.
I don't mind a bit of arm hair and I prefer a full bush, (blame the 70s) but if she has pits like mine and/or back hair, that might be a deal breaker...
Personally, I think it looks gross. On the other hand, I'm a man with really long hair, a beard that is quite unruly during the winter months, and more body hair (especially back) than is acceptable on any mammal besides maybe a bear. I'm sure lots of women find this a turn off as well, but I don't give a fuck. Hell, I'm married and my wife doesn't seem to mind it. Moral of the story: look how you want. Just because some of us (me included) think women with excessive body hair looks kinda gross, you're not hurting anyone with you choice. That being said, I would give a word of caution on encouraging your daughter to not shave (can't remember if you said you have a daughter, or if you said "if I had a daughter). Society is very cruel, especially children. Trust me. That being said, if she so chooses to do so as well, all the power to her.