Here's my story I moved out of my hometown for work and now had a chance to start anew. Anyways I met a girl I really liked and she kindof jokes around with me alot, tickling me, poking and shit and she is even a gamer like me. Its real cool. But now she is seeing this other guy I live with and it hit me hard expecially cause they took my old bed to make a double bed for them to sleep . I can't look at her the same anymore, I dont know why it bugs me so much, it is my fault I missed the clear ass signals she gave me to go for the kill. TL;DR Oneitis disorder hitting me hard. How do I get over it? Oh and it doesent help I dont drink or smoke so she prob thinks I am a big dork. I dont want to drink cause then I look weak for not supporting my decisions. Maybe im being a little stuck up? Need help bladez!
Dont be hard on yourself. Take it as a lesson learned and how to do things differently in the future. When a girl shows interest, reciprocate
Wow you guys reply fast, Thanks guys for the support. Lessons have been learned, its just hard to think that way when you almost had the prize. Fuck man I just feel like a loser when everyones partying and drinking and Im like Nahhh man Boring as phuck dry humping at a bar with sweaty dudes and chicks
She never had the same feelings mate, if she did she wouldnt of got with the other guy if she liked you. Even if she did like you, she changed her mind pretty quick and went off with someone else, I think you had a lucky escape.
No ones a loser for anything as long As they don't hurt other people. Your life and your choice. There's no standard to follow. What you think is right is the only thing you should abide by.
I met a lot of hot girls and messed up chances with a good number of them. Most of the time it was my fault, others it was just circumstance. I say fuck it and don't screw up the same way again.
Nah man don't sweat it. Just cause you don't drink or smoke doesn't make you a loser. I don't drink or smoke tobacco...well okay I drink rarely. But still, just move on..and let them be happy. All you can really do at this point.
You're not a loser, you just dont like being packed into a room with a bunch of people with erections.
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sounds like one of those you are better off not being involved situations. but yeah I understand you bro. I don't drink either and I got shut down tonight because of.. in fact specifically because of it. also wtf they took ur bed? like you sleep on the floor now? that's not cool
Some good advice so far, hope you can get back to smoking without getting the anxiety. And go get your bed back dude!
Dude, I completely get you but you know what? You have a roof over your fucking head and food on the table every day. Plus you can toke. You should rarely compare but just this once, imagine being a somali pirate who are basically forced to do all that fucked up shit just to have a fucking meal. Imagine being in fucking syria or any of those other middle-east countries and suddenly being flung into a world of bloodshed and warfare for shitty reasons. Imagine tons of people starving every fucking day. Imagine people trying their best to avoid suffering and knowing they will probably never get out of the shithole their in. You're one of the luckiest people on earth. Doesn't matter if you or other people think you're a loser, at least you're not in the same predicament as the people I mentioned above.
You're not a loser man. Nobody makes all the right moves and I feel like most people have at least one story of missed opportunity. Also, you're better off not touching the booze.