Hi, im a first time grow this year and i got these two plants. They are close together which may perhaps be the problem? But when i planted them , i did so 2.5 " apart but they got big and bulked out and now they are like this. For a while they were doing amazing, smelled good , no issues, then all of a sudden i find the leaves like they are in the pictures and all that you see. Whats happening and how can i fix this? ALSO can you tell if they are male or female for me?? Thanks!