Ok blades.. I fell deeply in love with a foreign exchange student from germany. So much so that I agreed to be in a long distance relationship with her for 7 months until she returned. Obviously the sex life was a little dead. Anyways getting to the part where I fucked up.. I come from a beach town. Girls are always posting pictures with there ass hanging out and being sexy in general. I would never touch them and have never been attracted to them in anyway except a sexual way. A few I had dated in the past (gradeschool bullshit nothing real) and I screenshotted a few of them so I could zoom and what not. I know, kinda pervish but I thought nothing of it. Until today when my girlfriend was looking at my phone and saw all of them. She was very upset.. i tried to explain that they meant nothing to me except that I sometimes liked to look at the pictures when I was horny.. she thinks that she is not enough. I feel terrible inside and I have no idea what to do.. ive never felt as deeply as i do for her.. any help/advice is much appreciated. Thanks for reading this novel . TLDR: screenshotted pictures of random hot girls/ friends in bikinis on instagram, girlfriend saw them and is very upset. Sent from my SCH-I535 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
You'd be a bad cheater. Edit: lol sorry. Ya just gotta apologize and let her know u love her and that you screwed up and that u won't do it again. And if u do do it again then don't let her catch you. ( lol I said do do ) It shouldn't be a big deal anyways but if she does break up with u who cares? She's from Germany. Long distance usually never works. Just watch how I met you mother. Sent from my U670C using Grasscity Forum mobile app
That is the exact moment where you went too far. I'm assuming she knows that you know these girls so why in the actual fuck would you tell her that you like to look at them when you're horny? You basically said "When you're not around, I like to think about fucking these other girls that I know" *facepalm* Good luck squirming you way out of that one, man.
I think she's being a little ridiculous. Id tell her that you are free to look at anything you want, you have not had any physical contact with anyone. Everyone cheats in their mind a little. It's impossible not too. Tell her you will quit looking at things like that as soon as she starts sending you photos like that.
Shit Iv been with women with more porn on their computers than mine. Women get horny and get nasty too. She is being overly sensitive.
I don't have a problem with my man looking at porn or going to strip clubs, but it would really hurt me if he was looking at real women, like women who are somewhat realistically accessible to him...like, not porn stars or celebrities, strangers, or unattainable people.
Thats totally reasonable and I realize I fucked up and hurt her.. thats why I feel so terrible.. it was never like I would actually attempt to have sex with these girls or pursue them because I fucking hate their personality and think they are judgemental bitches. Its just porn is so fake to me and it was so hard to get her to be sexual over the web cus she felt like a slut and other things so I screenshotted pictures of girls I know and would sometimes look at them when masturbating or whatever. The thing is that is just fantasy though I never would cheat on her its not who I am and it breaks my heart to think I ruined something with someone that brought me so much happyness just because I was fucking horny and wanted to look at pictures of girls I knew because it made me hornier than looking at porn.. I guess it was the weirdness that turned me on idrk.. none of the pictures were naked from girls or anything it was just pictures on their social media and such. I feel so weird about it I deleted it all but I dont know if it will matter now. Shes going on vacation for a week tomorow then she is leaving back to germany on the 7th.. Sent from my SCH-I535 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
My wife does the samething. Hopefully she will forgive you amd.y'all can move forwars it yalls relationship. .................................................... I dont do drugs, I set plants on fire and breathe.
Yeah I was just stressin' hard the other day. Getting myself all worked up. Had a few ABV brownies and I'm feeling like everythings gonna be alright, great way to take a break from my t-break hehe.