I've been dating this girl for weeks. We really like each other a lot. She doesn't like weed at all. She knows it's not bad for you, or anything etc. she just hates the fact it's illegal, and she doesn't know I smoke myself, but How should I tell her without pissing her off? I mean, I've got my own place so me getting caught isn't a big chance anyway Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum Sorry if this is the wrong forum, I'm new to grasscity.. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
next time you are giving her head take a huge rip and blow it directly into her vagina! just kidding bro lol you should just be honest about it. is she like anti weed or something?
Tell her sooner rather than later. Better to find out now than later on down the road when you get caught (because if you stay with her. She will find out one way or another). Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I337 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
I would go with something along the lines of "Hey, so I know we've kind of talked about your views on marijuana, can I hear your viewpoint one more time?" Or some shit like that, since you already kind of fucked it and didn't tell her sooner it's best to get some feelers instead of entirely blowing your shot. Depending on what she says you can go from there, I'm sure you aren't stupid and you'll figure it out for better or worse. If she's completely against you smoking, then you kind of have a shitty choice, her or bud. I'll say two things about this scenario... 1. Your weed won't ever cheat on you and break your heart. 2. Bud is always cheaper than dinner for two and 30 fucking dollars at a movie theatre. That's just one night. When was the last time you smoked $60 worth of bud to yourself in a night? It's probably been a while since that's just impractical. I'm not saying don't date this girl because of date costs, but if you prefer to smoke weed then you should really just be honest with her. There are ways to get what you want, but if she hates you for it she's shallow and she's not the one for you. If people marked people off for one small thing, nobody would ever be together in a relationship because it's a fact that nobody is perfect. And the one's who seemingly are... are typically cereal killers. Another thing you could note is that with 23 states with legalization for medical marijuana and two states with it legal for rec use, it won't be long until the rest of the country realizes how much money these states are making for their other programs and follow suit, in my opinion. All-in-all if you like smoking weed, don't give it up for somebody else, make it a personal choice, because like I kind of said above, if she's breaking your heart, and you're opting out of weed, you're going to have a rough time, my man. 4:20 btw afk
Just tell her you smoke. I wouldn't want to be with someone that gets angry over something as trivial as that. Also wouldn't want to be with someone if I even have to worry about making them angry.
Maybe you aren't right for each other if a trivial issue like weed is unapproachable. It'd be awesome if she's down but being honest from the get-go will save you hella heartache in the long run.