so i developed feelings for this guy ... one of my best friends really. He knew about these feelings and played me .... then decided he was going to "move on". told me pretty much flat out that he never wanted to talk to me again and that he dident want me holding him back from turning his life around ( he moved in with his best friend and his friends girlfriend ... turning his life around my ass ). also he told me that her could never show me any sort of affection because he would never feel that way about me, his heart still belonged to his ex and he had no feelings for me at all ... then blamed me for him treating me like a whore. so as you can imagine i was pretty fumed , crushed , insulted even either way we dident talk for 2 weeks and i was just starting to get over him ... he texts me out of the blue like nothing ever happened and of coarse i was curious as to why this guy who said i was holding him back from life was talking to me again. so ( bad idea #1 , but two weeks isnt really enough time to get over someone ) i had him over ,you know stupidly thinking he may have had a change of heart. So he comes over were sitting on my bed ( bad idea 2) he lays down next to me , wraps his arms around me and rests his face up against my side ( im sitting up , and completely dumbfounded at this point ) and he asks me how my day has been. ok this kids about as cuddly as a real bear ... he dosent cuddle even when things get intimate. now of coarse ... shit happens! ( ok im really bad about forgiving people ... and shit i still have feelings for this guy ) but! after he was still affectionate after , holding my hand ... more cuddling he couldent stop kissing me goodbye ... anyways Grasscity , what is it that turned this standoffish bear of a guy ,into a cuddly teddy bear ... im not complaining just confused as all hell ... is he actually haveing a change of heart or is he just after sex .... again ... -.- ... atleast he wasent a selfish lover this time i apologise for ranting
I say fuck him op. This is what I think happened. I think he met another girl while you two were doing whatever. It didn't work out between him and said girl and now he's come back. If you take him, he's probably gonna do the same thing. Just being honest. I say don't fall for the trap.
He's a guy. He either ran out of prospects and settled for you, got tired of beating off and wanted sex, or he realized that he enjoyed spending time with you more than he thought he would. But I wouldn't count on the last one since he seems like an asshole.
Exactly. He probably just wanted to hookup and get his dick wet. Plus you're the one that forgave him and invited him over to chill on your bed. Why are you so confused? I think you're being more confusing, in a way. lol just playin... But he said that shit and treated you like that, then you gave in and let him "use" you in a way you know? Or did you also just want to hook up with him? He probably ISN'T the same guy he was when he was on your bed trying to hookup with you (that sweet, lovable, cuddly bear), and is still probably the same asshole he was before. I dunno why you were "dumbfounded" at the time. It should have been pretty glaring what he was after... Of course, I dunno the guy personally. This is just my take on your story.
thanks yall , i guess i was hopeing that he maybe did have a change of heart , maybe hes just had time to think about how he can actually get under my skin ( or in my pants for that matter ) without revealing his true motives. atleast i know now
Manipulative jackhole isn't worth your time and feelings. He used you because he was horny. He doesn't give a shit about you, and I know you have a case of feelings for him, but you shouldn't give a shit about him either. Move on, and don't talk to him. You can do better OP.
Haha guy is obviously playing you fooled you once shame on him..fooled you twice shame on you Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum