there was this girl i was seeing for a few months, i was looking for someone to fool around with, she said she was aswell, eventually she started getting to clingy and i let her go, a month after i called her back since i was feeling lonely, then after a few more months i decided to break things off with her now im not very good with people since i have mental disorders so i thought it would be best to do it in a city park for some stupid reason and had to leave her there once she started crying and didnt say a word for 5 minutes, i walked away pulling my hair feeling so bad and almost cried myself when i got home and realized what i did she was such a nice girl and no one has been this into me this much before, but i couldnt get into a relationship with her since i wasnt attracted to her i have been emotionally alone for so long and then had to kick this extremely nice(but immature) girl away because i couldnt feel anything for her makes me wonder if i am cursed to find the same attractive but evil girls and then turn away from the not attractive nice souls totally feel like shit so i needed to vent
Well if you were gonna be a tool to her it's probably best you let her move on. Look at it this way, she's learning a life lesson as are you..... soooo yea there's that haha Sent from my LG-LS720 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
I wasnt being a tool we just went into things with an agreement it was just for fun and no emotions, she didnt go through with it
didn't go through with what? Not getting feelings from fooling what? What did u expect? She obviously must have really liked you, I say u should of given the relationship a shot Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum mobile app
He said he wasn't attracted to her, so why would he get in a relationship with her? It's just wasting both their time because it would surely end. Try not to feel bad OP, you're not an ass hole for whatcha did, you can't force yourself to like someone, well you could I bet, but you SHOULDN'T.
You did the right thing breaking up with her now instead of later. If you aren't both into to the other, it isn't going to work, no matter how nice she is or how much she likes you. But you probably should have done it in a more private place, so she didn't have to feel like you were humiliating her in front of strangers. Only thing worse than having to cry is having to cry in front of people. Word of advice though: let her move on now. If you get lonely again, she is not the one you call. Call anybody else. You broke up and got back together with her cause you were lonely and horny before. It didn't work out for you then and it made things worse for her.
you shouldnt feel like an asshole homie. you both made it clear from the beginning you were both looking for a fuck buddy. unless you gave her hints you may be interested in a relationship, i wouldnt worry about it Sent from my iPod touch using Grasscity Forum