"I think he/she is cute" is a completely natural free thought and is not objectifying. It shouldn't matter as the thought itself is subjective and private, there is nothing wrong with that and that alone should not become intrusive, if it does that is an entirely different problem.
Thinking someone is cute isn't objectifying. By objectifying I mean something like "damn, look at that ass/them titties/I want to fuck this person/nice bulge/ect"
Sexualization is still not objectification. And still, the point remains that it is a thought, even if you consider it derogatory how do you propose you censor it? It may be gross but they are free to think that, again I'll say that the thought itself isn't a problem or intrusive and if a person does become intrusive that is an entirely different problem which obviously isn't gender specific.
i've been hit on by ugly women before (as i myself am not very pleasing to look at), and..it's -, it's something I'd prefer to just never have to go through again. that being said, I realize if I were to compliment a woman (on anything, because its only a compliment if it comes from someone good looking), I understand how she may interpret that to mean 'gross this creep thinks hes on my level', SO, in order to keep everyone happy and the world a turnin, I just pretty much don't do that ..now if an attractive woman were to objectify me or hit on me.. i'd probably tell her she got me, she got me good, but the hidden camera crew can come out now and i'll say i've been punk'd for the camera
Wait, wait wait...... aren't you into women exclusively? Or more into women than men? This is a nonexistent issue for you as you look at women just as men do. As a means to your own sexual gratification and maybe love. But I am betting more likely your desires
Seeing someone for their sexual attributes and not as a whole package is objectification. And I'm not saying a thought can be censored. Just don't make yourself obvious and don't think that doing it is just and okay. Don't get your panties in a bunch if a woman has something to say to you staring at her in places she isn't comfortable being ogled at.
Just because I prefer women doesn't mean that men don't constantly hit on me. And I don't look at women the same way a lot of men do. I like looking at pretty girls but I can't help but feel guilty if I have my eyes glued to her ass for too long or something. I don't sexualize random girls I see in my daily life just because I find them attractive.
You just don't like men hitting on you. OK well thats you. Do you or have you ever looked at women with desire? Do you or have you ever thought a woman is hot and want to get with her? Do you ever think of the hot things a you would like to do to a woman or her to you? Answers yes yes and yes. Sorry lady you have similar traits as a straight man like it or not. It's just ok cuz you're a girl right? Humans act on impulses and male to female desires just as female to male desires. If those desires, courting and dating were eliminated then the human race would seize to exist. Get over yourself.
Nothing more than a fetish and still arguably natural. Only the most extreme would see somebody as a "piece of ass" or "nice dick" exclusively. Objectification is more extreme than domination. This is not something people naturally do and attractions do not orbit around that alone. Both men and women court each other based on attractions and scrutinizing them with extreme general contempt because some people do not respect personal boundaries or are ignorant of empathy shouldn't skew you view on it as a whole. In contrary to what you said earlier it clearly is a gender thing to most of you feminist.
I would answer no to the last one. I think fantasizing about someone who you don't know whether or not they'd be alright with it is a bit disrespectful. My first boyfriend felt the same, which is why he said he could only jerk off to women in porn. Thinking someone is hot isn't the same as visualizing her on top of or beneath you. And please don't compare me to a straight man. I am nothing like you.
You are once again talking about thought crime. Your reasoning takes empathy to outright inhuman levels. This is cancerous to progress.
I'm sorry no girl wants to think of you jacking off to her. Maybe try becoming more attractive and getting the green light from a girl before busting a nut thinking about her.
Bahahahahahaha Ohhhhh yes you are you are just in a female body, Lack a penis etc. Personally I couldn't give a fuck about whether people are Straight, Gay, Lesbian, BI. We are all human. However women that are more into women are more like straight men then they would likely ever admit when it comes to sexual desire. Fact remains you objectify women whether you admit it or not. In your thoughts, fantasies etc. Get over yourself.
Just relax hermione, soon you're going to wake up and no one will hit on you all day. Enjoy it while you have it
Build that strawman and light her up with ad hominem, If you think that it's disrespectful for someone to be attracted to someone who doesn't want to be attracted to you are a thought fascist. The world will never be the extreme feel good hugbox you want it to be but what you want is something that stands against human nature and reason.
Ohhhhh BTW this was you wasn't it? Ya that was you. Still on your high horse? Could likely find more in a simple search but I am slightly buzzed and have to pick up my child from school. Oh ya and that wonderful beautiful little girl came into this world because of mine and my wifes desire's/obectification of the sexes. Thats all I have to say in this thread.