So I'm hoping some off you blades have some useful tips or pointers you could share that help you last longer while doing the deed. My S.o. and I have great sex....sorta.....my only complaint is that he gets a great rhythm going and almost immediately he has to stop or slow down so he doesn't bust. He says it's because I'm so tight...idk.... It wasn't much off a concern before but it's been like this for 5 years! I would like to have great sex without having to stop or slow down so often. So....any advice?
Tell him to jerk it more often or something so hes not as full/sensitive. I have the exact opposite problem lol dont jerk it and still hard to bust unless she rides me Sent from my SM-G900P using Grasscity Forum mobile app
He needs to picture in his head that you are a fat smelly bearded lady with a yeast infection. Tell him that.
Tell him to take a shot of hard liquor before sex, it will work. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
I don't want him to do it alone but this morning I did him before he went to work (I made it all about his pleasure, I didn't O) so I'm hoping that will help him last longer tonight. If he pictured that I doubt he'd be "up" to the challenge of pounding me properly. The ol' whiskey dick trick! Idk off that's something he can do everyday though. Lol
Well can he get it up still once he has came? If so give him a bj till hes off then keep him up and get to business.
He says after he cums it's really sensitive, so he doesn't like to cum until after me. On the occasions that he had finished first, I finish myself with some assistance from him.
tell him to get really high and fuck u. It works for me cause one moment im all over fucking the shit outta the pussy hole. then my mind wanders off and i forget im fucking so i last longer. lol idk
Unfortunately he doesn't smoke weed anymore But now that you mention it, a few weeks ago he vaped a little and the sex was mind blowing! But due to work, he can't smoke very often.
Alright, check it out. You're boy has an imbalanced pelvic floor. His pubococcygeus (PC) muscle is likely tense through out the day and he doesn't even notice. If you don't know what I'm talking about it's the muscle you use to do a kegal. So what happens is years of jerking off and having sex has caused him to tense his PC muscle as a habit when he reaches close to ejaculation. The only way he's going to learn to last longer is if you explain to him how you're feeling. If he doesn't think there's a problem he will just continue to do what he does...but if it's been 5 years and he still hasn't taken a hint he must just be fucking oblivious. Steps to balancing your pelvic floor... 1. Reverse Kegals are essential. It may not feel like you're doing much but after a week or so he'll begin to realize how tense he's been down there. 2. Diaphragmatic breathing (belly breathing) through out the day will help relax his PC muscle by doing a light reverse kegal with out even realizing it. 3. Pelvic stretches such as the butterfly or others you can easily look find on google or youtube. 4. He needs to stop kegaling all together. No more holding his cum back with a kegal, instead he should practice relaxing his floor has he gets closer to ejaculation. Obviously it would be hard to tell this all to him...so maybe just give him this link and tell him to check it out (if you guys are cool like that). http://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/49636-pelvic-floor-balance.html \t
Thank you! I will most definitely show him the link you provided. Hopefully it's the solution to our little problem. And he isn't oblivious, it's a sensitive subject, so I've never made a big deal about it and like I said our sex life is great aside from this one issue. I finally got up the nerve to speak about it and was hoping I could discuss this with him and have some helpful suggestions ready to go.
Yes it is a very touchy subject. The link I provided can actually be quite intimidating with all the information available. You just need to be clear with him that he needs to actively work on this. The problem with bringing stuff up like this is usually it means the sex isn't amazing, and that can lead to him being even more insecure. Now you say the sex life is great besides this one issue, but doesn't this one issue make your sex life not...so great.
You could always try a desensitizing lotion. I suggest you get the condoms with them inside though, because it can desensitize you too.
Absolutely not true. Do you think Tiger Woods just "had it"? He may have had SOME talent, I admit, but that motherfucker got good from hitting thousands upon thousands of golf balls at the range. Most of the time when someone is good at something, it is because of practice and persistence. Granted, there are some things we just can't be good at because of what we are given. If OP said she wanted a bigger dick out of her BF, then she would be shit out of luck. To that extent you only get what you are given. But if you take the time and focus and apply yourself... You can become good at just about anything you want.
Read what I posted on this thread OP. Hope it helps! http://forum.grasscity.com/sex-love-relationships/1296486-finish-too-fast.html EDIT: Never mind, someone else hit the nail on the head earlier and I didn't see it! Good luck!
the average male cannot last longer than 7 minutes.... just saying. Also this is kind of stupid. most girls don't want to be drilled for an hour straight. foreplay ,foreplay, foreplay. I am not even kidding. you're girl will not complain if you can eat dat pussy and make her cum then hit her Gspot and make her come. iv always been on and off about how fast I cum. but here are a couple tips. 1. position is key, when you are missionary you will cum faster. every time I guarantee it. have her ride you, if she is a cool chick she will help you build some stamina this way. she can ride you until you are about to cum. pull out wait,and then repeat. 2. Breath mother fucker! when you hold you're breath the bod goes into squirt mode. 3. When you masturbate make sure it isn't to just squeeze one off. Practice going longer and longer. go at different paces or pause until you are ready to start again. 4. Use lube when you jerk it !!!!!!!! from what I understand most men who have this problem are dry men when it comes to jerkin it. so when you enter a nice female you are not used to warm squishy and you get all spunky and shit ya know?