Ok so my boyfriend went through my phone one day and he saw a text from a dude that doesn't even live in my state anymore saying I love you. Now I never felt that way towards him nor have I ever said it to that guy. Now I figured since I just got back in touch with this dude and cuz he lives faaaarrrr away so nothing would even happen that I figured it was no big deal and so I just ignored the issue. My bf got mad and broke up with me even though I never did any thing wrong...was I wrong to not tell him and was this really worth breaking up over!!?? Its so stupid.... peace love and bud
Put yourself on his shoes..it's a shitty thing to find..you fucked up by still talking with a dude that has these feelings for you...just move on
I actually started ignoring the person thr day before. He kept texting ne and coincidentally texted while ny bf was on my phone peace love and bud
Its most likely less about this specific guy and just that you were talking to someone. Yeah, move on. Trust is gone which means all the fun will be gone. Next time if you actually like the dude youre with just dont talk to guys like that.
While reading this thread I just kept getting a vibe. That had that guy said i love you and lived closer you would have tried to hang out with him and something would have inevitably happened. Your ex bf is a senstivie jealous man... "Now I figured since I just got back in touch with this dude and cuz he lives faaaarrrr away so nothing would even happen that I figured it was no big deal and so I just ignored the issue" Who got intouch with who? and nothing WOULD happen but most definitely could Da nile isn't just a river in egypt
he messaged me first. I love my boyfriend. And he has done far worse things but yet when I don't even really do anything but text this dude maybe once a day.....all hell breaks loose....I know I shouldve told him but this is something that coulda easily been worked out but idk who is more wrong.... peace love and bud
It really depends. Is that all it said, really? Did your boyfriend know about this guy? Is he your friend? I have exactly three guy friends that I am not opposed to saying "I love you". However, I told my boyfriend about them, let them meet him and he's fine with our friendship (to an extent).
same thing happened to me, thought i had a friend, dude thought he had a lover, never gave him any hints or anything and he knew i was in a relationship. all i was, was nice to the guy and then he confesses his love for me much like that random i love you that you got, so started ignoring him. my boyfriend saw the texts from him and got upset. i explained to him what was up and showed him how i stopped trying to converse after dude got lovey dovey. he was upset and didnt like the fact that i just ignored it instead of saying something but he didn't break up with me. he called the guy and put the fear of god in him tho. i can see why he would break up with you and would have to respect my bf decision to dump me if he did. the trust was broken and that shit is HARD to get back in a relationship. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
I was in a similar situation with my ex. She could text anyone, talk to anyone, and could do no wrong. The second a girl texted me she would flip! Actually she would flip for anything. Kind of can't believe I went through that for 6 years. Anywho back on topic; You could remind him that you stayed by his side when he fucked up, and also that you did no wrong since you didn't tell the guy you loved him too or anything like that. The only thing you did wrong was not tell him at first. But seriously, unless you left some details out, I saw no wrong with the situation on your part.
I told the story just like how it happened....me and even two other people told him that he was wrong and that I didn't do anything....I don't understand him sometimes. I got him to try and rethink things I hope he comes to his senses. Me and him have been together for a while and wow man I'm sorry to hear about that. People are such hypocrites peace love and bud
Well in that case, fuck it. I know that sounds harsh, but trust me. Everytime I reached my breaking point, I would remember that I loved her and not break up with her. However finally I realized that even though I loved her, I couldn't spend the rest of my life with her. The decision was hard, but I'm glad I made it.
You could always try throwing him into a hole in the basement....but that would also involve a rope, a basket, lotion, and skin
I would have liked to have been told personally. No one just out of the blue says the love you so there had to be some kind of conversing a bit past the friend level. Idk my gf tells me everything whenever she gets flirted with, whenever she gets free food or drink while she's out lol, whenever someone asks for her number etc. I don't always like to hear it but I'd rather she'd tell me when and that she's getting attention so I don't have to find out myself. I mean i've been that way when I tried to be friends with a girl just because she approached me first but once her intentions turned to something more than friends I let my girlfriend know
see I told him everything too but I mean again this person luves far away and I was not interested so I didn't think it was a big deal but I guess it was to him peace love and bud
You see with the current standard of females fucking their boyfriends, and the current frequency of relationship making and breaking is high, no pun, so the statistic says if you talk to this dude, the sex isn't good enough. Or why else would you go talk to a guy. There is such a thing as emotionally cheating and that's when there is no physical contact however you're not being 100% with him. If he's giving it all he's got and you turn to initiate talking to another guy, it doesn't appear that you were giving it 100% otherwise you wouldn't have any room for another guy, because he would be all the man you need. Maybe he just wasn't good for you. Sent from my Nexus 7 using Grasscity Forum mobile app